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  1. jimjam

    What is war?

    War is a reallocation of resources. Usually it's the government taking the resources from the governed. It's no secret that wars are started whenever a government needs money. The characters involved and the setting are just that: characters and setting. Do you think we really go to war to...
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    Spinning plates

    Gentlemen, What's the most plates you've spun at one time? How do you keep track of them? I had two going and i found myself confusing what i told one with what i told the other, conversations blending together, etc. I can see this erupting into a grand fiasco. Any advice is...
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    What is it with women??

    I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm not attempting to befriend the whole city. Really, who cares if these a$$holes answer me or not. I'm only trying to be courteous and observe a modicum of civility, if you will. I don't want or need any friends. And there are quite a few fatties out...
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    As Men, Why Do We Take This?

    I am 100% behind you with your thinking. Something needs to be altered with the family courts system. My son's mother makes 2x as much as me, yet my support obligation % is higher than hers?!! WTF!! Whenever I spoke to a lawyer about this----and there have been many----it's as though they don't...
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    What is it with women??

    While I'm out walking, I've been trying to say "hi" to everybody I see: men, women, young, old, whatever. I've noticed that the fatter and uglier the woman is, the more b!tchy and icy her response to my salutation. Older women and older men are the most friendly. Most men after that. Then decent...
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    Help me make this happen

    You're right. I've often thought, "am I still attracted to her or just the way things were at one time?" Really, I have no idea who this person is anymore. Hell, I'M not the same person now as I was back then. Still, I can't help but be intrigued. I sometimes wonder what happened to other...
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    Help me make this happen

    Gentlemen, The story is that I used to live with this girl just out of college. It was all AFC and oneitis but, whatever, it is what it is. We had a bad breakup, at least it seemed that way at the time. Looking back, it doesn't seem all that bad now. Anyway.....lost touch with one another for...
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    I got LJBF'd

    Gents, I had a date with this one a week or so ago. Wound up getting head on the couch. She began acting kind of flaky afterwards and this can be attributed to me having trouble getting it up and also not fvking her. Whatever. I never expected to hear from her again. Anyway, wound up...
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    Nothing to Lose, Need Suggestions

    FRENCH FOREIGN LEGION!!!! All the way. Damn, I wish I could go with you. However, I'm 42 and I have MS. Let me know if you find something that wakes you and shakes you. The everyday workaday life seems so......fake. hiding in a trench with bullets flying over you while you're just trying...
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    Bitter after divorce w/ kids, advice welcome..

    I don't think I could add much to the good advice already posted here. I'll reiterate what was already offered. My son's mother dumped me two months after she was pregnant. Tried to have me totally out of her life. She nailed me for as much support as the court would allow once she found out...
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    Prize Mentality vs. Genuinely Being a Prize

    This reminded me of something by Bukowski: “If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don't even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could...
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    Red Flags fom POF??

    You're right. I initially suggested to her that we meet on Tuesday. "I'll meet you on Tuesday at your place," were my words. She said she was busy with something. OK, I said, you tell me. I realize I should have told her that Tuesday was the only day I can do it. Like I said, I'm seeing her...
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    Red Flags fom POF??

    Not to keep harping on this,but she is the one who texted me with "What's up?" I felt like calling her to ask if she was trying to be funny. But I kept it light, playful, tried to see if she wanted to meet at her place. Her answers were "Yah" and "Nah" to the days I suggested. Finally agreed on...
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    Red Flags fom POF??

    any insight you may have to offer, that is....
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    Let's make a list of what makes a woman low quality

    HaHa! These lists could be ascribed to any woman I've dated and/or married!! How about collects weird knick knacks like pokeman dolls. Or, one who feels jilted because they never went to art school and fulfilled their childhood dream so they sit around watching cartoons all day...
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    Red Flags fom POF??

    OK. Well, you were all correct. I could tell she was DTF as soon as I answered the door. We began watching the movie, were soon all over each other. She was nasty. By that I mean a nasty, slvtty type girl. Which is okay, I suppose. anyway, more on that later. To continue...next thing I know...
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    Blacks, Gays, Lesbians, Feminists etc. are always crying.

    I'm crying just reading this thread
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    Red Flags fom POF??

    Dudes!! Gentlemen.... Had a nice hummer on the couch. So, yeah..... I know gentlemen shouldn't brag on these things, but you all were right on with the advice. But she got flaky when she left, like she couldn't get away from me fast enough. I thought I'd never see her again, which is ok...
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    What culture are you creating in this forum?

    Right on! Agree 100 percent
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    Let's make a list of what makes a woman low quality

    More than three sexual partners? Find me a woman who had less than ten! Really. Where are they?
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