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    A RANT: Share why you are p!ssed

    Meanwhile...ALL the way back to the original post: <<<<<<<< This just in from CNN affiliate WVUN >>>>>>>>>>> Earlier this evening, our sources report that random sitings have been made in New York City of yet another guy who has been described as incredibly "PISSED OFF". In fact, some have...
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    The importance of intimacy and it's relationship with trust.

    Yo LovelyLady, I tried to Rep you for this great post, but the "system" wouldn't let me. Say's I have to Rep somebody else for a change. Oh well, anyway...I just wanted to say: "Yo LL, way to rock "The Mic"!" (Sorry...I just had an 80's flashback). :crackup: And to Brother RESET...
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    The importance of intimacy and it's relationship with trust.

    Intimacy is REAL. But what exactly IS this definition of INTIMACY that I speak of? It is the desire for connection, to know and to BE known. It is a NEED to matter. And as a result, the Fear of Intimacy is also just as REAL. But it is an adversary, a stalker; a potential Soul-Killer that...
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    The Fear of Intimacy Thread

    Intimacy is REAL. But what exactly IS this definition of INTIMACY that I speak of? It is the desire for connection, to know and to BE known. It is a NEED to matter. And as a result, the Fear of Intimacy is also just as REAL. But it is an adversary, a stalker; a potential Soul-Killer that...
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    "the rules" of FWB

    SunnyD, The guy is not the one who's attached. I fear that the attached one is you. I just think that your time would be better spent either pursuing, or making yourself more proactively available to "be" pursued. This whole FB/FWB thing just seems like it's too risky a propositon for you...
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    An obvious post

    The Victory Unlimited New Recruit Briefing: Consider the information you get here as WEAPONS for you to sample. Pick out a few, try them out, use them on a few FIELD MISSIONS, THEN decide whether or not THAT weapon is worthy to be added to YOUR arsenal. If not, then throw it away and yank...
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    "the rules" of FWB

    Yo SunnyD, Reading in between the lines of your posts here lead me to believe you are NOT in any kind of emotional state to even consider such an abstract form of "relationship" WITHOUT getting hurt. In short, I believe you care TOO MUCH about this guy to sufficiently protect yourself...
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    Rapport

    Great post, GURU! Yes, Rapport is a very important aspect to building and sustaining interest for almost ANY type of relationship. Rapport is a direct pathway towards discovering the existence or non-existence of an underlying CORE COMPATIBILITY between two people. Or, to attempt to flesh...
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    LTR Forum Thread ?!?

    <<<<<<< This just in from CNN Affiliate, WVUN >>>>>>>> What with the recent outbreak of arguments among the brothers and sisters of So Suave over whether or not they should add to the community of Message Board "Buildings" by erecting a new forum, the matter has been officially kicked up to...
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    How to Spot a DJ

    <<<<<<< This just in from CNN Affiilate, WVUN >>>>>>> Due to a recent outbreak of suspiciously AFC/Wannabe Player threads and posts ocurring on So Suave, the National Board of DJ Authentification has issued an ALERT. Earlier today, warnings went out to all members of the So Suave community...
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    The myth of the single woman

    Yo Keto, Just to be clear: My questions were NOT meant as ANY kind of personal attack on anyone here. BUT my questions WERE meant to try to discern what some of the possible mindsets might be that COULD be at play underneath-----AND most importantly, what would those who hold this belief...
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    The myth of the single woman

    I have some QUESTIONS: If a man truly believes that actually ever encountering a "single" woman is now a MYTH, could that indeed now function as a "mask" that he conveniently wears out of a lower form of "self-preservation? And could this "mask" be something that prevents him from...
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    what is wrong with me

    Yo JON3947, I usually don't get time to post here in this forum, but I felt like I had to MAKE time for this one. So listen up, soldier: There once was an "old" sitcom show called Seinfeld (not sure if you ever watched it...). But ON that show there was a character called "George"...
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    Red Flags and Phrases to keep an ear for, with examples:

    Yo Troops, How about this one: "Take the rubber off, I just wanna FEEL you inside me!" :up: Many years ago, during my youthful days of almost COMPLETE ignorance of "some" women's bait and switch tactics, I once dated a woman who encouraged me ONCE to do it "without" the condom. She...
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    My journey out of the Matrix.

    That's GREAT NEWS, Romangod!!!!! :up: Continue to make your life COUNT, my friend------because I believe that there is a great number of people COUNTING on you to positively impact their lives in ways that YOU may not even be aware of yet. AND-----realize that we all may NEVER know just...
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    The four zones women place men

    <<<<<< This just in from the CNN affiliate WVUN >>>>>>>>> Our roving reporters have just uncovered yet ANOTHER "zone" women tend to want to put men in. But the location of this "zone" appears to have been kept undercover due to fear of causing controversy. News of the existence of this zone...
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    An email I just sent. Did I do anything wrong.

    The Victory Unlimited New Recruit Briefing: Consider the information you get here as WEAPONS for you to sample. Pick out a few, try them out, use them on a few FIELD MISSIONS, THEN decide whether or not THAT weapon is worthy to be added to YOUR arsenal. If not, then throw it away and yank...
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    slow learner

    Yo Tris, MAC, is right. And so is EVERY OTHER man who has posted in your thread. And as you have just posted yourself: YOU know that the advice that's been given to you here is correct. What you're dealing with here is an apprehension or an unwillingness to go through the unplugging...
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    slow learner

    Yo TRIS, Welcome BACK to the War, soldier. You have to keep your wits about you out here, man. What you seemed to have encountered was a woman who had low interest in you. She probably went out with you because she thought she could use you like a hobby, a pastime, or a last resort. Not...
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    The Forced March

    Great Post, INTERCEPTOR! Very timely words, indeed. And I personally needed to hear it---THANKS. I'm at a point in my own life right now where I'm faced with the decision of maintaining mediocrity or advancing forward into areas of potential EXCELLENCE (most prominently in the areas of...
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