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    How to: Fall in love?

    If you're doubting that you'll ever find someone you can be ultimately happy with, then live your life as if you honestly never will. You probably will find someone along those lines; if it doesn't happen until you're in your 40s, that's fine. The key is to NOT look for it. I'm 38, and didn't...
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    I know, AFC move!

    Maybe she's met someone in the past 1.5 years who lives in your area, or an old friend of hers now lives near you.
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    Recommendations for lounges for 1st/2nd dates in NYC

    Vol deNuit in the Village. www.voldenuitbar.com
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    A goodlooking face or money is everything. Not being Don Juan.

    Or you can just leave this forum without looking back.
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    Men who don't like sports

    I was over at a friend's house the other evening, and in passing I mentioned the NY Giants as well as the MLB playoffs. His response was "Well you know me, I couldn't give a sh!t about sports." Great guy he is, as straight as 6 o'clock, but he doesn't seem to carry himself with much alpha...
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    Eat pray puke

    To those who have cited The A-Team as a good example of no-nonsense men of action on tv back in the '80s: good call. The '80s era really was the last bastion of unabashed, unapologetic manliness in Hollywood. Every now and then I mention to my wife how I wish Hollywood would introduce to us a...
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    Oh My God Shes Pregnant

    To the OP: all the best to you, your son, and your woman. Hopefully you'll marry her and have a great marriage, and in turn, give your child a great family life. It's not just about providing financially; it's also about being there. As someone whose first child is to be born in 2 weeks, I ask...
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    Where are all the quality ladies?

    Ever watched the tv show "Cheaters" and seen the women who've been caught cheating? The times I've watched, none were an "HB9." Different kinds of women who cheat do so for varying reasons...weak moral fabric, their man can't/doesn't deliver, she's a nympho, etc.. It doesn't depend solely on...
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    Where are all the quality ladies?

    My wife being as beautiful as she is obviously caught my attention, too. I didn't mention it before because it should be a given. Why would I have approached, dated, and married a woman whom I thought was unattractive? Now, is she an "HB10" by Hollywood media standards? Probably not. Now, do I...
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    Are men who go to strip joints "creepy"?

    You don't need to pay to get an erection.
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    On Masturbation...(Good article)

    Masturbation and porn should be avoided like the plague. Sure, masturbation is a "normal" function that we've all been designed for; but then again, pornography has never been as accessible and mainstream as it is in this day and age. The mainstreaming of porn is another step in the...
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    Where are all the quality ladies?

    All good points. The position some guys here hold about women just being malleable creatures who can be corrupted if put in the wrong type of environment is an oversimplification. Contrary to common belief around here, some women CAN and DO think for themselves. One of the things that drew me...
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    Are men who go to strip joints "creepy"?

    My friends and I used to go to a strip joint about once a month when we were 19-21. Haven't been to one since then. Paying to get hard. What a waste.
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    Do some women really prefer stripping to being a wife?

    That's nothing new. Through the ages, there have been women who have preferred being a prostitute to being a wife. It's better that such women be honest about such things and stay away from even trying to contend for a wife/mom role, rather than becoming a wife/mom and do a horrible job...
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    Telling my wife I will be hanging with friends as a test?

    Nah, I realized shortly after I created this thread that such a test is just a mind game, and I'm not down with that. As for how things are going...they're going great, and I realized that it was all in my head. I had been doing some thinking about how old girlfriends lost interest as I slipped...
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    Telling my wife I will be hanging with friends as a test?

    Let's hope Ramsay doesn't later regret that. Millions of women fantasize about him because he's got 1,222,846 tv shows, he's watched by millions of people, owns over 20 restaurants all over the world, is rich, and is not a bad-looking guy. If you're a committed husband and father, though, it...
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    Females recognizing/responding to AFC behavior: nature or nurture?

    I came across a thread in the Archives in which people discussed their biggest AFC move. After reading a few of those tales, I felt compelled to share in that thread what I still think is my biggest AFC move of all time, which took place when I was a high school senior way back in 1990. The...
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    HARD times...

    I know this problem all too well. My two suggestions, which are based on what has worked for me personally: 1. Get your testosterone levels checked. They might be low. If you need to raise T levels, I highly recommend doing so naturally by taking Tongkat Ali. Forget the supplements you see sold...
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    Wanted: Your Most AFC Move

    In September 1990, I was a 17-year-old high school senior who met and fell head over heels for an awfully cute 10th grader named Monique, who was 2.5 years younger and new to the school. She was very pretty, great to talk to, and even had the same main interests as I: heavy metal music and...
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