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  1. J

    Need advice

    so what's your gameplan for now mate?
  2. J

    Need advice

    the reason you're behaving like this is because you have nothing to occupy yourself with. maybe absorb yourself in something. it will help you focus on something else instead of centering your attention on her. and i don't think it's the L word that scared her off though. unless you used it...
  3. J

    Need advice

    i suggest you really take it easy. lean back a little. you're smothering her dude! and she's finding it a little hard to breathe. you should have let her head out with her mates without acting like an obsessive freak. i mean if you know what kind of person she is, and you trust her, then there's...
  4. J

    WE need to make an AFC Forum

    yep, this discussion board was meant as a means to help AFCs get over their AFC-ness or at least improve themselves with the advice from the true DJs on the board. i've been here for two years, but i must say, i gather something useful every time i log on. =D everyone's been an AFC at some point...
  5. J

    FR: Out at the pub

    well said mate. couldn't agree more!
  6. J

    How powerful is "IGNORING"

    Women crave affection and attention. i give them some, i romance them, i show them how wonderful life with me is... then i leave, and their world is cold and gloomy. (mind you, i don't do it on purpose, i'm genuinely too busy with school work and other things in life.) then just when they are at...
  7. J

    My GF is looking pale - how to tell her?

    my girl's asian, so i guess it's natural for her to be fair. but i've teased her about it before. "OHMYGAWD. i couldn't tell the difference between you and something out of the Addams' Family!" -gasps and covers mouth with hand, with mock look of horror. she got a tan. i put it very...
  8. J

    Something I am REALLY curious about - who exactly ARE you guys who post here?

    I'm 19 now, found this forum after my break up with my high school teacher years back. (she was 28 and i was what? 16?) =D i was a downright AFC douche but the guys on this forum really helped me get my life back on track. And never now, is there a girl i am interested in who doesn't have...
  9. J

    Shapoopie's Golden Key to Kino

    hahaha, it's all in my signature. good post nonetheless. this point of not putting a woman on a pedestal cannot be reiterated enough. kudos.
  10. J

    URGENT! When you catch yourself getting needy with your GF?

    When you are not needy is when you couldn't care less for the outcome. and "spinning other plates" as it was so crudely put, is one way not to be attached to the outcome. because you have other pieces on the side. now that all your hopes are pinned on one girl, you can't help but worry. you...
  11. J

    She keeps referring to me as a friend. HALP!

    well, all that's it for now, i'm not gonna be attached to the outcome. simply gonna play it cool, like i normally would with any other girl. see how it flows. i'm not expecting anything though. if it happens, it happens, if it doesnt, then that's aiight, i wasn't expecting anything in the first...
  12. J

    She keeps referring to me as a friend. HALP!

    thanks for the feedback guys. i don't know what the heck she's doing. but yeah, subtly letting her know i'm not gonna date a girl with a bf? how should i go about doing that? a little more background, we're currently in the same lecture as well as tutorial group. so been talking to her pretty...
  13. J

    ex-ltr need advice

    yup i think it's a good idea to just start off by sending her that text asking her to send you the proj. texing is good. shows her you couldn't care enough to call her. and she won't think it's wussy that you texted cause of the way you ignored her previously. so that's fine. good luck with it...
  14. J

    She keeps referring to me as a friend. HALP!

    hey dudes, got a quick question. HB 8 who's also got her game on. C&F-ing me indirectly. she probably doesn't know she's doing it. she flirts with me and yet she refers to me as a friend. and in 11 days, it will be her 3rd year anniversary with her boyfriend. my god. she did tell me...
  15. J

    "Your like the male version of me"

    her : you're like the male version of me. me : pfft. -looks mockingly shocked. i know you love me hon, but stop trying to find things in common with us. is that the best you can come up with? turns away and acts exaggeratedly pissed off. it usually gets them stuck for words and laughing...
  16. J

    C&F Does not work for me...

    Hey MetalFortress you're absolutely damnning right. this guy aint doing c&f, he's negging her. and neg hits dont work unless with the bloody gorgeous HBs. because everyone else will be licking their feet and suddenly you blow them away with a neg hit. styleman, you said this: Me : "Yeah...
  17. J

    how would this come off to her?

    HAHA. nice one saki. yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either. whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit. all the best with your...
  18. J

    Do i say i LOve you or not

    I agree with Bad Ass, either you love her or you don't. remember deangelo said "Attraction isn't a choice." you can't CHOOSE to love your girlfriend. it just happens. but don't say you love her if you don't wholly mean it - just to calm her down. because even though you might say it...
  19. J

    Should I pursue her ? (2)

    well in this case man, seriously do what you effing well like. if you feel she's worth the bang, then so be it. if you feel she's "below you" then so be it. it's really up to you. cheers to whatever you decide to do. :whistle:
  20. J

    gf happy not spending too much time with me.

    hey mates. my girlfriend is a tad queer. usually my previous girlfriends would be all upset when i can't spend much time with them, but this time it's different. we're in the same uni but hardly see each other during weekdays. is that abnormal? she's usually hanging with her mates and i...
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