ex-ltr need advice

[sebastiaany]

5 months ago ltr brokeup with me(my mistake-i've became needy,clingy,etc in just 2 months..'till then whole 8 months i was the price,had the power,etc).

We broke up and i cut all the connections with her.
After 2 weeks she send me an sms with the message"i love u fool"..thx to Guli advice I ignore her sms(she wanted just an ego bust).

3-4 weeks ago she im and she say smt "neither with u neither without you"...next she begin to ask me if i'm feeling fine,if i missed her,etc..implying that i'm hurt.
I didn't play alone except i say to her:"yea i know what u mean..i miss myself too,even if i live with myself 24/7"then after 5 min gtg i'm busy..bye.

Last nite she send me another sms:"Are u feeling fine without me?cos i see that my feelings for you are in a latent stage!smt strange happened today regarding us..kiss"

Somebody can translate me what she was trying to do/say and what should be my next move?And why she never mentions that she want to see me and talk?just playing games with my mind?

I want her back but for not for an ltr again(i'm "dating"5 other girls,sleeping with 3,i've learn my lesson).

I was thinking to send her an sms on sunday and just tell her that i need a project she did a few months ago and to send it to me thru mail(she knows that i need the project from the time we were together..that's why she choose the same subject as mine so i don't have to work).

Thx for your time and sorry for my "great English".

 

[Tomatoes]

Sounds like a good next move to me. Just keep her on the back hand.

 

[jakeyboy]

yup i think it's a good idea to just start off by sending her that text asking her to send you the proj. texing is good. shows her you couldn't care enough to call her. and she won't think it's wussy that you texted cause of the way you ignored her previously. so that's fine. good luck with it. do update on the situation!

 

[sebastiaany]

Thx for the reply guys.
I'm not going to call her cos it would be incongruent...in 1 year i called her just 5-6 times i think(4 times in those last 2 months)..just an sms will do.
Probably she wants to see if she still have control over me...i'm not expecting to hear from her again at least 3 weeks from now..but let 's see.
i'll keep u updated.
thx once again.