Do i say i LOve you or not

[Sato21m]

Here is the deal i been with my GF for 3 months. She told me "i love you" more than a month ago. She still loves me alot but i could sense that she is scare i havent tell her i love her yet but she is been getting kind of sensitive lately.

She tells me its ok i only want you to say it when ever you feel it, i dont feel it yet, but i know i could get to love her. Anyways would you guys say even thought you dont feel it just to calm her a lil or when ever your ready?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

If you do, say it back... if you don't then i think you need to rethink your relationship. I don't fully understand the whole "I could get to love her" part.

Either you do or you don't.

It's not something you can just decide, It's something you know deep down.

 

[flexion_]

There is no grey area here.

 

[jakeyboy]

I agree with Bad Ass, either you love her or you don't. remember deangelo said "Attraction isn't a choice." you can't CHOOSE to love your girlfriend.

it just happens.

but don't say you love her if you don't wholly mean it - just to calm her down. because even though you might say it verbally, your body language might convey otherwise..