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    One woman's opinion on the perfect man

    "...What do women really want in a man? ... Love me unconditionally. No strings attached. He will love me for who I am, without caring about my eye color, hair color, height, weight or bra size. Be totally and completely honest with me, even at the risk of hurting my feelings. If he...
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    Am i being too strict?

    Under those circumstances, I'd bail too. What you might want to consider is not physically "NEXT" ing them, rather mentally and emotionally nexting them until something better comes along. Be advised that this takes a bit more strength and strong personal 'boundaries', since you'll basically...
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    DJ Tips From a Women Played !

    Clint, you shrewd and sarcastic DJ! For a minute there, I thought you were being serious.
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    DJ Tips From a Women Played !

    The topics were assembled in this order: 1) Attitude/Confidence 2) Emotional Control 3) Looks (healthy self-image) 4) Masculine mannerisms 5) Sensuality 6) Sex Subconsciously these were assembled and addressed in rank of decreasing importance.
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    GE wrote: "[you] are at risk of outsmarting yourself." Now there's an understatement and I agree. This whole thing took an unexpected turn in the restaurant and now I feel like I'm tap dancing on a beach ball that's balanced on a bowling pin. After the non-response to the romantic...
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    "That which does not kill me, makes me stronger" True, after the strong interlude with the sexy Asian girl this past January threw me for a major loop I thought I was down for the count. Iif only I could get Lucy's stability, integrity, caring and main personality traits into Mona's face...
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    No, I don't have a date Saturday night and as far as sex with Lucy, I hope that happens later, not sooner. Put it this way, I plan to delay her as much as possible. Of course, if she's naked on my sofa after I return from the kitchen with a plate of nachos in my hands, then it might be hard to...
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    The way I was feeling about the situation yesterday, I couldn't have cared less if I never saw either of them again. Karen is prettier but I must admit Lucy has more personality and seems to be more on the ball. Either way, if the whole thing blew up I could have easily walked away from this...
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    Banging Lucy would be nice, but Karen is prettier. I have not yet hit on Karen since I only talked to her briefly at a party and never had the chance to even get her last name, much less her phone number. We'll see how this plays out, but I look at it this way: I was still really bummed...
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    I give this relationship another six weeks. Or less. She'll be all over me for the next, oh, two weeks or so. Then things will slack off, then she'll actually start resenting me for trying to dump her. Then she'll turn into a shrew. If it takes that long. I'm simply hoping to run into...
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    Update on "My dilemna"

    Previous post here: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=25943 Well, I called the doctor's office, but they never heard of Karen. Dang. I tried other possibilities and came up with nothing. So I decided my only course was to come clean with Lucy about our...
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    "The Ladder Theory"

    Apologies if this was previously posted. If you haven't yet seen this it is a great site Note: I put an asterisk (*) where an o would normally go, so that the address would post. You'll have to replace the asterisk with an o to visit this site...
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    Avoidant Personality Disorder

    ADPGuy (actually, that should be APD) it's very good that you recognize you have a problem and are willing to not only admit it, but have volunteered for treatment. This in itself shows you do not have the full-blown and much harder to correct "disorder". People who have real disorders have a...
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    Time to ask for her number...Been going to this cafe a while now (advice needed).

    Actually I practice a lot with my inflatable dol...er, yeah, I talk to parking meters. Yeah, that's the ticket...PARKING meters. Yeah. LOL.
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    Time to ask for her number...Been going to this cafe a while now (advice needed).

    Ask for her phone number for YOU, not her. In other words, win, lose, draw, success or failure, you're speaking the words "Hey, what's your home phone number" in her direction, and clearly so she can hear it, for YOUR OWN SELF ESTEEM. The fact that there is a 10% (or less) chance that she'll...
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    Time to ask for her number...Been going to this cafe a while now (advice needed).

    alboh, that's what I based my advice on! His original post: "So I've been going to this cafe for about 4-5 months now..." "We've had a couple very short meaningless conversations while she was makin my drinks..." "She knows me as somewhat of a regular..." He's already established...
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    Time to ask for her number...Been going to this cafe a while now (advice needed).

    Hate to do this, but I'm gonna disagree a bit with some of the advice. Don't try to date her before dating her. I've talked to girls for 5-10 minutes after first meeting them then asking for and getting their number. Talking about your hobbies up front is like trying to date her before dating...
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    Time to ask for her number...Been going to this cafe a while now (advice needed).

    Four or five months, huh? It sounds like you've been waiting that long for HER to make a move so that you don't have to plumb the depths of your insecurity and risk rejection. You like going to this place and think if she shoots you down then it will be awkward going in there again and then...
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    Getting over negative self talk

    The fact that you've identified the problem and WANT to do something about it means you're already well on the road to a better you and recovery. You may have "Avoidant Personality" traits, which dog many these days. Sometimes there is a basis in anger and depression that causes these...
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    Marriage

    You should be with someone for 4 seasons before even THINKING of marriage. In other words, one year. The 4 seasons thing came from soldiers stationed overseas for a few months, or who only saw their girls in the summer months. It can also be a good rule of thumb for students who spend...
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