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How do you deal with her? The same as you would any other girl, by being a gentleMAN and appealing to her femininity and innate sexual desires. Should your question have been: "How do I break her of the belief that she should save herself for the man she marries, on their wedding night?"...

I work in a very 'progressive' office, where my supervisor is a black woman with a law degree. The woman I am describing is my supervisor. My supervisor has HPD with some traits of Borderline. I have also dated a lot of women in my life and have run across Histrionic / Narcissistic /...

jnallen wrote: "This is what she will feel after she comes to her senses." WRONG! This type of woman never 'comes to her senses'. They spend their entire lives in a vicious cycle: 1- carefully cultivate a very attractive, charismatic personal style meant to seduce a man at any...

That's better. You are in a pit so deep you think down is up. Be forewarned that crawling out of the quagmire you're in will be a long road, but a good one. You will want to backslide along the way. You might stumble in spite of your best intentions. You must be true to yourself, which...

Oh puh-leez! It's also the Jews' fault that their relationship didn't work out with Adolf Hitler, either. It's Pompeii's fault they couldn't get along with Vesuvius. Okay, I suppose it's okay to wallow in your cesspool simply because you've been there so long you think it's your...

Typical. And sad. Sad that throughout your entire post, you barely talk about YOU and what all this has done to YOU. Once again in this last post all you worry about is HER. Oh, poor thing. The truth is you're very uncomfortable talking about you. You'd rather talk about her and how...

Based on this incorrect sentence, I'd say you haven't been thinking/feeling normally for a long time: "As far as my ex she was a very sweet person until she lost interest in me and ran off with a cop" You need real, professional and objective help. The road will be rough, lonely and...

JN, right now YOU have no ability to rescue anyone. You're caught in a double-bind. On the one hand, you feel that you can't do any better. You are an empty shell and feel that any self-respecting woman could never love someone like you. As Groucho Marx once said "I'd never join any club...

In a previous response you said something like "In there somewhere is a sweet girl". Wrong. The sweet girl you see is a very carefully crafted persona that she projects to new people she meets. The reality is that women like this inside are NOT nice people at all. The REAL her, the real...

Histrionic. This woman has abnormal emotional needs far beyond what any one person could give her. Her basic problem is a combination of lack of esteem and self-hatred that is so strong, she can't stand to honestly look at herself for a fraction of a second. The moment she begins to...

AGREED! I too started thinning in my early twenties and now I'm really thin. I've never EVER had a woman comment on it and I too have dated some hotties. By the way, I've discovered what stops falling hair: . . . . . . . . . "the floor" (drum rimshot)

I built up this Jeep as well. The engine is 350 V-8 from a 1978 Z-28 Camaro. 4-bolt crank, pre-pollution heads from a '68, RV cam, Edelbrock manifold, Accel electronic ignition, Holley dual pumper, headers and dual exhaust all the way to the back. It is lifted 6" with 33-12.5 Thornbird Super...

I have a new Acura, loaded. Silver with grey leather interior, premium sound system with 6-CD changer, wood inserts on dash, center console, doors etc. I also have a slightly beat-up 1983 Jeep CJ-5 that's seen many muddy trails through the woods around here (FUN!). It has no heater, no...

Have you ever met this woman? Dana is an extremely pretty 23-year old young lady. A delight on the surface, she has an uncanny knack of presenting herself extremely well to the target audience she wants to impress. She has a corresponding almost magical ability to make people feel verrrry...

Re: Good topic For six months I dated a very pretty girl who had this disorder. She was gorgeous, but get this, had never NEVER had a relationship in her life, and I was the first guy who ever even kissed her. She had long, flowing black hair, flawless complexion, 36-24-35 figure (I...

Do a Google (www.google.com) search for 'Avoidant Personality'. You might resonate with some of the criteria, but be aware that you probably have some of the TRAITS which can be reversed. The good news is that you recognize a problem and as the old saying goes, "Recognition of the problem is...

Even after sleeping with many women in my life, there is still that 'awkwardness' with a new one. You're under the mistaken assumption that having sexual experiences will somehow rid you of anxiety. [buzzer sound] Every woman, every situation, every 'time' is a first time. When the time...

New Holiday Every 14th of February DJ's get the chance to display their fondness for the woman who has proven herself worthy of gifts, flowers, dinner, shows and any other baubles that women find romantic. So what about us? Where is the special day for women to show appreciation for the MEN...

The standard answer is that unless you've been dating exclusively for at least 3 months: nothing. If you've been dating for a couple of months: a humorous card NOT one of the pink lace flowery ones dripping with barfalicious poetry. In short, do less than she expects. It's better to...

Reinventing Yourself, Part 2 Week 4 Look the part. What do your clothes and appearance say about yourself? ”Everyone is like a butterfly, they start out ugly and awkward and then morph into beautiful, graceful butterflies that everyone loves.”-- Drew Barrymore By now you're familiar...