Okay, I am trying not to hog the board. IBut just though I would share tips from someone who was played bad.. I have gotten a lot of pms on the matter...So listen up: (sorry it's so long and I am sure there are lots of typos ect., I just got on a roll and kept going) Hope it helps some!
-Attitude.. is everything. Act like you own it and it is yours. Every woman I know out there that is hot, is tired of wimpie weenie ass men. Men who don't know what they want and ask stupid questions, "like I don't know, what do you want to do..." " I don't know" I don't Know" GRRRRRR.....Drives me crazy. Women may say they want caring, sensitive men but we don't. We want a man with a plan. The kind of man that is going to push us up against a wall and take us. At least this is what the really hot chicks want. We want strong, sexy, confident, strong men... basically, your perfect stud
JK. I want it all. And say dump the wimpie weenie ass and go for the kill. If you don't have it then start pretending you do but not in an arrogant, jerky way. Your confidence is not about being rude. There is a big difference and in my opinion real DJ's are the perfect gentlemen. They never lose their cool or raise their voice. They have everything under control and see life in a very positive way. The world is theres. So be careful not to take attitude for snite ****iness. It takes a special man to pull off ****y and while you all may disagree really hot women don't like jerks. Men who are mean to the waiter, or cause scenes at rest. or raise their voice or say really cruel things to them. May work in the short term but she will grow tired and leave. Unless she is a nut case without any self respect at all. Then if that is the case, why would you want her. Unless getting laid is your objective) So moving on....
-Along with confidence comes another very important aspect of attitude. And even with the attitude if you don't have this you won't ever be a true DJ... I call this "Being Zen"... i.e, keeping your cool at all times and doing things never rushed or hurried but half as slow as you normally would. Never raising your voice. I mean have you ever seen a figidy, uppity, high strung DJ. No! Eat, talk, walk at half the speed you normally would. Start really tasting each bite of food. Savoring the smell, taste and texture. Start thinking about and choosing your words carefully, when talking to women. Pause, hesitate... Act like you are the coolest man alive. You are not cool, fonzie but just cool, zen and relaxed. You are at peace with yourself and the world. Nothing can break you. She will sense that and it will comfort her. Plus, most woman are the opposite. We chat all the time, are typically, social butterflies and the like. This is a hard one to explain but I suggest taking up martial arts. This guy was a national judo champion, black belt I guess.... and I think that having years of training really helped him. Plus he is very succesful and dedicated in many areas. Like most DJ, he is very successful and dedicated and is proud of the goals he has achieved. Including, women Bottom line SLOW IT DOWN. DON"T RUSH ANYTHING. PAUSE BEFORE YOU SPEAK. AND EVEN IF SHE GETS BOILING MAD NEVER LOSE YOUR COOL. STAY CALM AND JUST SMILE AND EITHER AGREE WITH HER OR SAY NOTHING AND MOVE ON.NEVER APOLOGIZE OR SAY YOU ARE SORRY. JUST LET HER QUESTIONS OR ANGER DROP TO THE FLOOR.. SHE WILL LOSE HER COOL ESPECIALLY, WHEN SHE REALIZES YOUR DJ WAYS AND THAT SHE ISN'T GETTING HER WAY.... THE HOTTER SHE IS THE MORE MAD SHE'LL GET.... I MEAN SHE IS USED TO MEN LAYING BENEATH HER FEET. SHE IS USED TO OWNING AND TAKING WHAT SHE WANTS. SHE IS SPOILED ROTTEN BUT NOT THIS TIME. SHE MAY LOSE HER COOL BUT DON'T LOSE YOURS. DON'T EVER SAY ANYTHING MEAN TO HER EITHER. I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH THOSE TACTICS. THE IDEA IS TO BE A CLASSY MAN, A REAL SMOOTH MOVES TYPE THAT IS NOT A JERK. HE MAY ON THE OUTSIDE SEEM LIKE A JERK BY NOT GIVING HER MORE BUT SHE WILL NEVER HAVE ANY PROOf. THAT WAY WHEN SHE COMES DOWN on him SHE NEVER HAS ANYTHING TO COME BACK WITH. AND WOMEN ALWAYS TEND TO TAKE WHAT YOU SAY AND TURN IT AROUND ON YOU. SO THE LESS SAID WHEN SHE STARTS GETTING WIND OF YOUR DJ'S WAYS THE BETTER....And if she does get flipping mad, that you can't see her on the weekend or that you won't give her more.. just let her vent, wait a few days and call her during the week and act like nothing. Women hate this but you never said anything to her to hurt her. You never actually admitted or said much of anything. So, while she may still be angry she still wants you... get it.. sorry this is so long...moving on.
-LOOKS... not going to talk to much about this. Just do the best with what you have and make sure you don't have anything bewteen your teeth. And for the record, women love bald men.. even really hot chicks do. One of the hottest men I ever dated shaved his head. He wasn't totally bald but had that shaved head thing going on. Everyone at my firm was gaga over him. Might have also been that sountern accent... sigh... made my knees wobble. Also, be careful with the jewelry. I usually hate it on men and this guy would wear these pieces from budapest or wherever and silver rings. I mean maybe if he were 18 and in a band but hes 35 and it just looked stupid. The necklace still kills me. I mean the rings I can deal with. I suggest no more that 2 pieces max. And no big diamond gold rings. Hot chicks will never go for that no matter how much money you have.
-Movement- OK movement is very important. I have already said how important it is to slow everything you down a notch or two. Now here are some things that really got me going. 1.) lean into her when you talk or when she is telling you something about herself. tilt your head a little and put your ear up close to her and say.. yes, and look at her smiling while she speaks. Like you are listening to her every word but you have a smirk that says I am going to rip your clothes off and take you. It is a very old movie and I don't suggest watching it for all dj's tips but 9 1/2 weeks with Mickey Rourke.. rent it and watch it just for the staring tactics... and movements. the way he leans into her and looks at her. I don't know a hot chick out there that wasn't wet as can be after seeing that.
-Touch- Touch is very important. When at a bar, my DJ would put his hand between my legs. We would be on stools and very close to one another and he would of very slowly just sort of massage my p****. We would be talking and he would be talking to other people sometimes women or friends and then suddenly, lean in and catch me by surprise, kiss my neck or lick ever so slightly and ask me in my ear, whispering,' do you like that". WHile at the same time giving me a very intense stare. He was always touching me. THe first time was our second or third date and he was holding my hand in the car and staring at me while we drove to the rest. and put MY hand on his ****. I couldn't believe it but it was rock hard. He didn't say anything at all and just sort of glanced over at me. Then took my hand away and put it back on my lap..he was always either giving me kisses on the neck while out and would do this from behind catching me off guard. He also once at a bar, unzipped his pants. I was on a stool next to him and I slid my hand into his pants and felt him up. ANother thing he did was once he told me before going out to wear a sheer blouse not exactly, sheer but something where my nipples could be seen through....I did and he played with them in from of everyone at the bar. It was very sublte and later on he in detail would explain how much it turned him on to feel my nipple against his arm...
Sex- Well I am exhausted... Basically, this man would first tell me or email exactly, what he planned to do to me. i.e he was going to walk in, kiss me against the door, bend me over, tap my P*** until I was begging for it. And slide over my g-string... These stories were really graphic and hot but he didn't start them until after we had sex thef first time. It was the best and hottest sex I have ever had in my life. See Sir. Chant.'s bible section on this. That man has it covered. I will say though that my DJ would ask me to wear something really sexy and even onced messengered a really sexy outfit to me with a note saying,"will you have this on. I plan to be there at 6." and that's it. I couldn't wait to see him. If we were going out, he would say very slowly and sweetly, "will you wear a dress, and I want you to go commando okay so that I can touch you and feel how wet you are, okay, sweetie,, will you do that for me" And of course, I did..
Lastly, this guy mastered the open ended questioning and used a lot of long hmmmmmms,, like he was turned on,, or long pauses on the phone... spoke very slow and calmly.
A women's own DJ experience
-Attitude.. is everything. Act like you own it and it is yours. Every woman I know out there that is hot, is tired of wimpie weenie ass men. Men who don't know what they want and ask stupid questions, "like I don't know, what do you want to do..." " I don't know" I don't Know" GRRRRRR.....Drives me crazy. Women may say they want caring, sensitive men but we don't. We want a man with a plan. The kind of man that is going to push us up against a wall and take us. At least this is what the really hot chicks want. We want strong, sexy, confident, strong men... basically, your perfect stud
JK. I want it all. And say dump the wimpie weenie ass and go for the kill. If you don't have it then start pretending you do but not in an arrogant, jerky way. Your confidence is not about being rude. There is a big difference and in my opinion real DJ's are the perfect gentlemen. They never lose their cool or raise their voice. They have everything under control and see life in a very positive way. The world is theres. So be careful not to take attitude for snite ****iness. It takes a special man to pull off ****y and while you all may disagree really hot women don't like jerks. Men who are mean to the waiter, or cause scenes at rest. or raise their voice or say really cruel things to them. May work in the short term but she will grow tired and leave. Unless she is a nut case without any self respect at all. Then if that is the case, why would you want her. Unless getting laid is your objective) So moving on....-Along with confidence comes another very important aspect of attitude. And even with the attitude if you don't have this you won't ever be a true DJ... I call this "Being Zen"... i.e, keeping your cool at all times and doing things never rushed or hurried but half as slow as you normally would. Never raising your voice. I mean have you ever seen a figidy, uppity, high strung DJ. No! Eat, talk, walk at half the speed you normally would. Start really tasting each bite of food. Savoring the smell, taste and texture. Start thinking about and choosing your words carefully, when talking to women. Pause, hesitate... Act like you are the coolest man alive. You are not cool, fonzie but just cool, zen and relaxed. You are at peace with yourself and the world. Nothing can break you. She will sense that and it will comfort her. Plus, most woman are the opposite. We chat all the time, are typically, social butterflies and the like. This is a hard one to explain but I suggest taking up martial arts. This guy was a national judo champion, black belt I guess.... and I think that having years of training really helped him. Plus he is very succesful and dedicated in many areas. Like most DJ, he is very successful and dedicated and is proud of the goals he has achieved. Including, women
Bottom line SLOW IT DOWN. DON"T RUSH ANYTHING. PAUSE BEFORE YOU SPEAK. AND EVEN IF SHE GETS BOILING MAD NEVER LOSE YOUR COOL. STAY CALM AND JUST SMILE AND EITHER AGREE WITH HER OR SAY NOTHING AND MOVE ON.NEVER APOLOGIZE OR SAY YOU ARE SORRY. JUST LET HER QUESTIONS OR ANGER DROP TO THE FLOOR.. SHE WILL LOSE HER COOL ESPECIALLY, WHEN SHE REALIZES YOUR DJ WAYS AND THAT SHE ISN'T GETTING HER WAY.... THE HOTTER SHE IS THE MORE MAD SHE'LL GET.... I MEAN SHE IS USED TO MEN LAYING BENEATH HER FEET. SHE IS USED TO OWNING AND TAKING WHAT SHE WANTS. SHE IS SPOILED ROTTEN BUT NOT THIS TIME. SHE MAY LOSE HER COOL BUT DON'T LOSE YOURS. DON'T EVER SAY ANYTHING MEAN TO HER EITHER. I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH THOSE TACTICS. THE IDEA IS TO BE A CLASSY MAN, A REAL SMOOTH MOVES TYPE THAT IS NOT A JERK. HE MAY ON THE OUTSIDE SEEM LIKE A JERK BY NOT GIVING HER MORE BUT SHE WILL NEVER HAVE ANY PROOf. THAT WAY WHEN SHE COMES DOWN on him SHE NEVER HAS ANYTHING TO COME BACK WITH. AND WOMEN ALWAYS TEND TO TAKE WHAT YOU SAY AND TURN IT AROUND ON YOU. SO THE LESS SAID WHEN SHE STARTS GETTING WIND OF YOUR DJ'S WAYS THE BETTER....And if she does get flipping mad, that you can't see her on the weekend or that you won't give her more.. just let her vent, wait a few days and call her during the week and act like nothing. Women hate this but you never said anything to her to hurt her. You never actually admitted or said much of anything. So, while she may still be angry she still wants you... get it.. sorry this is so long...moving on.-LOOKS... not going to talk to much about this. Just do the best with what you have and make sure you don't have anything bewteen your teeth. And for the record, women love bald men.. even really hot chicks do. One of the hottest men I ever dated shaved his head. He wasn't totally bald but had that shaved head thing going on. Everyone at my firm was gaga over him. Might have also been that sountern accent... sigh... made my knees wobble. Also, be careful with the jewelry. I usually hate it on men and this guy would wear these pieces from budapest or wherever and silver rings. I mean maybe if he were 18 and in a band but hes 35 and it just looked stupid. The necklace still kills me. I mean the rings I can deal with. I suggest no more that 2 pieces max. And no big diamond gold rings. Hot chicks will never go for that no matter how much money you have.
-Movement- OK movement is very important. I have already said how important it is to slow everything you down a notch or two. Now here are some things that really got me going. 1.) lean into her when you talk or when she is telling you something about herself. tilt your head a little and put your ear up close to her and say.. yes, and look at her smiling while she speaks. Like you are listening to her every word but you have a smirk that says I am going to rip your clothes off and take you. It is a very old movie and I don't suggest watching it for all dj's tips but 9 1/2 weeks with Mickey Rourke.. rent it and watch it just for the staring tactics... and movements. the way he leans into her and looks at her. I don't know a hot chick out there that wasn't wet as can be after seeing that.
-Touch- Touch is very important. When at a bar, my DJ would put his hand between my legs. We would be on stools and very close to one another and he would of very slowly just sort of massage my p****. We would be talking and he would be talking to other people sometimes women or friends and then suddenly, lean in and catch me by surprise, kiss my neck or lick ever so slightly and ask me in my ear, whispering,' do you like that". WHile at the same time giving me a very intense stare. He was always touching me. THe first time was our second or third date and he was holding my hand in the car and staring at me while we drove to the rest. and put MY hand on his ****. I couldn't believe it but it was rock hard. He didn't say anything at all and just sort of glanced over at me. Then took my hand away and put it back on my lap..he was always either giving me kisses on the neck while out and would do this from behind catching me off guard. He also once at a bar, unzipped his pants. I was on a stool next to him and I slid my hand into his pants and felt him up. ANother thing he did was once he told me before going out to wear a sheer blouse not exactly, sheer but something where my nipples could be seen through....I did and he played with them in from of everyone at the bar. It was very sublte and later on he in detail would explain how much it turned him on to feel my nipple against his arm...
Sex- Well I am exhausted... Basically, this man would first tell me or email exactly, what he planned to do to me. i.e he was going to walk in, kiss me against the door, bend me over, tap my P*** until I was begging for it. And slide over my g-string... These stories were really graphic and hot but he didn't start them until after we had sex thef first time. It was the best and hottest sex I have ever had in my life. See Sir. Chant.'s bible section on this. That man has it covered. I will say though that my DJ would ask me to wear something really sexy and even onced messengered a really sexy outfit to me with a note saying,"will you have this on. I plan to be there at 6." and that's it. I couldn't wait to see him. If we were going out, he would say very slowly and sweetly, "will you wear a dress, and I want you to go commando okay so that I can touch you and feel how wet you are, okay, sweetie,, will you do that for me" And of course, I did..
Lastly, this guy mastered the open ended questioning and used a lot of long hmmmmmms,, like he was turned on,, or long pauses on the phone... spoke very slow and calmly.
A women's own DJ experience
