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    Why do I not find my wife attractive?

    Sorry NewStyle, but the issue with your case isn't because she had low libido...it was because she had low libido with you. The fact she cheated on you should have been the reason for your divorce, not all the other things you identified. This is not the same as the OP's case of being married...
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    Help me interpret this test

    That doesn't sound like a plate, that sounds like a Fvck buddy scenario. If that is the case, then you are investing too much of your emotions and feelings into her. You shouldn't worry about deceiving her; she appears to be the one calling the shots and dictating the flow of this FB...
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    Silence , Distance and calling her out on her bull****

    This right here is key. Women love that emotional roller coaster; they live for that dopamine rush. If you allow yourself to engage in worthless quips, you are giving them positive reinforcement for their ****ty behavior which encourages them to do it again and again..seeking that dopamine...
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    Do you guys think a 40 year old can get with a woman in her 20s?

    I'm turning 40 next week; my plates are 24, 27, 28, 29, and 32.
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    Why do I not find my wife attractive?

    Also OP, some after-thoughts, if your wife is not feeling aroused enough during attempted sex, then the issue is you, not her. Remember, she is the blank slate, meaning she does not have any aversions or dislikes for any particular sex act; likewise she doesn't not have any preferences. She...
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    Why do I not find my wife attractive?

    100% agree. This is a blessing in disguise OP; now you and her both can explore your mutual likes. If you can't get it up, then that's more of a mental issue with you. If you are still watching porn, I would advise against it for a while. Realize that you can mold your virgin wife into...
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    Think I'm Finally Redpilled

    Sigh...had some hope for you OP. You've gotten some really good advice on this post and come back bashing the commenters and getting immediately defensive. You can chose to go with the suggestions and reading material recommendations or not...I'm done wasting anymore time on this thread. GL.
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    Think I'm Finally Redpilled

    No, that's not the reason. You were an "irrational, emotional horny simp" for a girl you've never met, because that is who you are. As others have mentioned, focus on yourself and grow from this experience. Jacking off has nothing to do with it. Do it if you want, or don't. What other's are...
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    Is new gf trying to make me jealous?

    Doesn't matter to me whether a woman is or isn't diagnosed. I don't have the time or the patience to try and figure out her issue. Bottom line: If she completely direspects me, like your "GF" to you, I'm done with her. It's not my job to figure out what's wrong with the woman. It's my job to...
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    Is new gf trying to make me jealous?

    The reality of things is women with actual, clinically diagnosed disorders are very rare. Once we start trying to rationalize a woman's actions by justifying it with a disorder, we have the potential to fall into the denial of red flags or seeing a woman as a "unicorn" when she doesn't display...
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    Is new gf trying to make me jealous?

    OP, there's no need to try and classify this chick into Cluster B, narcissist, or having a personality disorder, or anything else. None of that matters. What truly matters is she is completely disrespecting you, to your face. End of Story. She is doing so because you've allowed it to occur...
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    Do you believe the cancel cultures will go after old movies?

    They've already edited versions of Home Alone 2 to remove Trump from the hotel scene. That's the level of derangement they have now.
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    I just shot myself in the foot

    OP, it's clear this thread was started as a semi-brag about you being able to have your way with this chick. She is obviously your FWB, but from the texting, it is also clear you've started to treat her more than the FWB you claim. Everyone's response here has been constructive criticism...
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    I just shot myself in the foot

    She also needs to lick his ass.
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    Question about no contact -one itis

    No. And stop admitting that you see her Instagram pictures. Once she knows that you've seen her pictures, and did not like them, then she knows you are refraining from liking them purposefully. This appears butt hurt. The right response is you are way too busy to check your Insta and never...
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    Accidentally followed a girls friend on Instagram...****in fat thumbs

    Agreed, this is not why she went cold. If she had high interest in you, this would have caused her hamster to spin to the point she may have inquired you about it. The fact she never mentioned it either means her friend never told her, or her interest was already low so it didn't matter to her.
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    I just shot myself in the foot

    That's a lot of texting for a plate. Guarantee Chad won't be texting her that much; he'll be too busy at the gym or sleeping when he's not nailing her.
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    More upset about ex-plate than ex-wife

    OP, few things: 1. She doesn't have a new phone, she merely removed your contact and deleted all traces of you. In today's age, a new phone doesn't mean sh1t. All contact information is saved in the cloud. 2. She may or may not have a boyfriend. Stop pedestalizing her by saying she's more...
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    Always sell them the Dream

    Who says I haven't? The point of this post was not to establish what is transpiring between me and this plate; but to emphasize you must always sell the dream. I agree and am a big advocate of not wasting anyone's time, both mine or the girls; which is why I am very clear and upfront with my...
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    Always sell them the Dream

    A recent discussion with one of my main plates came up and I figure I'd give the forum a little insight into some of the mechanics I interpose in relation to plate spinning, potential exclusivity, and ultimately LTR. First, a little background about me and this particular plate: 1. I am turning...
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