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This txt was extremely needy and pretty much showed her you're still pining over her after 7 months of no contact. You have completely validated her and she is repulsed by you. As many other said in the original post, there is no going back. Stop thinking about her, and move on with your...

OP, you will learn soon enough, smashing chicks or dating is merely one aspect of being a man. However, if you truly loved yourself, you would never let any man or woman, disrespect you the way this one has. You need to focus on yourself first. This chick is utter trash. If you respected...

And this is why she is over you. A man leads, a woman follows. You are doing mental gymnastics to justify why it's not over. From this point forth OP, everything that comes of this relationship will be your own doing. There is only one path this is going. She disrespected your manhood, and...

OP, your relationship with this girl is done. She is trash. And you are whipped. Save yourself some dignity and be the first to walk away. I will tell you now, she will break you and destroy you on her way out. She will have no remorse or empathy towards you. The best thing you can do for...

This is why cold approaches are so important. You never know where a woman is in that moment in time. However, you will never make the shot that you never take. Most approaches, about 95%, will end in rejection. But there's nothing wrong with rejection; rejections merely strengthen a man's...

Correction...all women want to be led. The crux of the matter is, they want to be led by a strong, masculine man they can trust to lead. Women, even the die hard feminists, try to tear men down so they no longer respect them and ultimately see them as weak. Just like all women want to be led...

There isn't any loss of dignity in merely reaching out to a woman. You are a man, men lead. However, the loss in dignity comes in the context of your messages, versus the responses she provides. Unless a woman is extremely interested in you (typically after you have banged), you are merely...

You're asking two different things. Way over thinking it. Smash first, then see where it goes. You are playing mental gymnastics on a series of events that may not even happen even if you went for it. Stop living in fantasy and start living in reality; the reality of things is you guys have...

@BackInTheGame78 is correct, the constant is you. However, I will elaborate on why your claim in this post is partly true, but is still not the issue you are facing. It is quite true that western society has elevated and rewarded the victim mentality which is really what 3rd wave feminism has...

OP, tons of great advise given out in this thread already. Although I would hesitate on any that relies on you addressing the issue. In all honesty, this is now a lost cause and there is nothing to address. She is not LTR material, period; at least not for you. The harsh reality of this is...

This right here was your downfall OP. She brought you takeout to your place. No woman goes to a man's house and does not expect the man to make a move. If you did not instigate or even attempted sex here, you have sunk on her totem poll of men. This is especially true if you had kissed prior...

You validated her claim once you tried to explain yourself to her. There is no point explaining yourself to a girl you're barely "intimate" with; or most girls for that matter. Women don't want an explanation; it destroys their ability to use their imagination. A woman's imagination is your...

I almost feel like OP is a troll. OP, if making money was as easy as you want it to be; where no time or work input is needed..everyone would be rich. You've gotten some great advise in this thread, the only hinderance is the time and effort needed on your part in order to excel at it. If you...

Bottom line, our westernized society is too far gone as a whole. The morality placed upon women used to come from their fathers or the church. With so many dead-beat dads, or even worse, feminized dads, that ship has sailed. The church is all that is left. That is why westernized society has...

Stop being emo and go with it. Fact: she is lying. Another Fact: so what. Women are flaky and will always be. Even more so when they haven't invested anything in you. You spoke on Tinder and whatsapp. Until you sleep with this girl, you mean nothing to her. And in some cases, even then...

More worthless dribble from a woman who would hastily go sleep with the 30yo chad and not think twice. Fellas, stop worrying about what women think of us and start working on how you think about yourself. A woman's dating advice or opinions are irrelevant; all that is relevant is working on...

For the most part OP, I agree with your primary premise: Women are not unicorns and they are most definitely not above us. However, the part I disagree with is in regards to men working on themselves. We as men, must always be working on ourselves; that is what it means to be a man. We must...

Couple things jumped out at me: 1. You've been seeing her for a whole MONTH. This is nothing. Where is this whole making things "official" or exclusive coming from. If she has not stated it directly, or given the whole "what are we" discussion, then she has is not interested in it. Believe...

Refer to the fail safe, 16 Commandments of Poon: Commandment V. Adhere to the golden ratio Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of...

OP, you need to re-read this post and really take it to heart. EyeonthePrize really encapsulated what your personal issue truly is; you do not love yourself. You are seeking validation from her, and probably other women, in order to feel better about yourself. This explains why you're so...