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OP, the only person who will notice any type of muscle loss will be you. It sounds like you some body dysmorphia to work through; which is quite normal especially for guys were grew up skinny or fat their whole lives. You may possibly lose some strength, but it will be very minimal. If you are...

OP, based on your initial revelation that your family used to do this to you when you were younger, my observation is you are hyper-sensitive to these types of negative comments. I would garner to say that you have very deep seeded insecurities, probably stemming from your upbringing and...

OP, word of advice. The reason you are still thinking about her is because you are not completely over it. I can tell based on your last sentence. We as men, should have no hate, especially not towards someone who we are fully emotionally over. Once you accept that, it will be much easier to...

Women will deny guys for a myriad of reasons, however, just disregard what they vocalize and continue forward. Some women aren't looking to for a Fvckboy at the moment; some don't care. And some just deny a guy because they woke up on the wrong side of the bed that morning. Bottom line, a...

The bolded part is the only reason why she left you. The rest of your post about her looks vs. your looks is irrelevant.

I'm not a big fan on social media game since most women use thirst traps to garner validation from their harem of orbiters. However, to address your observation. Just like in real world interactions, if a girl finds you attractive and is into you, everything you say is witty and flirty; if she...

Great update OP; good luck to you.

You and I are ultimately saying the same thing. However, accepting their offer, especially after a month, is a far worse fate.

Yes, this is also the perfect time to bring about boundaries. My responses at this stage also go along the lines of: I don't think you're ready for a serious relationship yet...which leads right into the discussion of boundaries or things you actually want her to change. If a woman is into you...

That's not rejecting; that's indicating the rational and reasonable logic that it's too soon but may be possible in the future. Additionally, it also shows that you are not afraid to lose them if it doesn't continue to work out..such as them disrespecting you. As far as giving them carte...

Women will always bring this up; the critical variable is what is their true intent. Regardless of whether it was brought up from a cluster B woman who's love bombing, or one who genuinely desires a relationship with you, an affirmative response would be a crucial error by any standard. Not...

A month?...no. It's not even about validating her; it's the fact that you're even thinking about introducing any type of month-long plate to your family. That's a tell-tale sign that you are way too invested in this month long plate. Additionally, the mere fact your family actually knows of a...

OP, you need to stop getting so emotional when it comes to women. Your posts of late, reeks of emotional insecurities and holes in your game when it comes to women. Not sure what's been going on, but it sounds like your last FWB must have pulled back or dropped you which has emotionally scarred...

OP, she has low interest, but you also arent' giving her a reason to respond. Look at your ending text both times she went silent; neither of them needed a response. Either you move on, or you directly her for another outting. If she flakes or gives any push-back, then you definitely move...

You misundertand; working on yourself and learning game/redpill are not mutually exclusive. You can do both. What I'm trying to convey on your initial post is all the time you're wasting in trying to figure out why a woman is not responding or showing you the level of interest you feel you are...

Correct; everything you do should be for yourself and not for anyone else. That's exactly right. Just like when you work out, find a better career, get better education, etc. It should all be for you, not about getting better for a woman. They are secondary and should merely be a compliment...

Therein lies the problem; again your focus is on the girl. When you work on your goals and purpose as a man, women will become secondary objectives and they will come. Game and Redpill knowledge will help retain and maintain those girls when they do come. The focus should never be about...

OP, you're placing way too much thought onto the woman. Just do you and work on becoming a better man. Spending countless hours trying to figure out a woman and the multitude of scenarios in her life is a waste. Women are women. They can be hot one minute and cold the next. I could care...

The sad reality is she was not an exceptionally cold or more heartless woman than the norm. She treated him like any woman would treat a man they are not interested in. To get back to OP's post, orbiters absolutely exist. The falsity of his post is assuming women have the same societally...

Unfortunately the state of affairs in Japan is not what you may initially think. The traditional male-female dynamic still exists, but it's more in the remote areas. In the big cities, such as Tokyo, it is abysmal at best. In Tokyo, there are these shops called "Maid Cafes" where young...