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Once I start getting bored in bed now it’s the beginning of the end. I was married for 20 years and had kids to raise to take my mind off the sameness, lack of variety and enthusiasm in the bedroom. It was a sacrifice I was prepared to make then but not now post divorce. Unless you want to...

Bounce as soon as you get bored with sleeping with them. Even a 10 will become boring in bed eventually. Hedonic adaptation is almost never beaten. We all want what we currently don’t have. The crave for variety through different women can almost never be satisfied for most guys.

If red flags emerge just be aware of the consequences. No one is immune to getting attached or catching feelings, there is always one female archetype who is your kryptonite. Always be prepared to walk away no matter how painful it may be. Enjoy the ride while it lasts and doesn’t cause you grief.

I’m 56 (turning 57 this year) and currently seeing both a 48 and a 47 year old (both Asian, both still have kids living at home). They are both around a 7/10 looks and weight wise. I think I will be lucky to achieve that younger in future. I look ok for my age, still have hair, slim, go to the...

The money, energy, effort, time etc. sunk into women is rarely worth the quality and quantity of bedroom action in the long run. Laziness, selfishness, the lure of new p*ssy and hedonic adaptation are never beaten. Most romantic relationships are value exchanges so know when they are becoming an...

The passage of time is the biggest LTR killer. Mutual desire may have been there initially but hedonic adaptation eventually kicks in and the lure of someone new who offers something different is almost impossible to resist particularly from a male perspective. Even if you are dating a 10 you...

Some women do prefer older guys to younger guys ignoring the wealth/status aspects. At 56 I’m seeing a 48 year old who has told me she has always preferred older guys. Her limit is no more than 10 years older than her though. She was married to a guy who was 8 years older than her when she was...

Personally I wouldn’t be wasting any time with a girl I’m not interested in s*xually. If I am interested but she wants to put me in the friend zone (despite my best efforts) or isn’t interested, then I would move on to other options. Life is too short to waste time on girls you have no interest...

I seem to be attracting women who want long term relationships. While I’m not necessarily opposed to this idea I do not wish to live with anyone, raise someone else’s children (in a stepfather role) or get married again. Too many legal risks and other downsides (e.g. quality and quantity of...

Had some really interesting discussion with my ex. Some background - although she said her on button was always switched on with me and I gave her intense Os, she did not really have a strong s*x drive. She said she understood if someone had to go outside the relationship to satisfy themselves...

Thanks for your replies. It’s early days so time will tell. She does have a body to die for which is probably distracting me admittedly. However I think the price of ongoing admission will be quite high on my part as she has not much finances although earning a decent wage. Her ex blew their...

Just keen to hear some thoughts on my situation. I’ve been spinning plates and have recently connected with a Vietnamese girl 9 years my junior (I’m 56, she’s 47). She was divorced in 2017 after a 22 year marriage (she met her husband while only 18) and has only had one other relationship...

Pet mums. They will always prioritise their pets in terms of affection ahead of you. You will always come a distant second. Dating a pet obsessed girl at the moment. Constantly talks to her pets in a baby voice, cuddles them, tells them how much she loves them etc. She wants to be buried with...

Women are only useful for men for three things: 1. Raising children and being a good mother to them. If like me you are divorced and have kids of your own then this no longer applies. 2. Companionship. This only applies to guys who are needy and have nothing else going on in their life...

Probably some overlaps. My top 5: 1. Not compatible in bed. Combination of many things. Poor body image. Lack of enthusiasm. Too many boundaries or ones that don’t sync with mine. Not willing to do different things to keep things interesting. Frequency and/or quality of bedroom activities...

My ex who was in a relationship asked me over last week to drop off one of her books. After an hour of sexual tension she led me upstairs and I f’d her brains out. Stayed the night and left the next day. Asked her later if she felt bad given she was in a relationship. She said ‘no, I felt I was...

The 58 year old is getting less and less attractive with every date. Constantly looking at herself in mirrors. Deleting photos that don’t show her ‘best’. Carrying much more weight than what I thought judged by when I feel her hips and take a long hard look at her in the harsh light of day...

OP, older women are much worse. I’m 56 and the worst women for entitlement are those 50 and above. The levels of flaking, sh*t tests and hoops you have to jump through to get them to an in person date is out of this world. I think I’ve mentioned before a 58 year old I am seeing had a 43 year...

It was bizarre. Like a stream of unfiltered consciousness over 3 days. Hundreds of text messages. All of them saying how fantastic she was. She even texted me photos of the numerous simps who she had been with and were still trying to get into her pants. Her distaste of them was immense. Laughed...

*left wing.