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Nothing wrong with being persistent. The key is understanding when persistence turns into pathetic/waste of time. This is one area where men need to step up. 1. If you call a woman/text/e-mail to make a plans and a woman doesn't take your invitation seriously then don't take her seriously. The...

Marriage and relationship can be done. It just that with marriage it not something to do because you feel pressure or you feel you owe it. Because of the massive financial implications, no man should marry without a pre-nup. In regard to relationships, men need to cut ties the very instant the...

No azz is worth jail. Sucks she's 16, and while it might be tempting to get her info for 2 years down the road, any contact you make prior to her 18 can be construed as "uneven" meaning that it can be interpreted as grooming, which carries its own legal charges.

No, Han is always the Alpha. Luke is the guy who went from a whiny ***** to being a man. Most here would call Han a natural. Luke rectified his beta tendencies but he's not a natural and can never be. He's simply taken what he is given and maximized it. An reformed beta will almost always...

You can respect women or not but it has nothing to do with being a nice guy. Being the nice guy = not having a spine = not having strong boundaries = not respecting yourself. Nice guys allow women to behave badly because they fear a woman won't like them if there is conflict. Nice guys try to...

I'm going to let you in on a little secret. You can't just be alpha. Either you are born with alpha traits or you aren't. People hate to hear things like this because it crushes the idea that "one can overcome" anything with effort hard work etc. I'm not saying this to depress you or deflate...

No, you did the right thing. Never subjugate your principles for a woman. You wanted X she wanted Y and her counter did not address your request. Woman lose respect for men that lack conviction. They may hem and haw that they don't like it but the more you stand up against them the more they...

1. There can be no love without respect 2. You are responsible for your actions and yours alone. 3. A man without a plan is no man. 4. Women are meant to be loved not understood. 5. A man’s got to have a code, a creed to live by, no matter his job. 6. Don't wait for the good woman, she doesn't...

Sure, but you have to be smart, protect your assets with a pre-nup and be honest with yourself as to why you are getting married and make that you aren't getting tunnel vision in regard to red flags.

Chasing implies something is running away. Demonstrating interest is not chasing because the woman is in front of you. It's when she plays games, confuses you, and sends mixed messages that you are chasing because she's pulling away.

Now, I ain't saying she's a gold digger ....

Don't the Alphas already hog all the women? What about the fallout from the high score theory? Just because an alpha isn't in a relationship doesn't mean they can't screw up your relationship. Think about how many relationships get screwed up because a woman can't get over her high score X...

I find this thread amusing and also somewhat frustrating. It seems that many are forgetting the biological imperative of both men and women. Men try to spread their seed and women try to ensure they reproduce with the best replicant material. In essence women are attracted to alpha traits...

The key is understanding that sacrificing your principles and integrity never works out in the long term. The key is figure out which behaviors are deal breakers and holding firm on those deal breakers. The bigger mistake guys make is holding on too long when they know that the girl they are...

Richard, The first thing is not to ascribe so much value to sex and certainly not to give women the power to affect your mood. Part of becoming good with women is understanding that they are different than men and they ascribe to different set of mating values. The next part is to...

Brutal honesty seems to work best when guised in humor. Their hamster stays confused which ups their interest because they can't tell whether you like them or hate them. The hamster needs to keep spinning because once a woman doesn't find you challenging or mysterious she no longer tingles for you.

They do exist and no they aren't scarce. An alpha type is actually fairly simple to spot. Usually they are the guys who have women chase them but they seem more interested in having a good time and they often enjoy talking to people of all manner of shapes and sizes. They tend to be the guys...

Never marry out of feelings of obligation. Marriage is hard enough why lessen your chances of a successful marriage by doing something where you feel an obligation rather than having an overwhelming desire. She doesn't have too many red flags although the controlling thing coupled with always...

Think about what women like to do.... social climb. Now think about how and where they do that. Typically you'll find women at professional social events. So depending on what career you work there are always professional associations for that type of work. The bonus is that these associations...

Neil, The biggest misconception is that there is a singular path that works. Each fitness and nutrition program needs to be tailored to the user (captain obvious). My guess is that you need to re-evaluate your nutrition plan and figure out what foods work for you. You probably also want to...