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And? Nobody is disagreeing with you. Sure it sucks, but try to look at it from perspective that women are saving loads of time with their behavior.

What’s more likely? Convincing an entire sex not to give attention to the opposite sex Or You electing not to give women attention if they haven’t earned it. If a woman isn’t worth your time then why worry who is wasting time on her.

The beginning of the process is analogous to starting with a giant block of wood and whittling away parts of the wood to create something. Making three cuts in a block of wood gets you next to nowhere. Now to be fair the block of wood a man starts with is different for each guy. For naturals...

Agreed about moving forward; however, experience with a BPD can challenge your sanity so checking on a new guy can help reaffirm that you were just a placeholder. recovering from a BPD relationship is like being an alcohol addict or a drug addict. Your “sobriety” is always being challenged.

It’s not really a mixed message. The basic premise is that her actions are communicating a lack of interest. Her words are incongruent. Typically when a girl goes out and even gets physical to an extent but is being coy, it usually means that you are a filler for either a guy she can’t have or...

This won’t end well. A man is only as good as his ability for rational thought. Sounds like a coupe de foudre, (lightning bolt) which is exactly what feeling I got when I first met my BPD ex. Can’t say you weren’t warned.

Look at what you just wrote. You asked a girl how she feels about a midterm. Midterms typically aren’t a sexy topic and talking about is like talking about the weather. There are a 1000 ways talk to a woman just be interesting, flirt, be patient, and do reveal too much. It’s about giving a...

Dash, too bad you gave away your age but I was going to guess 48. My former workout partner had a similar look and he was 55.

And you are wrong once again, surprise. Adaptability is an extremely important skill to have. Being repetitive and doing the exact thing is boring and kills tension. Yes, a guy should give the date, time, and place in most circumstances. Giving a woman a time later isn't confirming it...

Having money can increase your sexual market value, but again it guarantees nothing. Women are hard wired to respond to certain male qualities and leadership is a big one. This isn't that complicated. Next time you go out observe who is doing well and look at their body language and how they...

You have to close before she leaves. Following = chasing which is a massive DLV. She probably had a boyfriend but you gave her no choice because you didn't give her the tingles.

You missed a golden opportunity to spike her interest at the club. Jealousy can be a powerful ally. I get the sense that you were too focused on her and didn't add in the needed doubt by flirting with other women at the club. You gave her too much value. Never discuss feminism, woman's right...

Forgetting to tell a girl time is a good way to confirm a date without looking like you are confirming the date. Ideally you want to contact her the day before or the morning of with the time. You can just text 4pm or you can add something flirty like wear your sexiest dress, or if you are...

Playing with a BPD = chasing the dragon. Both are addictions that play out the same way. You keep looking to recreate the magic of that first time but it's never quite the same. You just keep going until you either OD, die, or to rehab. Even with OD'ing or going to rehab like most addicts...

Because woman don't have to work to have lots of options. It's only when she's challenging herself that she needs to have great game with the natural alphas.

People of high value have no need to tell people about their high value. It also ties into why you don't tell a hot chick she's hot. A leader of men concerns himself with the state of others. On more than a few occasions I've been able get with women who initially rejected me, who later saw me...

It's a bull**** qualifier designer to weed out guys. Most guys will tell a "sapiosexual" woman why they are smart and she gets bored. Along as you don't come off like a sad you're good to go.

''Twas OLD, which I should just ignore as useless.

I asked a girl what her schedule looked like this week. She responded with ... the beginning of the week is pretty packed but my schedule changes constantly. I took it as a not interested, but perhaps it's a **** test on non needy persistence?

Meh, she's a middle of the road 7. Gets back to what I was saying about not worrying about 9s and 9+s because most guys don't interact with them. If it floats Neil's boat then fine. She's nowhere near a 9; however.