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Again, I think this is primarily a porn movie fantasy, not real life. In porn movies, lesbians are both hot, and they're both performing as innocent, young straight women doing something forbidden and taboo. The reality is that lesbian women are gross. Lesbianism is gross. This whole thing...

You have to convey status and pre-selection. This what I've seen work again and again. Being the lone guy who shows up to chat with her is rarely a good tactic unless you convey non-behavioral or situational cues of high status -- as in, being very good-looking, or otherwise appearing to be...

Sorry for the hijack OP. Back to you. You're worried about 'keeping this fresh' because you're scared she's going to lose interest. You're scared that you have no other prospects. You need her to keep paying you attention, because you need her validation. You are relying on this girl's...

Random anonymous people say the darndest things.

I can't say anyone here is "wrong" about women becoming more entitled, or the nature of relationships becoming more transactional and temporary. As I've gotten older, I'm just better at mindfully being more positive about things. It's a willful, daily effort. The red pill brings...

Agreed, I wouldn't get too invested into this or pursue too hard. In fact I would most likely tell her "I'd be happy to meet you for a drink when you're single not involved with him anymore. You have my number. Otherwise, take care." Because I've been that long distance guy and I'm not trying...

True, but the fact is, most women are involved, in some capacity, with another guy when you first meet them. Only women in lower tiers can be totally single and not dating. So actually, being straightforward about the long-distance guy, right off the bat, could be seen as this chick not wanting...

Men these days could use a better male role model in entertainment media. The contemporary male lead in movies has been totally warped by feministic ideals of masculinity. Time to bring James Bond back.

Yes, but that depends on the games being played. A little token resistance "tee hee hee" type stuff is normal and it ramps up the sexual tension. I would rather the flirty little "hard to get" games first, than a girl who is easy to lay, then starts up the games when you're getting invested...

Hate the game, not the player. The "games" at the very beginning of the attraction phase has been standard female MO since probably 10,000 BC, so ruling out any woman who does this absolutely timeless female behavior is ruling out a large majority of your dating pool. Generally speaking, not...

I think it's imperative to not let the coquettish "possibly" or "maybe" or "we'll see" answers from women rattle you, or show any sort of frustration or impatience whatsoever. It's part of the game. The best response is no response.

That's not surprising. LDR's are fantasies. It's a facade of a relationship -- long periods of being apart, where the intimacy and closeness takes place on a screen, then periodic mini-honeymoons spent in bliss and non-stop fvcking. No real conflict takes place. No routines are performed...

This really depends on the woman. It's never a one-size-fits-all, as easy and red pill as that explanation is. She may be mentioning that she's "talking to someone" long-distance for any number of reasons. It could be her actual boyfriend. It could be a "situation" with a guy. She could be...

Don’t respond. I think she wants to see you, she’s now just being coquettish. Women like being pursued, let her enjoy it and give you token resistance. But make sure the anxiety of not hearing from you turns the tables.

“Possibly” was the sh!t test. You passed. Well played. Most guys would just blow her up with a string of butthurt/needy texts. Yeah go meet her for drinks. Go to enjoy a drink and a night out. Not her company. Be totally, completely, 100% outcome dependent. If you sit at the bar together, sit...

It's also important to take the red pill with an equal dose of optimism and positivity. Remember, red pill rage is myopically focused on the top 20% of women who, for about 15-20 years depending, can truly exercise power over society with their vaginas. Thus, many red pillers wait in spiteful...

I may be going against the grain here but it's really not smooth and calibrated to invite a stranger online over to your place for a date. That's 90% guaranteed to be either a 'no' or a flake. It worked for you the night before, but broken clocks still tell the correct time twice a day. "Well...

On numerous occasions, a girl declined my date invitation with no immediate counter-offer. I responded "no worries, let me know" or something to that effect, and indeed, a few days later, sometimes a week later, she re-engaged me. Women are attracted to confidence and emotional security. Since...

Not judging since I did a fair amount of it in my past, but coke severely damages your endocrine system and tanks your testosterone. A lot of the “low” in the days after is your body repairing damage to your gonads and restoring its hormonal balance. I once bought a baggie of “coke” off a rando...

1 week intervals is a good golden rule. Date was on Friday, wait until next Thursday mid-afternoon to set date 2 for the weekend. If there was making out/hooking up on the 1st date you can wait until Wednesday to set the next date -- if a woman is into you and some form of sexual contact...