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Why do you even want to keep pursuing somebody who is not interested in you? Be honest. Is it because you think/know she's a virgin? Are you looking to get in a LTR with her? If not, and you think she'a virgin, do you want to leave your permament mark? Do you want her to become attached to...

For a simple date, NO! After having sex, maybe, if very late. After she leaves YOUR house and has to drive very late, yes, ok to do. Can't believe people actually get caught up over $hit like this, and put so much emphazis on the act rather than on the motive behind it. The fact that you do...

Ok, so there it is. Why weren't you mentioning this before? Instead you were hoping for somebody to give you some magic pill answer as to why this happens. You know exactly what the problem is. You are not pulling the trigger. This is not good, for two main reasons: 1) She either thinks...

And how do they treat you the first day? Please give details as to why you think they are really into you. It is a common problem, a lot of guys don't have much game and don't know how to proceed, and take the interaction to the next level. That is why this type of things happens to them...

Then it is not THEM, it is YOU. How do you define "high interest"? Meaning, what makes you think they are very interested in you? How do you measure or figure that she's really interested? You don't give us an example of everything that goes on. The truth is that she decided, early on...

Did you sleep with her? You did not answer this question. She was not your gf. Now you are still living in your blindspots by refusing to see IT WAS YOU not her, that was the problem here. You are putting yourself in the "victim" position and doing girly, femenine statements like "Are all...

Look man, I gave you plenty of information with my previous post, which by the way, I am taking back, and it took me a long time to give you advice, based on the very vague and lack of information regarding your situation, and all I get is that question? I don't get a response, I don't get any...

Why would you want to be messaging back and forth for a week with anybody, for anything? If you are looking to just hoook up (sex), depending on your experience, it should take you between 3-7 hours, TOTAL, in a span of 1-3 get togethers. It is ok to meet up for a couple of hours, and...

Hookups = Lay, to me! None of this kissing and stuff. Usually they will be touching me and licking me before I even attempt to kiss them. If your goal is to just kiss, make out, grind, then that can happen in 5-10 minutes sometimes, but don't expect that to escalate much further, at least...

If you are getting a lot, or even just some emails "Unread Deleted", then its not them its you. Take better pictures, work on your profile and do some cut and paste blended with a little customizing, and you should, consistently, be getting your emails opened, your profile viewed, and a good...

The best way is to NOT TAKE HER OUT ON DATES the first few times. Don't invite her to do anything you are not ready to fork the bill for. Yes, ideally you want to split it, or at lest have her offer to pay, but too many times she will not do that. I really think guys have no business going...

He texted, not called! End of the story. Worrying about the details of the text is irrelevant at this point. You're thinking too much. Logic. I only speak from what I've learned in a couple of hundreds of these "first contacts" after initial meetings. Obviously the OP is not satisfied with...

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Your only mistake is putting too much stock on this one interaction. Very good job at getting back into playing right away. Looks like you haven't lost much of a step. A couple of basics you are overlooking will continue to affect your interactions/follow through's if not adressed. 1)...

Your best and only bet is to to have minimal contact and any meeting, talking or seeing of eachother needs to be a the location of sex, and escalate there. No phone support, no doing what platonic friends do. She tells you she wants to see you, you tell her to go to your place. Period, end of story.

She thought he provided more value than you did, at that point where she broke it off with you. There must be some other qualities she sees in him, besides the paintings and the free gas. It is possible that money is not even an issue for him, and she likes his generosity, or the fact...

Turning her into a FB after a relationship will only work if you are the one in charge of the interactions. If you dictate, on your terms. The one who breaks it off, or who is least interested in the relationship, is usually the one who is in control and in charge of dictating. The one who tries...

She plays video games and likes playing with "guys' stuff", she likes playing the joystick of dudes she picks up on FB a few weeks ago. Did you meet her through FB too? You might never find a girl like that again. You are right. Not too many girls are so self-centered and dedicate their life...

That's not good... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNusNs97cP0

WRONG! I will respectfully disagree with your post. SHE is in control. She has the vagina. She has what he wants. He is the one who is attracted to her romantically/sexually. He already exposed all his cards. She alreay got him to agree to every single possible scenario possible. Now, if...