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I feel like this reflects my experiences with women accurately. It seems like many women are just completely shut-off to the idea of "casual dating" or "flings" and people in general tend to look down on me for wanting that. For example, I've driven tons of women away for trying to make a move...

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Good post Kailex. I pretty much hold the same views myself. You see, my whole beef with #1 is if he's content making an average salary but wants to date lots of women then why not make money doing something that actually puts him around lots of attractive women? DJ, bartender, club promoter...

Agreed Zekko.....I have a full-time job that consumes a ton of my time, trying to stay in shape, eat healthy, spend time with family/friends, start a business...etc....you know what most normal people do. These "PUAs" must be in their little college bubble, unemployed, or trust fund babies with...

Why is our culture so obsessed with celebrity? Why do we place so much value on a bunch people standing in front of a camera? Someone like Lindsay Lohan and Paris Hilton can commit mulitple felonies and never step foot in jail, while an average person doing the same would have been locked up...

Great mindset to have floyd.....and no its not hard to get laid....plenty of guys with attractive gfs and wives are regularly f*cking them. Its just hard for most men to bed a new attractive chick on a frequent, consistent basis. Like short-term trading, the short-term mating market a zero sum...

Wait_Out....I agree with you on this. I need to be more flighty and somewhat more aggressive in order to indicate to her that i'm "short-term" fling material. It does act as an effective filter....the girls that want to formally date, take it slow, etc will be turned off by me but the women who...

Best to not get involved in these love triangles and the guaranteed ensuing drama. And just because she made the decision to cheat does not completely absolve you of any responsibility. Since it takes two to tango...you do share half the blame here. Going forward, If a chick wants to be a...

Hey guys thanks for the feedback. And Bulkowski, I was being overdramatic last night when I wrote this....blame the alcohol haha. Bulkowski and Iceberg, I understand what you're saying about just going with the flow but hear me out....perhaps I should have worded it differently to her....but I...

So I met up with this girl for a second date. She was very attractive and fun to talk to....but I'm simply not at a point in my life where I want anything serious with anyone right now. So we go back to my place, have a few drinks...and I plant a few kisses on her but she's definitely not moving...

You make a good point zekko. I see this as well. The guys you're describing are whats considered "normal" or "average" to mainstream society. Here, they are considered the elite Don Juans lol....most guys who came here (myself included) started off with terrible or lack of basic social skills...

This is exactly why I refuse to get involved with "social circle game" as guys here put it. Aside from the obvious difficulty of getting into a circle with desirable women, if you scorn any female in that group, she will do what women do best and drag your name through the mud, turning everyone...

Im wedged in between Dunwoody and East Cobb....Buckhead is a few miles southeast of where I live. The entire north Atlanta area close to the perimeter is where all the wealth resides. Most women here don't play around. Many of them moved from NYC and other cities to settle and find a...

x2 for Atlanta. Its pretty much the same here. Very materialistic and status driven. Tons of 30,000 a year millionaires. Flashy cars, clothes, and McMansions. In my area a BMW or Mercedes is like a Camry, everyone drives one. Women here are spoiled for dates, attention, and money. Guys with...

Good post Zekko. Often times the word "as*hole" is thrown around by women to describe guys who won't commit to them. Or by loser men who are just jealous they can't be as successful when it comes to women.

Men can easily cheat as well....its called prostitutes and their clients mainly consist of married men. I know women don't have to pay for it, but a married man of middle-class or higher status could easily and discreetly cheat behind his wife if he was so inclined. Look, unless you marry an...

I never really understood the whole "bad boy" theory either....most guys I know that did well with women were just normal laid back guys. They weren't trying to front some kind of "badass witty James Bond" persona. Most sane women just want a decent laid back masculine guy. Guys who spout...

I can't even get the average looking women to pay attention to me at a nightclub last week....while my hot exotic dancer ex-gf still comes over to f*ck me. The moral of the story is women are unpredictable and deriving your self-worth from how they perceive or respond to you is a recipe for...

The thing is Danger....in order for a few men to be studs there needs to be many women willing to slut it up for them. In an ideal world, if all women stopped sleeping with studs, there would be no studs. Another thing is, women are well aware of men's unwillingness to commit to a wh*re. The...

I'm calling the effectiveness of social proof into question. My observations are that women at bars/clubs are too wrapped up in their own group to really care or judge someone else based on how many other women they are with. If you guys ever actually go to bars and clubs, you'll realize...