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    can ignoring her enough get her to invite you round?

    If I send what you suggested and she follows up asking questions what I been up to etc should I then just ignore? I suspect she just wanted to be taken out friday night that's why she sent me the message to see if she had my attention and would fall for the bait
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    can ignoring her enough get her to invite you round?

    The chick I took out twice a few weeks ago the one who wouldn't even let me hold her hand or kiss her after second date so I haven't contacted her since. I sensed she was just a rinser using guys to take her out for free and not pay for anything or offering too especially when she is a...
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    awkward trail of convo not sure if she is meeting for business

    Doesnt matter she replied now clearly it's business I'll decline her meet up and tell her to let me know when she ks ready to date
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    awkward trail of convo not sure if she is meeting for business

    It seemed too easy that is why I suspicious..hmm now my cynical mind is thinking cos she owns a promotions company placing hb's at events she could well be a madam placing escorts and wants my client list. Anyway fact she hasnt replied to my message shows that her interest was business related...
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    awkward trail of convo not sure if she is meeting for business

    No I didnt tell her what I did after I told her what I did she said great and let's meet tomorrow or thursday at 7 I should have made that clear. She actually offered to meet after I told her what I did not when I persisted.
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    awkward trail of convo not sure if she is meeting for business

    I messaged a hot hb from facebook who went to same college as me. I was quite up front with my intentions saying that I wanted to take her on a date. She asked me what I did. I said what I did bringing in more clients for the guy I work for. She said she isnt dating at the moment (I...
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    best way to get her to accept me as a lover not provider

    I see what you're saying your frame was strong from.the beginning was she physically attracted to you from the get go though? How did you meet her approach her etc She knows I make less than her she's just a spoilt entitled iranian woman tryna hustle me. I should have been more sexual from...
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    best way to get her to accept me as a lover not provider

    i haven't pedastelled her, im just saying if i try to argue or force my way through nothing is going to happen. this is exactly the kinda american equality thing im saying you have to disregard in this case. ok forget her values. how do i enforce my values on her? i ask her to split the bill...
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    best way to get her to accept me as a lover not provider

    Ok first off I need to make something clear about this girl. Yes I understand most of you on here are american and if this girl was american I would completely agree with you that she should be paying for me as in American business culture a woman has some financial equality as men especially if...
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    Examples of Emotional Investment (EI) and Interet Level (IL)

    maybe i am confused as to what i thought emotional investment was or is.. i was on the assumption under a pick up interaction that emotional investment even on the slightest level is better than temporary high IL.. ideally high IL with some emotional investment however small so that it reduces...
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    Examples of Emotional Investment (EI) and Interet Level (IL)

    Can you guys on here give me examples of how to gain Emotional Investment (EI) rather than just Interest Level (IL)? I know high IL is temporary but Emotional Investment (EI) is permanent, the only example I know of how to do this in person is to get her to share a secret or story from her...
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    you're supposed to act cool say she can date whoever she wants so can you then..

    when it comes to that time for exclusivity she poses the question you lay out the ground rules of no meeting guys one on one etc etc.. isnt this doomed to fail? especially if the woman was attracted to you because you were so relaxed, allowed her to meet her guy friends unlike past bf's etc...
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    no firm counter offer no reply?

    is this probably the best way to respond to a fake counter offer? i ask a girl out send her a text to get together tomorrow or thurs for a drink, she says unfortunately i am busy both weds and thurs but perhaps next week? i haven't replied. i feel going forward even an 'ok' is pointless...
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    can you use the same IL rules for women from online as real life?

    Models arent usually on my race especially hot tall ones. Im pretty good in person i just suffer from anxiety issues which ****s up my game and the lesrning process. Yesterday was a bad day all round i shouldn't be surprised it happened and me wrecking it being all stroppy just justifies...
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    can you use the same IL rules for women from online as real life?

    with the age of the internet not all women are open to meeting someone off the internet unless they find them attractive etc.. especially if it's a pick u on facebook. my case in point, i was talking to a german model last week on facebook, she's into guys of my race so i thought ok i'm in with...
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    how should i have handled this better? facebook immediate date aruging at the start

    Well unsurprisingly she isn't interested I knew I should have just refused to go upstairs and left and see how she reacted, I should have said 'you're late you come downstairs' if she refused hang up and then just leave. Let her hang about and wait. I just felt after an initial argument it's...
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    how should i have handled this better? facebook immediate date aruging at the start

    Yeah I should have just gone for the drink, I completely forgot I said drink date as I just cut paste the same messages to all the HBs even after they reply I just use the word prediction above my keyboard as I say the same thing every time I forget what I suggested but still it was the...
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    how should i have handled this better? facebook immediate date aruging at the start

    I wasn't really overgaming as much as I was p1ssed off that she was late and then was trying other controlling sh1t, it was more me just thinking f it I'm not letting her get away with this sh1t so kicked up a fuss too. All this game stuff was an afterthought, how SHOULD I have handled it is the...
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    how should i have handled this better? facebook immediate date aruging at the start

    i messaged a hb off facebook today and found out she lives near me so suggested a quick meet for coffee tonight spontaneous thing, i did initially suggest a drink date as a figure of speech. she kept asking me all these questions like how tall i am and i made a passing joke that when we're...
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    the best pick up i ever did, day cold approach

    yes im aware of that now but i wrote this original post before the aftermath ensued.. it was the best pickup i did in regards to being confident, flowing right leaving at the right time right balance of kino negging push pull etc.. unfortunately she was an attention wh0re but i have to take...
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