I messaged a hot hb from facebook who went to same college as me.
I was quite up front with my intentions saying that I wanted to take her on a date. She asked me what I did. I said what I did bringing in more clients for the guy I work for.
She said she isnt dating at the moment (I assumed a bf) I said it's a shame you're not dating we would be doing good things for international relations and the UN would be happy as a joke. (We're diff nationalities)
She suggested to meet tomorrow or thurs at 7pm.
I was a bit confused whether this was a business networking meet or a date.
We arranged the details and her last text to me was the address of where she was working and that she would love to tell me more about what she did.
At this point would you guys just kept quiet and met and escalate even if she is going in as a business meeting and you as a date?
I wasn't sure what to do so I text back saying I had an idea what she did from her profile and that I was interested to know more about her as a person. And that my reason for meeting wasnt business related and I know she said she isnt dating at the moment but I should be upfront about my intentions.
Was that the right thing to do? If she was going in thinking it is a date too then what I wrote is a bit awkward and makes me look a bit strange and if it is a business meeting then well its prob not worth my while unless I turn it into a date by being sexual.
Would you guys have gone anyway without saying what your intentions were and just make it a date or would you have done what I did as to not waste your time but also risk making the interaction awkward?
I was quite up front with my intentions saying that I wanted to take her on a date. She asked me what I did. I said what I did bringing in more clients for the guy I work for.
She said she isnt dating at the moment (I assumed a bf) I said it's a shame you're not dating we would be doing good things for international relations and the UN would be happy as a joke. (We're diff nationalities)
She suggested to meet tomorrow or thurs at 7pm.
I was a bit confused whether this was a business networking meet or a date.
We arranged the details and her last text to me was the address of where she was working and that she would love to tell me more about what she did.
At this point would you guys just kept quiet and met and escalate even if she is going in as a business meeting and you as a date?
I wasn't sure what to do so I text back saying I had an idea what she did from her profile and that I was interested to know more about her as a person. And that my reason for meeting wasnt business related and I know she said she isnt dating at the moment but I should be upfront about my intentions.
Was that the right thing to do? If she was going in thinking it is a date too then what I wrote is a bit awkward and makes me look a bit strange and if it is a business meeting then well its prob not worth my while unless I turn it into a date by being sexual.
Would you guys have gone anyway without saying what your intentions were and just make it a date or would you have done what I did as to not waste your time but also risk making the interaction awkward?
