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From her telling me when can i see you again to the next day I told her to pack a bag as i was getting us a hotel that night (sunday) She said sorry i cant later in the evening That is when i should have broke contact But naively out of being butt hurt i countered with ok let's get together...

I didn't communicate the butt hurt over message this is how im feeling outside. 1 min she is like when can i see you again Then she is like sorry i cant today. I should have left it there hut my time constraint is she leaves in a week. Also i feel disrespected i took a day off to spend time...

I cant magically create options when i need them I delayed messaging it was friday night i waited till midnight it seemed to work as usually i respond fast to everyone she responded quicker than normal Then i waited till morning to reply as went to sleep. Im very specific about what im...

There are a contingent here where i live i just need to get into community as they are mixed nationality a rare combo like pokemon I have to go about finding them a different way because there are so few in my city maybe 100+ hot ones i speculate it is slim pickings Work wise cant go abroad am...

Yeah im doing things differently this time When she messaged me she just got home on friday and the whatsapp messages didnt deliver ahe didnt say it was battery just she got home. I didnt respond quickly like she is used to so 8 mins later she replies with how about tomorrow instead? Saturday...

You arent up to date with what happened we met we fooled around she says when will i ss you next then does a 180 on me the next day. She doeant reply to me about getting together yesterday night and a hotel nor spending time today as originally planned. Im basically second choice and i have to...

Also im aware if she does follow up she is testing to see if she still has me so i have to decline anything she offers as it is just a test as she will end up treating me the same way When i wrote the message last basically saying i i understood she cant spend all her time with me even though...

Yeah and there isnt a best way to handle it She is meeting other guys off the app as that is her choice and my ego is bruised that she isnt all over me like she was saturday night in the car Hence why she was cold the next day she is just dtf on holiday not here to settle down I should he...

Yeah and needy im walking away if she follows up again im just going to say i have other plans cos it is just a test to see if she still has me

Yes exactly im being too eager and needy. It is just weird she is like when can i see you again to just airing me the next day and i didn't help matters offering to meet the next day instead when she said she was sorry and couldnt meet when i said i would pick er up and get us a hotel Thinking...

Yeah i feel a time constraint cos she is only here a couple of weeks Normally i would just pace myself Im coming across way too needy it is disgusting me so walking away

I had this chick who was visiting from abroad who i thought could be potentially wifey material long term, same background etc things im looking for. Evidently im getting ahead of myself and i have noticed red flags already, more so low IL flags. We were supposed to meet friday but her...

For those of you who are hot heads like me how do you handle being AMOG'd in a group setting be it at a group dinner with gf's/friends and 1 guy wants to show he is the big man or tries to test you making derogatory remarks or comments belittling you in a jokey manner to assert his authority and...

Yeah if i were to do it again i would choose a diff place to sit side by side The place was candle lit, it essentially was a more expensive coffee date without coffee, i go places for decor and ambiance as creates better atmosphere for kino'ing and kiss closing I chose this place because i...

Can you leverage knowledge, information expertise in your favour to level up? I have so many things she wants to know and learn hence her tryna keep me round for the friend zone + tryna extract as much info as possible in the car knowing she prob wasnt gona see me again Not for her i mean in...

I thought naively telling her what it was in advance would help when she saw it i even explained to her why because i cant be having some luxury car as clients wont like the idea they are funding my lavish lifestyle so i need something neutral but you're right it comes across insecure and i need...

Yeah exactly but again she makes good money herself much more than me lives in richest part of town but pays for it herself she is in finance so earns very well not just some PA

Never said she was a gold digger per se She makes good money Def more than me prob I would say £60-80k/yr given where she lives and places she goes to i know her profession they pay well def nothing under £50k at her age of 29 her rent per month is like £2k Just she was asking me a lot of...

Yeah women are so weird I wonder if mentioning you are seeing other girls from the dating app this weekend would help our cases more with a bit of jealousy thrown in?

I have been on dates like this before in the past so i like to think i can recognise IOI's So her interest was moderate rather than super high like had i walked her to the station i could escalate kino I just felt bad cos it is -3C outside so thought what the hell give her a lift back, now i...