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Maybe we dated the same woman lol

Ok so now i need to think where i went wrong in the date so i dont make the same mistakes again What are good topics to talk about to get it moving in the direction i want?

Tbh if i walked her to the station instead i could have kino'd and escalated like i have done in the past Ok her interest wasnt super high but high enough i thought to take it further But again I'll never know

Used to have a 6 pack but either way i was dressed smart it is freezing here no tight t shirts etc

Yeah just uber it learnt my lesson

Just a decent hatchback nothing fancy I mean she lives in a rich area of the city so used to being taken in mercs etc i even told her in advance i cant have a nice car cos clients will think im spending on their money funding my lavish lifestyle they don't like that. Not sure why she was...

Unfortunately the place we went doesn't have side by side seating only on a big table with other people lol There are like stools facing a wall with 4 seats so a risk if i go there again i guess need to find alternative place to take women like these

How do you turn it into a sexual thing when their mindset is LTR? Like the skills is being able to change someone set on a LTR mode by escalating into a oh it just happened type thing Having looks matters obviously as makes it easier but im unsure what to talk about or what to say on dates to...

Yeah def not DTF I just feel going on these dates you can tell who is going for LTR or who is open to short term and skill is being able to think of you as short term but my skill level is not high enough What things should i be talking about on dates to get the buying temperature up? It is...

Im in pretty good shape better than her just she is thinking about her what her friends think or places we would go abd doesn't want to compromise High maintenance stuck up snob types but actually not snobbish outwardly just internally and inevitably her friends are though

I went just now on what i thought was a really good date Interest from the start IOI's laughing at my jokes Yeah i could have done things bit better maybe used better topics but overall it was good from my pov My only thought was she cut the date short cos it was getting late and she has...

I dont have an abundance i need to keep my focus on increasing plate numbers and never looking back It bothers me most when they are really hot like i feel as someone older the time to get younger HB's esp online on apps is long gone anyone 40+ is instantly disregarded unless they are...

I know with fundamentals to only meet with HB's who have high IL from the off, give phone number immediately etc But if her IL drops inexplicably over something so little do you then just categorise her in the low IL bin and move on? For example on dating app i got a very hot HB, everything...

How do you maintain an abundance mentality mindset when you dont have any options and when you do they aren't of high quality or if you get a HB10 as your only option how do you keep your cool and maintain this frame when in the back of your head you know you may not get anymore for a while?

Is there a thread on here about how to navigate sh1t test online dating app questions: 1. 'How many girls have you added from the app? 2. Have you added a lot of girls from these apps? 3. If you have so many dating apps how come you haven't found the right one? They cant all be bad...

What sport do you consider ok

Btw what is wrong with going back to my old college campus? Maybe im missing something here i just saw it as a cheap date doing me a favour allbeit it should revolve around drinks at a bar but i knew we would make out at some point i just needed the right time to pull the trigger I think maybe...

I actually have dates arranged with the dating apps not just matches yeah maybe they'll flake but they seem more interested to meet than i am. I just find it weird how i seem to be in demand now. It makes me feel more relaxed more cavalier as i dont care if i lose one i have another to replace...

I been doing these sports activities for a few months now tryna see if it is fruitful i was told on here sports isnt good because loads of guys do it. I took up squash instead of basketball and arranged many meet ups with HB's.. some are suspicious why im meeting girls but i gave some excuse...

I haven't dated for many years as have been in LTR's for a few years each with people i met long before social media or the pandemic existed. In the past 8 years not only has social media exploded so have dating apps bumble, tinder, hinge etc + instagram + pandemic How do you guys navigate...