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Update: lost my virginity the other night. Finally! Sex wasn't the best; in fact the penetration was actually pretty brief and then I had her give me head. Thanks for the encouragement: I've been working on this for like 8 months and have made great strides. I've been on more dates during this...

Depression is very common and is not "crazy."

Update (about 1 mo since original post): been going out a lot more, have gotten about 8 same night k-closes (and #-closes) with good looking girls. Have tried to get 2 of these girls home (the first 2 times I had ever done this). They resisted at the end of the night, but I'm happy I tried...

Thanks, really appreciate the last 2 responses. Muscleman: I am in an apprenticeship now. I will be working closer to 60 hrs the next few years, then I make my own schedule. Plus I should be able to meet girls on the job without making things awkward. But anyway, I agree with you 100%. I am...

That's fine, I'll bang some 6s. I nearly brought home a 7 the other night (she declined and i k-closed). Not bragging, just showing that I'm putting in some effort. Ive never attempted to bring someone home before. This is something I want to fix and am willing to accept criticism and change.

No, I'm white. For a variety of reasons (my upbringing, prioritizing work, etc) I've made women a low priority most of my life. Anyway, I'm sick of that BS and am working to fix it ASAP. I've already made some progress. I truly believe the only thing holding me back is the fact that I haven't...

Thanks, this is the plan. I'm making progress and will get through this soon. I don't mind the haters, I just watch for actual advice to trickle in. Thanks again.

I hope this is true. I am f'ucking sick of being a virgin. This next year I will have a reasonable work schedule and no excuse for not bringing girls home. I'll keep this thread updated. I posted one update already (above), but it looks like people are still responding to the original post.

An update on me: the last 4 nights that I've went out, I've gotten k-closes from a different woman (all Hb 7-8) that I've met each night. On the 4th, I tried to get her to come back to my condo but it didn't work out. This is the first time I've tried to get a girl back to my place, and learned...

Yea, you won't hear any argument from me about how my love/sex life is non-existent (if that's what you were hoping for). Like you said, the girl I mentioned was never my "girlfriend" we just dated for about 8 weeks (which is obviously nothing to brag about). I essentially agree with the rest of...

Hate to change the subject, but would appreciate any more thoughts on the original post.

She is using you to boost her self-esteem because she is in a relationship that she doesn't like. She is saying to herself: "Look, I can make this chump Fruitbat chase after me, so I've still got it." Once you asked her out, she won, so she doesn't need to text you anymore to get validation...

Yea, she is not interested and she is using you to make herself feel like she has options while she stays in a relationship that she doesn't like. Have some self respect and never talk to this girl again.

You are letting this girl play you. This is over. You likely will never get her back, but if you do, it will only be after a period of strict no contact. You have turned into a beta b!tch, stroking her hair and listening to her problems while she s'ex starves you. She gives what you think is an...

Definitely don't talk to someone you are trying to attract about your problems. But, this doesn't mean that you have to keep everything all pent up inside. You should have a male that you can trust that you can talk to. Maybe a brother or a close friend that you can bounce stuff off of.

I can't tell what happened after you asked her out. Anything other than "yes" means that you should go NC, at least until she comes crawling back.

A virgin with herpes? Maybe you are talking about cold sores caused by HSV-1, which is not the same as genital herpes caused by HSV-2>HSV-1. Didn't mean for this discussion to get off topic. Would love any more advice that you guys have.

Although herpes is the gift that keeps on giving, I'm not gonna be fcuking any escort, thanks.

Thanks for the encouragement. 6-7s are definitely "bangable." My only reservation is that I'm worried about getting the girl pregnant or getting an STD. For these reasons, I'd probably have to date the girl for a little bit so I trust her, which is too bad, but I suppose it is necessary for me...

Yes it is normal and I can think of multiple examples in my own life. What matters is whether she is attracted to you. If she is, the rest will fall into place.