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No no no, I'm not complaining. I'm trying to figure out a piece of the attraction puzzle. WHY do attractive younger or similar aged women who are worth equal or MORE money than me willing to travel and bend over backwards to meet me, sex, etc. But yet low grade middle aged trash on POF that is...

I wonder if this IS it....self esteem issues? I had two lower quality but attractive girls say that to me last year: you are too good to be true. You're perfect, why would you want to be with me, etc. Because you're hot and the sex is good and I view this as temporary...lol. Maybe your theory...

I didn't say they were higher quality than me, I said they are HIGH quality women. But some of these chics have more money than ME at the same age and are HOT. Nor did I say I pedestalize women or look down on myself. I asked why I do better with higher quality girls than lower quality girls...

No it's a question: Why are higher quality women more interested in me than low quality women? I'm trying to figure out the dynamic in hopes of it giving me an edge or just even understanding it. It might provide insight into attraction; figuring out why some lower end women have no interest...

I have an advanced degree. I'm tech management. I own multiple rentals in one of the most expensive markets in the country. I have a high net worth. I'm an 8.5 in looks, funny/playful personality. On the dating site POF, while I get dates with attractive women younger or similar age as me, it's...

I agree, the women they left with looked like *****s. I mean literally like *****s. I saw one of them even touching up their makeup when they were driving out of the parking garage in the biggest muscle head bouncers car. You have a point about trashy women. See my post above. I can get...

There is a great book that talks about game and why some attractive guys can get certain women but not others. It talks about filling holes, and no not in the sexual way. Humans are enormously complex. As is attraction. Chase Amante also talks about this as does David DeAngelo. A women might be...

Basically the article says there are reasons such as revenge against an ex, make a man jealous, status with social circle of friends, getting a man, keeping a man, getting promotions, drugs, etc. as well as pleasure due to physical attraction. Supposedly there was a study. It is obvious that...

In a club, when I was in my mid twenties, I noticed most people were in their early to mid twenties. There was ONE couple that were maybe 35-45 years old. They really stood out. One of my ex's from my twenties is 38 now and she is visibly older. Still a solid 9, but you can see the crows feet...

I would not be so sure about that. When I was VERY young starting out in life, I worked around the corner from arguably the most popular night club in a MAJOR city. I saw hot women come alone, in groups, etc. I saw guys come alone, in groups, but mostly alone. Guess who I saw going home with...

So you're saying if he is not getting top tier white girls he is getting low tier asian and latina women? But at the end you say that Chad does get top tier white girls? Which is it?

I don't know why some people think that everyone is dating some hoe at the local bar or Tinder. She is a multi millionaire....and a 9...in her late 20's....Yeah, there aren't that many like her.

I've had a few relationships that did stuff similar to this early on. Try to break up but not really. And whether I go with, "hey you're making a mistake but seems like you've made up your mind" or "OK take care" they back off. In a recent case the girl texted me TWO freaking days later hinting...

I hear you on some of the inner game stuff, but I think a lot of people don't focus enough on strategy and tactics. I liken this to gun fighting. Inner game doesn't win gun fights. Fire and maneuver, fire and movement, cover and concealment, tactical movement and training as well as planning...

I just called her. I responded to one of her earlier texts from the day and she happened to be up still. I kept the conversation short, she seemed disappointed that I was getting off the phone so quickly (3 minutes). But better short than too long. She was getting sleepy anyways and watching a...

Yeah the part about calling only when in a text conversation already knowing she is on her phone is what I was looking for. I had thought about that as well.

A little more background. She traveled across the country braving the virus fears to meet me (she was really worried about it) and was chastised by family and friends after since she didn't tell them before her trip because she knew they would stop her traveling to meet some guy she met online...

I'm not really much of a caller. Women I've dated in the past or been in relationships with early on often joke that they had a dream that I finally called them. When I have started calling we were so far along into the relationship (months) and had arguments over text that we were past the...

Right, I need to maintain that frame and not worry about pursuing since she has done all the pursuing to date? I keep trying to remind myself that she flew all that way at her own expense despite virus fears that she had to come meet me, slept with me, had a great time, etc. Maybe doing nothing...

Yes obsessing, she is high quality. She already set a date for me to come down and like I said in other threads tried to take some of my stuff to make me come see her to get it back. Maybe inaction is best at this point. I text her good morning and try to follow the 2/3 text rule. The girl flew...