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    Moving in with new GF? How to broach the subject

    So it came up in conversation, she INITIALLY said you could just buy a place here...I told her the interest rates are too high and I don't want to tie up that much cash paying for a place in full. She understood that. She then said she could just keep me under her bed and let me out to potty and...
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    How do I fix? My response to her friend during no contact was taken as a blow off

    I have actually been dating this chic that is more my type and successful AF, plus she comes from a veeeerrry successful family. We entered into a relationship this week (her idea, I was game to do it too though) and I've almost completely stopped caring about my ex. This new girl is way better...
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    Is sex overrated ?

    To an extent what this guy says in his first sentence is true. But I'll also say, some of the hottest women are lame in bed. Not all but some. My ex was super hot and phenomenal in bed. As good as the sex was, it was still overrated. What it really was about was bragging rights and validation...
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    New GF likes to text a lot

    Define too quickly, depending on the text or time of day I respond in 15-60 minutes. Initiating 1:3 texts sure, but if I ignore 2 out of 3 of her messages/respond to only 1/3 of hers I can tell you that's going to get noticed fast....As it stands I never initiate a text with her and never make...
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    Moving in with new GF? How to broach the subject

    I started dating a girl in a neighboring state recently. I had been preparing to move to this state, so as I was dating locally I thought about maybe finding someone where I want to move anyways. Well I did find a girl there, and we really hit it off. When I see her she doesn't want me to...
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    New GF likes to text a lot

    At first when we were dating neither one of us texted much. It wasn't until a couple weeks in that we started texting daily. Prior to that we'd both go 2-4 days without texting. That was when we were getting to know each other. In the weeks leading up to becoming a couple and now, we text...
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    How do I fix? My response to her friend during no contact was taken as a blow off

    Question is how to fix, not looking for comments to move on, etc. Please stay on topic. So my ex and I had an on/off again relationship. Intense (she is likely BPD and NPD, has all the signs). She usually broke no contact before, but things ended badly this time, worse than others, although...
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    ***Important notice - Moving in with a LTR or engagement/marriage***

    I don’t recall exactly as this was nearly a decade ago, but it doesn’t matter, the laws vary from state to state, hire an attorney…
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    ***Important notice - Moving in with a LTR or engagement/marriage***

    I had a cohab agreement with my gf of 9 years. Put it in place very early in the relationship. I even met with a lawyer years later just to make sure it was air tight.
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    Where to meet younger women?

    I'm trying to think of clubs or activities where I can make friends with females first. Evaluate them first. When you're dating chics, they are usually hiding their past. When a woman is just a friend at first, they are usually not hiding things. I can sit there and use c*ocky comedy, kino and...
  11. J

    Where to meet younger women?

    I have a muscular body, six pack, work out 5 days a week. But they say it's harder to build muscle in your 40's. Matt Damon did an interview where he talked about this.
  12. J

    Where to meet younger women?

    Although I have no problem cold approaching and am the type who walks around lounges and bars talking to everyone making them laugh/making friends, even with couples, I generally have had limited success with cold approaches. It doesn't help that I live in the worst city in the country for...
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    Where to meet younger women?

    I temporarily unblocked you to respond to your nonsense. As a guy who is rarely single for long and usually is in a relationship with women who are 8-10's, I wouldn't say I have TROUBLE with women, nice attempt at an attack though. I'm actually not worth quite 5 mil yet, close though. My last...
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    Where to meet younger women?

    As a bookish corporate exec, I don't think I'd really fit into this environment. I do well with attractive yet successful women or those who are ambitious.
  15. J

    Where to meet younger women?

    That was my thought before I got to the end of your sentence....I remember going to clubs once in a blue moon in my twenties, and I'd see an old couple there and think, WTF?
  16. J

    Where to meet younger women?

    I already do that, point is very few young women are doing OLD. It’s mostly cougars.
  17. J

    Where to meet younger women?

    I've dated a few 19 year old girls and a few in their mid twenties in online dating, but the other night I noticed the VAST majority of the women that show up in search results in dating sites are 35-40+. Many of them still look good, but the attitude with some of these women is something...
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    Is it worth pursuing neutral women?

    I’m at the point where I have a high enough body count and enough other stuff going on that’s more important that UNLESS I’ve invested in her as in a relationship of several months, if a girl is neutral I next. Sex is overrated anyways and I have had my fill, at 40 I don’t care for the drama of...
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    Anyways, I'm learning to go back to not getting my validation from women. The thing is, when you have the money, you'd think you'd be happy with that. Realistically, I'd love a family. But I can't trust women, and every woman I date is divorced it seems like. Nearly every. The reality is most...
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