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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    My now ex, 42 (Asian, looked 31, bat s crazy it turned out). Hard core Borderline and Narcissist, had the majority of the signs based on my past experiences. Her replacement...35 year old "virgin" (vaginal). Bat s crazy, no wonder this hot Ukranian chic had never been proposed to and all her...
  2. J

    Women who come on hot and heavy starting off

    I've learned that women who are quick to fall for you usually have Borderline Personality Disorder. I've had two gf's like this, as attractive as they were, they took me off the market really fast. My friends ex wife who had the exact same behaviors on a dozen points or more, was formally...
  3. J

    Most relationships don't work, so what is one to do?

    I guess at the end of the day yes, life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the experiences with the women while you can. I take lot's of pictures and save some key memory items to look back on when I'm old and unable to date. It is still not a fun thought knowing you're going to fall in love...
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    Most relationships don't work, so what is one to do?

    When I was in my late teens and early twenties I got dates no problem but didn't know what to do with them so they never went anywhere. Eventually through some books I learned about what works in dating and what doesn't. Finding women to bed and date isn't the issue now and hasn't been for...
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    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    I was dating other women when I met her. This was the best match for me at the time and the hottest one. We had a TON in common. As we got serious and developed feelings we both started having issues and found that in some areas we are not compatible. Who cares if I wrote a long thread about a 6...
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    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    Most women are a PITA, that's why we're all here...and in one of the couple of threads I've started about her previously people said I was being over bearing on some things. Friends have also said she's a PITA why bother...until I send them pictures of her and they say oh wow!!! Try to work it...
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    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    Yeah but due to being Asian and taking care of herself she looks late twenties. I turn 40 soon.
  8. J

    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    Good advice. No we don't live together. She is about to be homeless as she rents a house from her sister at half the market rent but they need to sell the house and her other sister doesn't want her to live with her right now. She can't afford the lifestyle she has on her own without family...
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    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    My gf of six months I suspect of having borderline personality disorder. Her behavior matches EXACTLY to that of another ex and my friends ex wife who was FORMALLY diagnosed twice with it. Even before I found that out from my friend, I had already self diagnosed an ex with BPD based on behavior...
  10. J

    How to apply silence and distance in a relationship

    That I already have but I'm talking about how much silence to apply, not respond or answer calls for a day? Two days? Until end of day? Four hours?
  11. J

    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Negative, she is Asian...in her culture (vietnamese) women are supposed to be submissive. She's very Americanized though and in business to be successful she became very hard headed....
  12. J

    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Structured women? She's only structured in her investments. I've never seen her more organized than in that stuff. She's meticulous in that stuff but otherwise she is as disorganized as they come.
  13. J

    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Ummmm...No you don't understand, I never even said anything about her telling me what to do. She does what I ask of HER, she just sometimes argues with me over it and gives me attitude about it sometimes. She complies, but it's a fight to get her to comply sometimes. You need to learn how to...
  14. J

    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Despite being very feminine in looks and such, her sister and friends have told her she is very argumentative and masculine energy in behavior. I've now told her that too. Now she's feminine as well, but a few months in I see what her sister meant. She is argumentative. She doesn't like being...
  15. J

    How to apply silence and distance in a relationship

    Especially temporarily long distance. Our first 3.5 months was local, now she is out of state on and off for 3 months for work. We have a plan to see each other regularly. We were seeing each other once a week up until month 2, at which point it creeped up to 3-4 days a week around each holiday...
  16. J

    Am *I* too argumentative with her?

    I accused her, she just said she doesn't like to argue,, but not just me, my friend says she is argumentative and unreasonable, as did her ex husband as does her sister. Her sister tells her she is too masculine and argumentative and that's why she has problems in relationships. Don't get me...
  17. J

    Am *I* too argumentative with her?

    I like how you completely ignored the fact that she calls me constantly to argue, she triggers them and was disappointed when I told her I'm not going to ask more than once from now on. If you heard them you'd see she likes the up and down, even friends who hear the calls agree. Why else call me...
  18. J

    Am *I* too argumentative with her?

    So asking my gf what suite she is working out of so I can send her flowers for Valentines day is insecure and it's wrong for me to ask her, and I'm the problem because she says she doesn't want anything and won't tell me the suite so that she doesn't owe me anything and keeps saying no, no no no...
  19. J

    Am *I* too argumentative with her?

    My friend and I feel the opposite, we looked at her patterns (you don't have all the details we do) and she seems to enjoy the ups and downs....She says she doesn't want to argue, or talk on the phone for a couple days...then she calls right when she wakes up and talks to me for 3 and a half...
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