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    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    Yeah, last time we broke up for a few days and I went NC, she texted me a few days later with a made up package delivered to her office with no sender but it was addressed to her...she really went on about it for days after we got back together to really sell me the story. What the package was...
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    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    That's the thing, my response was not really taking the bait right? I merely texted I had a crazy weekend, just getting to her text, and that I'm not her. That's it. I didn't say oh I miss her and I want her back, I didn't ask her friend about her, just detached. And I even took a day to...
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    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    The breakup was technically her fault, but she blamed me and tried to gas light me, her borderline narc personality maintains the victim frame. She was clearly trying to reach out, but why no response from her friend after I sent the benign response? I can't see how she got any validation from...
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    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    Why is that? I don't intend to but I feel like you're getting at something here. Also, would be good to know your perspective on my post if you'd please read it. It'll give me a clue as to whether she wants me to reach out or....
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    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    I am dating a few new girls, but 1) none of them compare to her in looks and personality and 2) I don't want to go BACK to my ex as far as a relationship, I want just a sexual relationship with her, which was something we had agreed to long before we broke up, that it if ever got that bad...
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    And even they have their issues. My previous two gf's before this last one were 25 and 29. They both had some severe emotional issues. Women in general have issues. Ruled by their emotions. Just randomly crying. No logic, no empathy. Just pure emotion. Also another girl I dated recently was 35...
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    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    We had a really bad breakup, she messed up big, so she's unlikely to reach out directly for fear of rejection. After 2 weeks of no contact, she tried to do something in an app we shared that she knew would send me a notification and might trigger me to reach out. It indicated she still had the...
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    Most relationships don't work, so what is one to do?

    VERY good post, thank you! My last relationship ended so badly, I'm going to have severe trauma from it. Will take me a lot of time to get over it. Doesn't help that she was super hot, borderline and very much love bombed me in the beginning. Then used silence to punish and try to betaize me. It...
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    Logical fallacy. The women are multiple times divorced, single moms.... Or never married but WANT to get married and as noted have WEIRD stipulations about meeting up even for a date. As noted one woman won't give me her number, yet expects me to show up and pay for dates...she said it's more...
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    40....note the title of the thread.
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    No, you can't. This is baseless. You can't know whether someone has issues until you get to know them for a while. Hence why the people get married then divorced. It takes time to get to know the real someone behind their social mask. Once they get comfortable in the relationship, they let their...
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    Yep, my multi millionaire butt is the problem, not the women who are hot and never married and childless or have three divorces behind them by 40. GENIUS!!!
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    There is one of you in EVERY thread with the troll comments. Everyone is a troll to trolls...anyone who posts anything is a troll to geniuses like you. Welcome to the ignore list.
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    Let me tell you about all the divorced single dads/moms that work for me...even getting married and having a kid isn't guaranteeing forever. What is more likely is you'll end up divorced and in family court, paying child support and alimony, defending yourself against abuse allegations conjured...
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    Your woman can cheat and still love and respect you?

    I've cheated despite still loving the girl at home. I've also been faithful for years until there is enough uncertainty in the relationship that I check out and monkey branch myself....I've also been with women that did that in their past marriages and even had gf's that were faithful for years...
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    Your woman can cheat and still love and respect you?

    I've cheated and still had a hard time with being cheated on. Our biology is different, we are meant to spread our seed. They are not. We also don't want to spend our resources to raise someone else's child. They can get you to raise someone elses child...
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    Tips for OLD?

    OLD is about your photos, profile, opener and message game. Plus as always, a numbers game. Generally I find a new gf OLD within anywhere from a week to 3 months. The last time it took me 10 weeks and 3 dates (all of them high net worth women). Also, women in the 30+ and especially 40+ who are...
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    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    You are absolutely right, one of my former employees called this out about me years ago, as to why I am attracted to crazy women. Not only because they are generally hot, but I LIKE the ups and downs because my life is otherwise so boring. As did she, which is WHY she liked to trigger me to...
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    Most relationships don't work, so what is one to do?

    I think a lot of people don't get the compelling mission thing is overrated. I'm a self made multi millionaire. I posted a picture of my verified net worth from one of the dating sites I'm on in a thread a while back. Life is made, I don't have the problems most people have and my mission was...
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    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    She was a dime, she looked like she was 31, Asian, Huge perfect boobs, nice ass, 5 feet tall, 95 lbs, gorgeous face. Vietnamese. Super bad case of BPD AND NPD. Broke up 3 weeks ago. It's hard due to our trauma bond (I wasn't perfect either but certainly 5x more stable than her) but I do miss the...
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