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    Tips on spotting the female narcissist...

    I'm an empath so I attract narcissistic women. Here are some tips I've noticed from my last few gf's in the last 2 years: 1) Does the think of herself as a Queen or Princess? This should tell you a lot, especially if she calls herself one and demands you treat her like one. 2) Does she have...
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    Is cheating "OK" considering most relationships end anyways?

    Well, between you guys and my close friend, I've decided to pass on this girl. BeExcellent is what largely convinced me. No, I wouldn't like it if she did this to me. I just worry about the possibility because she is young and veeery attractive and get's hit on a lot. To ease my concerns, she...
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    Is cheating "OK" considering most relationships end anyways?

    People make comments like this that don't answer the question in the OP, and make assumptions about where I came from hardship wise. Sorry that you have trouble getting even one girl, let alone multiple...now welcome to the ignore list...
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    Is cheating "OK" considering most relationships end anyways?

    Hey there, always good to get your insight and perspective as a woman. No, I wouldn't want her to do it. But what I'm saying is, my relationships have always ended. In hindsight, for most of them I didn't regret doing it, because they ended anyways. For one or two, I did regret doing it. In one...
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    Is cheating "OK" considering most relationships end anyways?

    You might be surprised, I live in one of the biggest cities and it's surprisingly common to run into someone from the same circles even online. On top of that, when they meet your friends, family, etc. there's always that hater that might dime you out. Here is my thought process, which I will...
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    Is cheating "OK" considering most relationships end anyways?

    I've cheated on damn near every gf at one point or another. Felt a little guilty at the time, but the relationships ended anyways and in hindsight, I was like at least I didn't miss out. Now mind you it's not something where I went and slept with a different girl every week or anything while in...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    The very top of the thread, is the part you missed the exceptions: Until she's either your gf/fb/already had sex with her. I've hung out with many of my gf's friends before, though we had been together longer. You can't never meet their friends dude...anyone who's ever had a gf knows this...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    I own and operate a large portfolio of single family rentals in one of THE most expensive housing markets in the country. That's my primary, but I also invest in stocks. I love real estate much more for the tax benefits and control. That said, I still work. I don't have to, but it's an extra few...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    Many paths to success. You sound like you have a business mindset, adept at flipping. College for me was merely a way out of extreme poverty, a nearly guaranteed good job. I saved that money and invested it, even as my career and salary grew and I became an Exec. Now my investments pay me faaar...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    Ahhh, thanks brother! I met her on a high net worth dating site where I'm a verified net worth/income member. I had 5 gf's in the last year, plus a few lays where I didn't want them as gf's/they got caught in lies early on, but all of them high end/hot/successful. We were incompatible in the...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    For sure not that old, and it's her choice to be with me. She's a 10, 5 feet tall, 96 lbs, absolutely drop dead gorgeous and successful career well into the six figures. Her dad is very wealthy. I'm also wealthy, so I've been schooling her on investing and she's doing great. Planning an...
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    Hanging out with my gf and her girl friends: bad idea?

    I saw a thread that DOES NOT apply to me since we are already a couple, sleeping together and have exchanged I love you with each other (https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/rule-dont-hang-out-with-her-friends.176654/). Her gf had invited my girl to a house party (they're all Asian, my gf is...
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    Ever date a widow?

    I've done some research on this online from threads in other forums I've found but I'm curious what people here say. It's been two years since he died, of a drug overdose. The man was a violent felon, philanderer and abusive to her (physically and emotionally). They lived in a rental house and...
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    Anyone ever pull a (current) stripper online?

    I did in my twenties, on POF. She was in her early twenties from what I recall. We just had chemistry, she liked my sarcastic sense of humor. We F'd at a hotel she got prior to our date as she was staying with some people having just moved here.
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    How many chicks have you slept with?

    Around 70ish based on the number of women I typically sleep with during periods of being single, I lost count around 40ish years ago and I have been in long term relationships most of my adult life, though I did have an affair here and there, it's much harder to pull off getting ass when you...
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    What are some passionate sex themes in romance novels?

    I'm talking stuff like, when she's out of the shower and wrapped in a towel, walking up to her and passionately kissing her then taking off the towel, you get the drift. What are some similar things?
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    New GF likes to text a lot

    All true, agreed on a drop of attraction over time, but that's normal in any relationship, even as a guy I lose some interest over time as I get familiar with them and have them... The sucky thing is this is a LDR for now until I relocate (was moving there anyways) something I neglected to put...
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    New GF likes to text a lot

    EXACTLY! If you text too little it's a problem, if you text too much it's a problem. I'm thinking she initiates 95%+ of the time so it's not an issue yet. I don't really initiate. I do disappear mid convo sometimes on purpose for 1-4 hours. I think a key is to not be predictable. Be random. But...
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    Moving in with new GF? How to broach the subject

    So here's the deal. Experience has taught me relationships don't last. I've even told her nothing lasts forever (which she didn't like). But this is a good way for me to relocate and get my own place later. It's a strategic move, not a long term life decision. I'm moving across the country, it...
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    Moving in with new GF? How to broach the subject

    I hear ya bro. The father is not an issue. If it came to the other stuff you mentioned, I'd get a hotel for a week, then an apartment until I can buy my own house (takes a month or so to close escrow). She has a couple young kids plus some teenagers.
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