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    Why did my ex take the picture of us from my house?

    1,000% If one starts asking for a relationship and she eventually pulls out of the rotation, plenty of other girls lined up to take her spot in the rotation. Only sucky thing is a lot of them want to use a condom even though they are on BC and I have a recent STD test at the ready showing I'm...
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    Why did my ex take the picture of us from my house?

    It was usually she'd order something from Amazon to send for me so I'd reach out and thank her, or generally getting stuff back from her place and her from mine. But I will admit one time I did reach out without cause and we ended up back together. That said, she outright told me when we broke...
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    Why did my ex take the picture of us from my house?

    It already was when it was bad. It's the classic BPD roller coaster. When it was good it was good. Tiny little 26 year old Asian girl with a good paying job, never married, no kids. But the first emotion I felt after any of our breakups was relief. No more insanity, weird logic of a 5 year old...
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    Why did my ex take the picture of us from my house?

    Oh yeah! Trust me I know. You don't even know the half of it. I don't think I posted anything about the issues with this one in detail on here, but she is a whole new level. She even admitted she is a narcissist. I recognized signs of BPD in her early on, and told her. She eventually researched...
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    Why did my ex take the picture of us from my house?

    In your case she was absolutely insane but wanted to remove her picture from the photos, that must have taken some serious time and is a whole new level of insanity. In my case, she is insane as well, even admitted it to me on video. But she only took one specific polaroid she had printed and...
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    Rent or buy?

    Also, of course your fiance is pushing for YOU to buy a house...with your money...and your money will pay the bills, since she can't even afford to buy a decent car to replace her existing old one. Add to that marriage, it's a big pay day for her in the event of divorce....a 50/50 chance...I...
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    Rent or buy?

    My tenants don't realize it's actually cheaper for them to rent my houses from me than for me to own. They pay half of what it costs me to own them, when you factor in opportunity costs. Depreciation and expenses alone eat into cash flow. Depreciation isn't a phantom expense, eventually the...
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    Rent or buy?

    I hear ya on the frozen pipes. Been there, done that. 15K repair to re-pipe with PEX. Couple years ago we had -6 degree F weather and I left my gf to go to four of my vacant rentals to open the faucets to drip, open the cabinets under the sinks and make sure the heaters were on... For some...
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    Rent or buy?

    I own a lot of houses, I wouldn't be buying anything right now if I were you... Also, regardless of who's name the house is, if the down payment and payments are traceable to you, she can get the money....a judge will see through attempts at shielding assets. My advice. Don't get married. If...
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    Why did my ex take the picture of us from my house?

    I ask because I have a feeling I'll be hearing from her again...We've broken up a few times before, and although each breakup had become longer, we have always ended up together again. She was staying at my place while I was out of town visiting family, and we had a fight while I was gone. She...
  11. J

    Is it beta to open a car door for women

    No it makes them feel special. Chivalry is well rewarded as long as you're not a nice guy. Tease her and open doors for her, it will work wonders.
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    My experiments with different versions of no contact

    Yes, no contact is also to get over someone. But most people use it to get people back. The general rule is 60 days no contact. I've done this and shorter periods as well as longer periods. Without making a super long post of each experiment, I've found that Dan Bacon's version of no contact of...
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    To keep employing silence and distance here or respond?

    Use her for sex for a few more months...She's 26 HB10 Asian girl from wealthy family, high paying job, very high paying, I'm 41...very good looking successful guy. She actually just sent me a text an hour ago, which is what I told my friends she'd send if she does send anything, an "so I take...
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    The delusions and attempts at hypergamy of middle aged women

    I've dated girls who are deca millionaires (verified on the site) and 10 years younger than me before. Serial daters, they are perpetually on the site every time I am single and get back on for a bit. These girls would NOT talk to any guy unless he was also certified net worth. Once I got that...
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    My legs finally caught up with the rest of my body!

    How long did it take you to build up your legs. My upper body is jacked, just shredded. But my legs are skinny. I've been doing dumbell lunges with 100 lbs, and calf raises with the same. Sore AF, but legs stay skinny. I even do squats with 500 lbs at the gym. Sets of them, not one and done. But...
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    What is the equivalent of "make-up" and glam for men?

    So I have the money to buy Lambo's and such in cash, I live in a lake house, have rental properties, etc. The lake house and my verified high net worth dating profile have garnered dates with much younger women, some of them veeery successful, and I have a unique advantage, in that they only...
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    To keep employing silence and distance here or respond?

    My ex and I have been trying to reconcile. We started seeing each other again, and she has agreed to go back to the way things were, but....she is borderline so when she gets me almost back, pushed me away by wanting me to prove my love to her (I think she is fishing for a ring). When she did...
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    The delusions and attempts at hypergamy of middle aged women

    For me, ZERO. I'd pretend, knowing it'll end eventually. But that's it.
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    Worn out

    Smart! Keep your money. At this point in life it's about less headaches...sex is overrated, mostly it's about validation these days.
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    What is the equivalent of "make-up" and glam for men?

    This is a good one that a lot overlook because it takes effort and time. I'm buff and got tight fitting clothing to show it off more last year. Girls love my body. But there has to me more one can do...
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