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You have a choice about what you do as well as how you feel. Wait a sec, I told myself that....

A lot of guys have this problem because even though they feel that the woman is one of "quality," they forgo qualifying her effectively. They see any level of interest from her as being viable, even if it's minimal. Part of qualifying a woman is gauging her IL and if she's not that into you...

Out of curiosity, what made you decide to move in together in the first place? More times than not any convenience turns into complacency unless the couple continues to interact as if they weren't living is such close proximity.

You just need to work on your self esteem. You're seeking approval by doing things for other people. If you genuinely liked yourself you could validate yourself instead of looking for validation from others. If you felt better about yourself, you would feel comfortable setting limits with...

Makes perfect sense especially since you've been able to do it in the past. You've just lessened the extent to which you are comfortable with women. You get comfortable, just not that comfortable. Consider this, it's not necessarily vulnerability which makes men more attractive to women...

Hate to tell you this, but....... http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2598949/

So since you guys are already comfortable with one another, why doesn't these things come up? You keep talking about deep rapport, rapport is just the surface stuff; the stuff that allows you to get along. The connection that you're looking for is like you said, deeper. That's why I ask, if...

That's a huge jump going from rapport to the bedroom. Typically you can't bed a woman unless she's at least comfortable with you. Then there's that nastly little thing called attraction. Perhaps forgetting those two is causing your problem.

Ditto. Easy to find women with similar interests and they're all over the place doing all types of things.

You're absolutely right, I've never heard of the guy. I'm going to look him up.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137023 The search function is your friend. There is more than enough threads out there pertaining to successful online sarging.

I'd use this opportunity the qualify her further. In order to determine whether she is truly interested, I'd call and tell her that I'd like to see her again and tell her to pick a day and plan the activities. If she's willing to do the work of organizing and follows through, it's a good sign...

I may have missed it but has anyone else noticed that she does not mention anything which she could offer to a relationship? All she has are demands of what she wants and a list of what she won't offer. Well, she does drive a truck. :rolleyes:

It's proof that no matter how (for the lack of a better word) "broken" a woman may be, she feels that there will be some guy out there who is willing to ride in and save her and be completely accepting of all her faults. Sadly to say, they're right. I feel bad for the guys who believe that...

Ever been to Espresso Royale on the Green Line? That's where I go when I'm visiting BU. Very comfortable and big with a jukebox. I've been caught dancing there. There's also one across the street from the Conservatory which is very impressive in a "sophisticated" kind of way. Yeah, it's a...

It's huge. It's one of the major ways that women see confidence in a guy. You don't even have to be great at it, just comfortable with yourself when your on the dancefloor. If you are good you can take charge by leading your partner on the dancefloor. Knowing how to dance isn't a detriment...

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Coffee dates are great as long as you don't go to one of those boring chain places. They are way too sterile and have way too much patron traffic. If you want to make an impression, find a cool independent shop that has character. I enjoy the ones that have tons of plush chairs, couches...

Personally, I wouldn't advertise it in the regular media. There would be a huge chance of crackpots responding plus you have no idea about their capabilities. If you want to build a wing I'd suggest you go out and recruit them personally. Go to the clubs that you enjoy and feel comfortable in...

Roark's a wimp compared to the protagonist in "Atlas Shrugged." He could have done much more with his given principles than what he achieved. It wasn't bad but it wasn't great. The men in Atlas accomplished great things which literally impacted the world. "Anthem" was good and "The...