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I agree w Desdinova that older girls have too many sex partners and can't bond (like an old post it note). But in reality, I keep seeing that ALL young girls have lots of issues. I think something is wrong with society (rise in divorced parents, social media, hookup culture, worshipped...

That is why you are Master Don Juan. I had never heard of any of this and just assumed most people are normal. Now I know. The baby talk seems so common with bpd/hpd that I now think it one of the easiest red flags to spot. I mean literally had the sweet, high tone, innocent voice of a 12 year...

I think you nailed it: BPD's date down so this is probably one of the hottest girls you've ever dated. Combine that with love bombing. I had never heard of that, so thought here is an HB10 that thinks you're hilarious, hot, smart, etc guy she's ever met. She laughs all your jokes & worships...

It's like we all dated the same person Yes! Exactly. "wow she picked me". No feelings. Mid-20’s supermodel with young girl personality. I heard it called “childlike wonder” on another thread. It’s almost like it’s the same girl. Her changing opinion of exes too. This is so true. At first...

http://www.psychforums.com/borderline-personality/topic46443.html

. I saw this on another thread and is fascinating aspect of borderlines, which I believe is effect of stunted childhood development. "Oh my gosh, my gosh!!! We are really on a plane really taking a vacation! I can't believe we are on a plane!!" "You GOT ME a gift!!!!" or you say...

Okay to each his own. Pls focus on the question The point is that she is attractive, which I think is common trait of bpd

This phenomenon really fascinates me. She's hot - HB 8.5-9.0 Feminine, Sexy, Seductive She's turning 27 this month and isn't close to marriage Her life revolves around her two cats - She takes them everywhere and admits to being a "cat lady" She monkey branches from one serious relationship...

^ THIS Excellent post. All of these are great. I think women can put on an act and try to hide a lot of these "slut tells" (bad family, impulsive, kinky, emotional, put out too early, etc) for awhile. But the casually nude is sure fire tell. A truly good girl will be very modest, especially...

Femenine, flirty, youthful. I think guys on internet say pump and dump but in reality if you started banging Paris Hilton you would prob be difficult to dump her

would you date her? Very Hot Sexy Fun Parties a lot Laughs Wealthy fam High mileage Prob crazy/unfaithful but don't know Drugs Avg conversation Sloot

Great point. I didn't include the post divorce crowd. In my experience, there are some really quality divorcees that had a bad partner. And yes, I agree that chances are better with someone divorced at 35 than someone who never got married. Now that I think of it...I have two close friends who...

Yall may not want to hear this....but this rule applies to men as well. Literally all of my normal/desirable guy friends were married by 28. I live in the south. I mean all of my guy friends were married by age 28 (sample size n = 60 guys). 50 of 60 guy friends were married by 28. 7 of my...

Ever wonder why BPD not on the pill? It's proven to exacerbate bpd so psychiatrists take them off.... https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/12812862/

I think it's mostly the first -quality hot/not crazy gets locked up by a guy quickly But you're right, that additionally the girls who are still single by 25 have 1) been psychological damaged by bad exbf 2) have had so many dcks that don't emotional pair bond 3) prob partied and put on weight...

Yup - by end of my first semester in college, the 10 hottest girls in college all had serious bf that most married. They had their pick of hot/cool jocks/frat boys. Dated for a few months and picked a winner. Interestingly, it seemed only hot/cool guys had the balls to ask them out. So they...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/conclusion-99-of-unicorns-are-married-by-age-26.233538/

Agree 100% Every hot/cool girl I know was off the market by age 21. If you are fun/normal/hot/good family/etc you will have so many guys after you they you will fall in love and marry by age 21. There are some rare exceptions (doctor lawyer hippy etc) but even these are usually off market by...

Anybody date an hpd? Lots of borderline stories but this seems like a different flavor of crazy. Copied & pasted from another site.... Pre-dating red flags: 1. Sexually aggressive 2. Very flirtatious 3. Very complimentary 4. Cryptic warnings from others 5. Beautiful 6. Histrionic personality...

I think this is the BIGGEST QUESTION of getting girls - HOW DO YOU PURSUE, BUT NOT CHASE If a girl is in your social circle, you can run into her frequently/accidentally and play it cool (be a challenge). This works great on college campus when you see her daily without trying! But if you meet...