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I've visited this forum and learned a lot. I believe in the psychology of being a chase, respecting yourself, and that humans want what they can't have... which I believe is essence of this website. After reading so many experiences of guys on here with terrible women, I came to a conclusion...

BPD's don't develop "object constancy" because of stunted emotional growth as a child with troubled parents. It sounds like she has "out of sight, out of mind" meaning she likes you when you are in front of her and then forgets when you're gone.

Yea, that's what I thought.

how?

yikes! Did she have daddy/mommy issues? Did relationship start fast with idealization, then push/pull?

Another great post! It's astonishing how similar everyone's bpd experience is. Like they are all following a playbook. I think we run into these girls more often because they are 1) Hot 2) single. 3) extroverted/fun (out at bars, etc). All the hot/cool girls I grew up with were married by...

Non Juan - this is the best description I've ever seen of how hot borderlines lead on guys building "illusion of bond" for their own brief emotional validation and then discarding all to friend zone, which most dudes happily accept. I too am curious how to game bpds

I'm new to crazy chicks and stumbled across this website (which is great resource)... Does this sound like borderline personality to you? 1) Solid 9.5. Everyone says 10. 2) 29 years old and chronically single (had a bf of 5 yrs so maybe excusable?) 3) Seems very confident and has tons of...