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I have several friends and co-workers that are age 30-35 and very attractive but have completely given up on dating. These are all career minded women (CPA, Attorney, MD, etc) and HB8+. They all dated a lot in college and 20's because they are very hot and good people from good families, etc...

Pretty standard BPD story. It amazes me how similar they all are.

The drop off from age 27 to 30 is devastating! I see it all the time Some girls can keep the youthful look of college until 27 (at best), but then they decline quickly (especially if party alot). After 27, girls enter a stage of womanhood in which they can be attractive (think MILF) if take...

I think little dogs, especially personifying them is a RED FLAG But you are right, literally every single girl over age 25 has a pet they adore. Heck, I just realized 90% of single men over age 25 have a pet they adore. Maybe it is something about living alone.

SO TRUE. 27 is hitting the wall -Plus, these women realize even if they met a man today it would take 3 years to date, propose, set wedding, get married, have kids. -A lot of HB9 probably have life pretty easy and carefree, until the wall shows them it can all be taken away...and soon will be...

This topic also interests me! A few years ago, The New York Times wrote an article on single women with dogs. It quoted lots of psychologists, etc. The thought was more women are delaying having kids (or even husband) with careers, etc and that the dog was their defacto kid. They can put their...

Still amazes me how similar all these girls are. Great old thread

Edit - the more I review this list...just LOL Tennis, gymnastics? Wtf If you ever meet an elite college wrestler, SEAL, MMA, etc. you will know in 2 minutes of casual conversation that their intensity level is not normal. These guys are crazy intense all the time. I'm not talking about some...

I guess love fades with time and you probably viewed them differently during honeymoon period. Even if they look the exact same a month later, once the spell has worn off then that are just another random cute girl. Plus you probably see their imperfections more clearly after breakup and time...

Wrestling If your question is "toughest" then it is obvious. Cross country, swimming, water polo, football all take conditioning, etc. But wrestling takes conditioning of the whole body. You truly use ever muscle in wrestling. Wrestling is two men trying to impose their physical will on each...

Good points. 1- Love chemicals (oxytocin) eventually wear off. What was once your "oneitis" eventually goes back to "just another cute girl." This is usually a short-term effect. For example, if you break up and run into them 6 months later, they are probably still attractive but just not the...

https://www.quora.com/Why-does-my-ex-look-ugly-after-breaking-up Q: Why does my ex look ugly after breaking up? When I was dating her she appeared to be absolutely beautiful and after we've broken up and I moved on, and I see her on social media, I feel like she appears ugly. Is this...

I read the book Dataclysm, which is about online dating. The author umis the founder of eHarmony and a math phd. It's fascinating to read what attracts people. Anyway, based on over 500,000 users, men of all ages think age 21 is ideal beauty. This men were only allowed to rank pictures, without...

Don't hate the player...hate the game. I am with guru1000 on this 1000%. You laugh at skinny jeans, but seriously unless you live in Alabama you need to be wearing skinny (or at least slim fit) jeans. Interesting - I have two groups of friends: Good Ole Boys - Half of my friends are...

Got it. Thx Looking good. Can't tell any cosmetic stuff, just look natural. Well done and I will try some. Keep taking down those young models (I think a lot of 20 yr olds attracted to forties for numerous reasons). I'm similar age/look to you. I think Justin Hartley is the goal for forty year...

Thx - to me aging well has been: Diet/exercise - lots of work to be 10-12% bf (imo that is less than 5% of 40 yr olds) And Style (you really must have tailored everything: pants, shirt, jacket and be willing to spend $ on best brands and update frequently). I have not thought about or tried...

Could you start a separate thread on this? In addition to all your regular confidence, looks, fun, social status, game, etc. what helps forty somethings land twenty something models? Diet (at least 50% vegetables and lots lean protein) Exercise (6 days week) Lift weights to increase...

Textbook HPD

QuadDeuces had some great input on this, thx! The BPD/HPD is most often with narcissist. They build up the narc with endless compliments (you are so hot, sexy, strong, smart, funny, etc). The narc believes this and thinks finally I found someone who sees it all. This is hard for narc to lose...

This is a great topic- how do you act on red flags with an otherwise great girl? Let's say you finally meet someone that is hot/fun/smart/educated/classy/etc (which I think is rare)... it's hard to dismiss and leave simply based on red flags. IMO - there are varying degrees of red flags and...