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Unless it is a long distance relationship (those suck), I see no reason to spend a lot of time on the phone with a girfriend. When I start dating girls, I immediately make it very clear that I'm into seeing eachother in person and not wasting time chatting on an impersonal phone. Why satisfy...

How long has she been your girlfriend? If it has been enough time that you are very comfortable in the relationship, its fine to treat her from time to time. If you want to get her flowers, that doesn't have to mean getting her a dozen red roses (red roses=i love you). You can do something...

Honestly, what can I do at this point though? I have about 2 weeks left before I'm out of the country and far, far away from her and around a bunch of hot foreign chicks... Yeah, I would like to get into something serious with her because I dig her, but at the same time it just can't happen...

Hahaha, I just talked to this chick on the phone and she aksed if I went to a class we both have on thursday because she ditched. I jokingly told her no because what would theo point be if I didn't have her sexy ass to stare at... she responds by saying "you're all talk and game and no action"...

Well, a bit of an update on trying to "recover": I ended up unexpectedly crossing paths with her on Wednesday while on a Mt. Bike ride and she asked me when the show was starting on thursday and if she could come over before to make dinner with me. I said ok, and she grabbed me and kissed me...

Sounds like you know how to go for the kiss just fine! I was friends with the girl I'm seeing right now for quite a few months before we hooked up, and the way things happened the first time was we started cuddling, i touched her hair, the back of her neck, and she seemed into it so I just...

Sounds like you've got a lot in your favor going into this date, good work! I never think a movie is a good first date idea with a girl I haven't talked to much before, but in your case since you already have known this girl for quite a while a movie would be ok... but, I would reccomend...

hahahahahaha! the way you asked the question defeated any hope of actually getting any serious answers. I understand what you are getting at, but what an odd way to ask it. It sounds like you lack social skills and when you say you are going to "practice" on your sister, you mean that you...

If you were one of my friends and you said to me what you have said on this board, I would kick the s*it out of you for being such a dumba$$. It seems like any good advice you get you simply ignore, so why bother even ask for it?

NEXT, NEXT, NEXT! Get on with your life, force yourself to work out more, force yourself to hang out with your friends and other girls as much as possible, avoid downtime by yourself, keep as busy as possible! Everytime you start thinking about her, do 10 push ups. Seriously! Do that and a...

I experienced the same feelings of apathy in my last 2 LTRs and got so bored that I just ended them. It was like forcing myself to be indifferent killed any feelings I had for these girls. Sure, being indifferent made them pursue me and get really into me, but the indifference remained until...

What you said explains quite a bit about my current situation and others in the past. I end up being an AFC with girls that I really like, but do very well with the ones I'm not as interested in. The last two LTRs I was in were with girls that were always more into me than I was into them, and...

You should be confident in yourself and your relationship enough that you aren't worried that she is lying to you. She is sending you a perfectly clear signal tonight, and do you want me to interpret it for you verbatim? Her: "Loser-it, sweetie, you constantly wanting to know what I am...

Dude, if your girlfriend is considering cheating on you or breaking up with you, every effort of yours to keep a closer watch will push her closer to actually doing so! Mellow the fvck out!!! Safety is not what you are concened with and you know it, that is just a lame excuse. I would buy...

Well, she contacted me tonight, but I told her "I can't talk right now because I'm going to meet up friend, cya." I think she wanted to ask about the show we were going to tomorrow, but I want to hold off on telling her that plans have changed and I'm going with other people. Basically, I'm...

Dude, read the DJ Bible. You are being absolutely ridiculous if you are getting upset with your girlfriend for not calling every second. I can't believe she puts up with that at all. I dont care if you had been married to her for 50 fvcking years; getting upset for the reasons you are is a...

If you were trying to be a DJ in this situation, the other guys would be right. But it is my feeling that since your intentions fall outside the realm of trying to get with her, it is frivolous to say its a "waste of time" to call her. If you want to see how she is doing and know it wont mess...

are they getting married? do remember though that if she does start hooking up with you and stays with the other dude, she is just as likeley to do that to you in the future if you become "her man."

I was in a similar situation and I went ahead and called the girl (i got her # from the company directory) and it worked out quite well... hahaha, that chick was a freak!(in a good way!)

I see nothing wrong with getting in touch with ex's as long as you have absolutely no attachement to them anymore. In the last year I've hung out with a couple of ex's that I had serious LTRs with and it was no big deal, and actually pretty cool to see what they were up to and all. I really do...