Where is my gf now? I dunno.

[Lost In Translation]

A Street Pimp's Perspective :

ok i am just gunna give it to you straight.

she is cheating on you and she is using you.

Ya, that is right. I don't know where my gf is now and now it is 11pm at night. Is that acceptable?

no. in my opinion it's not.

ignore the guys saying you stalking her.

f*ck that. the b*tch could give you one phone call to let you know where she is.

and i will get to you calling her to check up on her in a minute.

Now she just disappers without a trace sometimes. I keep telling her I am NOT happy about it

without a trace

Yes, I can call her but most of the time she doesn't pick up (cell phone always on slicece or left in the car or whatever).

ok this is the proof she is cheating on you.

she doesn't pick up ?

WHY

cell always on silent ?

WHY

as if

man chicks LIVE FOR PHONE CALLS

left in car

now the left in car is your proof in my EXPERIENCE that the b*tch is cheating on you

dude chicks are like addicted to their cell phones

THEY LOVE THEIR PHONES

they are NEVER seperated from their phones

alot of girls i know fall alseep with their phones in their hands LOL

so she leaves her phone in her car to get STOLEN ?

yeah right

Even her sister at home called me asking me where she was

her sister is TIPPING YOU OFF in my opinion

she is LETTING YOU KNOW the b*tch is cheating

don't ask me to explain why chicks do that to each other but they do ( especially sisters )

she not at her house

she not at your house

where is she ?

SCOOBY SCOOBY DOO wheeeeere are yooooou ?

So what happeend? Did you find out what your gf (or ex) was doing?

yeah man caught an ex gf cheating. the phone in the car was the clue i needed. then her sister had an argument with her. her sister rang me and took me to the guys house she f*cked.

I don't feel like being cheated on with knowing and I'd rather find out myself

very hard to catch them in the act these days mate especially when you don't know where she is going

That really upset me espeically after now I have agreed to help her out a lot financially and actally treat her better than b4

CUT THE MONEY OFF NOW

right this minute

that will get her attention

but personally i would not want to continue with a cheating b*tch


you need to DUMP HER as quick as possible

YOU DESERVE BETTER



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ Your woman in my opinion shouldn't be talking to an ex. It's ok to have men friends but friends whom she used to suck their dycks is not in my picture. “

 

[Don Juanabbe]

This thread is depressing. I remember when I was that young and insecure. She should be wondering where you are, and this situation is more than just a case of her being flaky, I'm wondering what else you've done wrong that lead you to this scenario, which is totally unacceptable.

I say you disappear on her for awhile and for christ sake stop giving her money you loser. Also, stop being needy and clingy, and stop insisting she call you all the time, that's just lame man.

One step further, I'd just but off all contact for several days and let her sweat it out. But you may end up having to dump her because this is awfully fishy.

 

[Disconnect]

Why does it matter where she is at all times?

She's not responsible to keep you up to date every time she takes a dump, and neither are you to her. She can have a life and do what she wants without your permission. You don't own her. Now back off and let her breathe.

 

[italostud]

Listen to Lost in Translation, he's one of the few guys here telling you the (unfortunate) truth. Btw, why the hell are you giving her money? Don't be a chump.

I can't believe some of these guys are telling you not to worry when your girlfriend routinely disappears at 11pm and doesn't answer her cellphone. Lol.

She's probably cheating on you, and if she isn't, not answering her phone while she's out at 11pm is very disrespectful. It's a lose-lose.

Dump the ho now.

 

[frivolousz21]

that sucks balls man! I am sorry about that..Im sure you are in love with her and ur getting screwed like this..learn and live from this!

good luck man

 

[SMOAK]

Shes already broken up with you in her mind-> you just havent gotten the hints There is no passion left-> therefore no dramatic ending. Its over

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Ok first of all if your relationship has been a bit rocky and this disappearing act is happening during rough times, your girl is definitely drifting away from the relationship. She probably does feel a bit controlled by you but that because she seems to be a immature dumb ho!! If your relationship was completely fine and she suddenly not calling you then your becoming a bit too needy and need to just relax.

Why are you giving her money? Seems like your her provider and fixer, while she gives you barely anything in return. Well here's the best way to test her without causing any drama. She tells you she's at a study group right? Well once this project ends, see if she still lurks away late at night without calling you. If she does then you have your answer. Its not important whether she's cheating or not, fact is her interest level has dropped and she's being disrespectful. Real men don't tolerate this bullshyt. You've already talked to her about it, if it continues dump her!!!




PIMP

 

[NewMan]

I think it's already been said. But....

1) Stop basing everything on her. If you don't like it, dump her and move on. Stop being a pvssy and putting up with sh#t you don't want to.

2) A relationship isn't about CONTROL. And that's what you are trying to do. She doesn't want to call you and keep you informed. So you need to move on. It's simple. She wants her freedom. When your in a realtionship with someone you love and respect, you would not do this to them.

3) You can't force someone to do somethign they don't want to.

4) Stop giving money to your women.

5) Take action. NEVER, EVER, EVER, SIT AT HOME WONDERING WHERE YOUR WOMAN IS.

6) Read the above again.

7) Get a life. Get other women.

 

[loser-it]

First of all, thank you for all your input!

Now just to keep you guys updated (if you are still interested). She came to my house b4 school this morning. First thing she said to me was she lost her cell phone. Then I just said oh and asked where you were last night. She said she was home. WTF. I then said I knew you weren't home and why do'nt you just tell me the truth. She insisted that she was home last night. I asked a few more times and she still said she was home. I then said your sister called me and asked me where you were last night and you telling me you were home?? She said she was home after 8 something last night cuz she went to the library to do research by herself. I said no you weren't home even at 10 or 11 last night. She said no way she was home. I said then why both of your sis and mom asked me where you were if you were home? She said she doesn't know.

I kept on pressing her for an answer then she threatened to leave. I was pissed so I stopped her and I was like wtf you lying to me while I already knew u weren't home. Finally she said she had dinner with friends after library. She went to the library with her classmates and not just herself like she said at first.

I said why you lied to me, IN MY FACE. She said she wanted freedom and felt that if she told me i would have been mad anyways. It is true that I might been 'unhappy' about it but it is freaking better than lying striaght to my face looking at me in the eyes.

Then she started shifting the blame on me saying why am i acting like this. She said I am making the whole relationship worse. I said what the **** you expect me to react knowing you freaking lied to me. SHe said she wants to keep the relatinoship going but i am destorying it by acting like this. It is SHE who is destorying it not ME.

I am very disappointed at the way she treats me. She then started to bring up how bad I treated her b4 and stuff and I think she is trying to get back at me.

During the whole thing she was acting indifferenlt like she didn't really care. I asked her why you are like that she said cuz that was I acted b4: indifferent. I picked that up from this site cuz u guys alwasy say to pretend nothing is getting to us and be cool when girls bring up drama. Now she has picked that up from me and used it against me. LOL.

What I dun understand is why she lied to me THIS TIME. Last Thursday night same thing happeend her sis called me asking me if she was with me I said no she wasn't. Later she came home and called me telling me she was in the bookstore with classmates donig research. She told me the truth last time but why not this time? She said she was scared to tell the trugh since she knew something was up because that was the first thing I asked her this morning. But still that doesn't explain why she would lie to me this time. I asked if she has met someone or whatever she said no.

****ed up.

 

[frivolousz21]

i think u are ruining it! sorry man

 

[Rockadeimis]

Why didn't you dump her yet? Stop being emotionally weak...she lied to your face, the ultimate disrespect.

 

[NewMan]

We can't tell you why she lied to you.

But she did.

So no matter what - you will now be even more controlling than before - so the respect is gone.

One thing though, it obvious you are controlling. She is not married to you - so she is free to do whatever she wants. The more you try and control her - the more she will rebel.

 

[italostud]

Dude, she was seeing another guy last night. She wasn't having dinner/study time lol.

You sound way too wrapped up in this anyways. As soon as she lied to you about being home last night, you should have smiled, told her that you know she wasn't, and walked away. Never talk to her again, Give her her stuff back in a box at 2am on her doorstep.

Seriously, I know you want to try to salvage this and give her the benefit of the doubt..."Maybe she really was lying because she was out with schoolmates and not some other guy".

Come on man, get a clue. She told u a half truth, ONLY because you caught her. She told u just enough to get herself off the hook.

Dump her bro, save yourself the pain and aggravation.

 

[DJDamage]

The ho' is using the old : You are attacking me for no reason, now I will shift the blame on to you as to the real reason why this relationship is going downhill. You gave her a life saver by arguing with her and showing your anger with no proof.

Don't give her the excuse of dumping you for your lack of insecurity as she claims. A relationship build on lies cannot survive.

 

[coder]

So let's see... Before, you weren't acting clingy and controlling and giving her money and she acted the way you wanted her to. Now you are acting clingy and controling and giving her money and she doesn't act the way you want her to. Hmm... What to do? Hmm....

You know why she hasn't ended the relationship? She knows that the guy she's screwing doesn't NEED her and will not pay her bills. He isn't needy and controlling. That's attractive. He's a challenge. SHE has to work to get him, not the other way around. That get's her IL up. I think I read about that somewhere...

And the sister is definately trying to tip you off, but you're a little slow on the uptake.

 

[tmpgstx]

Italio is right. This is scripted out as it always happens this way. She is getting to know someone else on your watch, and when it's strong enough that she thinks a switch can be made and she has the other guy, you're history. When this happens comes the final statge and you'll hear things like:

"I need my space now" or "I really don't want a boyfriend right now" or "I'm confused and need some time" or "I'm just so busy right now, think we need some time apart" etc.

The only way to save it is to put your foot down indirectly and that is to put her stuff on her doorstep or something similiar .. make it a harsh reality for her if you really want her, otherwise the longer this continues, you're on your way to being single and maybe that's for the best too.

 

[Qualtran]

If you were one of my friends and you said to me what you have said on this board, I would kick the s*it out of you for being such a dumba$$. It seems like any good advice you get you simply ignore, so why bother even ask for it?

 

[Lost In Translation]

ok prepare to be beaten with a big stick


dude you did the impossible you caught a lying cheating h0e out

thats your exit visa from the relationship

WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU STILL DOING ANYWHERE NEAR HER


Quote - loser-it
First thing she said to me was she lost her cell phone

LOL

She said she was home

BUSTED !

She insisted that she was home last night

deny deny deny

I then said your sister called me and asked me where you were last night and you telling me you were home

She said she was home after 8 something last night cuz she went to the library to do research by herself

ANOTHER LIE lol she is on a roll

I said no you weren't home even at 10 or 11 last night

you should have held onto those cards till the last hand bro

She said no way she was home

deny deny deny

I said then why both of your sis and mom asked me where you were if you were home? She said she doesn't know

her " i don't know why " is the ultimate insult

she is saying YOU ARE SO DUMB i can get caught out and you haven't got the balls to stop me

I kept on pressing her for an answer then she threatened to leave

yeah man in my experience thats usually the next move in this chess game

Finally she said she had dinner with friends after library

finally ? like you finally got the truth ?

what you think i brought this big stick for ?

TO HIT YOU WITH FOR BEING SO STUPID LOL !!!

She went to the library with her classmates and not just herself like she said at first

you bought it eh ?

how much did it cost ?

ONLY YOUR DIGNITY AS A MAN

I said why you lied to me, IN MY FACE

she doesn't care she is out to get you i will explain soon

She said she wanted freedom and felt that if she told me i would have been mad anyways

LOL i love how she twisted that

but it's getting old man i seen too many h0es peddling THE SAME LIES

ok smarty pants why didn't she tell HER MOM/MUM and SISTER she was having an innocent dinner till PAST 11PM on a school night

when did you last have dinner till midnight ?

lying striaght to my face looking at me in the eyes

game over. she is a professional.

she has a motive for cheating on you too.

she is gunna hurt you bro ANYWAY she can.

Then she started shifting the blame on me saying why am i acting like this

why am i acting like this ?

she must think you are soooooo stupid

then again you are still with her

She said I am making the whole relationship worse

yes you are making it worse by catching her out cheating on you

LOL

SHe said she wants to keep the relatinoship going but i am destorying it by acting like this

HAHAHAHAHA..... i am a fan of her work she is good

I am very disappointed at the way she treats me

i would be more dissapointed when she kisses you on the mouth that morning while the sperm from the other guys d*ck is still alive in her mouth after he blew in her mouth last night

She then started to bring up how bad I treated her b4 and stuff and I think she is trying to get back at me

here is her motive. revenge. she even tells you. she is gunna pay you back BIGTIME.

i like how you got the " i think she is trying to get back at me " LMAO

remove us from the wild for 100 years and our danger senses get told shutup stop being paranoid

During the whole thing she was acting indifferenlt like she didn't really care

she is the ice queen

her heart is total darkness

she plots YOUR DOOM

she will have VENGEANCE

I asked her why you are like that she said cuz that was I acted b4

again she tells you to your face she is taking revenge on you.

to your face she tells you no less.

you need that in writing buddy ?

What I dun understand is why she lied to me THIS TIME

every time

Last Thursday night same thing happeend her sis called me asking me if she was with me I said no she wasn't

HOW DUMB CAN YOU BE AND STILL BREATHE !

she is doing a regular booty call every thursday LOL

Later she came home and called me telling me she was in the bookstore with classmates donig research. She told me the truth last time but why not this time?

she called you and told you A STORY and it was true ?

why not this time ? are you nuts !

NO TIME ! ALWAYS LIED TO ! YOU ARE BEING DONE OVER CHRONIC !

She said she was scared to tell the trugh since she knew something was up because that was the first thing I asked her this morning

HAHAHAHA i love it man it just gets better and better

ok she is READY say READY to lie. she didn't BLINK

said i was at home. had that lie :

C*CKED LOCKED AND READY TO ROCK

she was prepared for it LOL her actions show this

But still that doesn't explain why she would lie to me this time

she HATES you. HATES HATES HATES you. hopes you DIE.

she plots revenge.

she is a pu$sy so she feels she is " BAD " because she is sucking some guys d*ck then kissing you and laughing at you behind your back.

I asked if she has met someone or whatever she said no

as long as YOU yes YOU lie to yourself

she will continue to mock you and ruin your life

and possibly introduce a SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE as her weapon of mass destruction


DUMP HER A$$

NO TALK YOU OWE HER NOTHING

NO REASONS you are too weak and foolish she will own you again

JUST RUN


YOU DESERVE BETTER

and if you still having doubts i will hit you with that stick again and perform corrective brain surgery

RUN



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[italostud]

Hey, did u guys hear that? I think it was a lightbulb coming on over loser-it's head.

 

[Lost In Translation]

get with the program

Quote - SMOAK
Shes already broken up with you in her mind
There is no passion left

yes she has already broken up with you in her mind

wh0res have boyfriends so society doesn't label them as a DIRTY $LUT

she is just sticking around to take her revenge

the party is just starting she is going to work you over good

Quote - NewMan
Take action. NEVER, EVER, EVER, SIT AT HOME WONDERING WHERE YOUR WOMAN IS

solid GOLD

Quote - DJDamage
The ho' is using the old : You are attacking me for no reason, now I will shift the blame on to you as to the real reason why this relationship is going downhill. You gave her a life saver by arguing with her and showing your anger with no proof

it's a GOLD RUSH !

Quote - coder
You know why she hasn't ended the relationship? She knows that the guy she's screwing doesn't NEED her and will not pay her bills

" i don't know what you heard about me, but a b*tch can't get a dollar outta me, no cadillacs no perms you can't see CAUSE I'M A MUTHA F*CKING P.I.M.P " - 50 cent

you pay the bills

some other dude gets to blow in the same mouth that you kiss

And the sister is definately trying to tip you off, but you're a little slow on the uptake

yes THAT IS MIRACLE

believe

Quote - tmpgstx
She is getting to know someone else on your watch, and when it's strong enough that she thinks a switch can be made and she has the other guy, you're history. When this happens comes the final statge and you'll hear things like:

"I need my space now" or "I really don't want a boyfriend right now" or "I'm confused and need some time" or "I'm just so busy right now, think we need some time apart"

thats true BUT this little wh0re is doing it for REVENGE


and to those TURKEYS that say "stop stalking her"

"she is a free spirit"

"women have rights"

we need some older Don Juans to come up in here and tell you how their EX WIVES took everything they got including their childrens and their fortunes

women are very very vengeful

think about this proverb : "hell hath no fury like a womans wrath"


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**