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Okay... I see what you are saying and I do agree. In a sense you really need to be yourself... if yourself is a goof ball that isn't behaving like a man then chances are you will fail... but you REALLY do not know what she likes. What I am saying is that there is a difference between...

Stop thinking about her. Every time your mind drifts towards thinking about her, get busy with something else. You might not think you can do this, but you can, you are a man you can control your thoughts.

Not smart... just 30 plus years of dating women. Wisdom developed through seeing what works and what doesn't.

What I'm saying is that you can not worry about what people call 'testing'. It's just a woman figuring out what she can get away with, all people do this... just let her do this and when it gets to a point where it bothers you just put distance between you. If she likes you, she will correct...

When you work too hard to keep her, she doesn't need to put in effort. If she isn't working to keep you interested then she doesn't value you, no value = no respect, no respect = no love. For a woman to fall for you, she has to work for you. Too many men make things too easy for women and she...

That is weird. I'm not sure either.

Lots of women just use these dating aps as an ego boost to get attention. She got her attention and is now moving on. I do think there are a lot of women that do this just out of curiosity, that's likely what this is.

Anyone that has been on this board for any length of time knows I am NOT a relationship guy. I suspect most men here are. Like you I don't go after women that are not really good looking. But I also know that if I was looking for a relationship, NONE of the women I date would work. It all...

Ditto.

Really how is this different from men? Don't we all drool over 9s and 10s? What man, if given the opportunity wouldn't bang a super model. But unless you have a super sized ego, both men and women know that trying to make something work with a super hot member of the opposite sex is going to...

Most women do not want some ripped stud, unless she is really into fitness... they also don't want a dude with a big belly, unless they are fat @sses as well. Just keep your body fat index under 25 and you'll be fine. Anything less than 18% and you are likely spending a lot of time working...

Anger is just one emotion. I believe you have a problem with emotional self-control. This is a big turnoff for most sane women. All negative emotion has it's roots in expectation. You expect something to happen and when it doesn't you do not know how to control your emotional reaction. You...

IMO you can not control attraction. She is either feeling it or she isn't... not a darn thing you can do if she isn't physically attracted to you. You can increase the probability she will be attracted to you by taking care of yourself by keeping fit, cleaning yourself properly, and not...

It's always the woman isn't feeling any chemistry. Nothing you can do about that but move on. If she is felling chemistry unless you've made a complete mess of things, you'll get a 2nd date.

I get more pleasure for women then grief. But there is grief.... it can be aggravating as fvck dating them. So I get where the OP is coming from. You just can't let the silliness get to you... they all play emotional games... ALL OF THEM. And a man can not win an emotional game with women...

Well... this isn't your problem is all I'm going to say. Unless you of course volunteer to take on these 'projects'.

Being ruled by her emotions isn't dumb... because for women it works for them. If it's stupid, but it works, it's not dumb. Women do this because it works, if it didn't work, they wouldn't do it. If any man thinks that anything he 'does' will matter to a woman they are kidding themselves. If...

The OP lost his cool. Deleting a chat is something an emotional chick would do. Stop that sh1t. What he did wrong: (1) Asking chicks out via social media is a poor substitute for picking up the phone and calling her. If you don't have her phone number... ask for it.... if she won't give it...

Women do this because it works. She is already inside the head of the OP, so it's working. The more he thinks about her, the more obsessed he will become. It is an effective way they can screen out men that are willing to sacrifice for her, which in the woman's opinion, is what she believes...

Arrested 3 times... all charges dropped, no record. Twice I was completely innocent: one I was guilty as hell but had a good lawyer... that was in college, breaking and entering on campus in a prank... long story it was stupid and 19.