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Women don't turn "ice cold" overnight. This is process that usually happens long before men are aware of it. Additionally, breakups don't happen in a vacuum. You mentioned turning into a chump as the relationship progressed. Chances are your hunch is right, and she picked up on this long before...

My thoughts on this are well-documented here. I'm not trying to convince anyone that this is the only way to go. I will say that if you do happen to find a girl that you click with, has a good upbringing and morals and happens to be a virgin---you should hold this in very high regard. Because...

I think you guys need to revisit your definitions of "oneitis". Oneitis is an irrational, unrequited infatuation with another person as your one and only chance at romantic fulfillment. Unrequited being the key word here; meaning not returned or rewarded. I also use the word infatuation...

Re: the OP, "99%" is an arbitrary figure, but I do think he is right in that most unicorns have either met their High Score or married (not always the same thing) by 26 or so. I would consider my wife a unicorn; not out of ego but objectively speaking. She was 26 when we married. Fact of the...

That's called confirmation bias; also selection bias.

I like all colors. No strong preference really. If I had a leaning I would say it's for fair skin, regardless of hair color. I know there have been studies done ( I'm too lazy to look them up) that show men worldwide from all cultures prefer women with relatively fairer skin.

Totally a personal preference thing, but I'm a "bushmaster" myself. I don't really know why, it's just so much more compelling than a bald mound. A real female needs some fur down there. And by "fur" I mean something groomed and hedged; not some unruly gypsy-fetish thicket that could trap a...

Fireballs if I'm not mistaken this is the same girl we corresponded about a year and a half ago. If so, it may be this relationship just ran its course. LYD is probably right that this girl just didnt feel loved or important to you anymore, and when that happens it's a matter of time before she...

Mrcloudsurfer, I have some input you my find helpful. I married a virgin. Like you, I was in my early 30's and she was in her mid 20's. I had already had tons of sex and was used to getting it "on tap" in a relationship. The first thing I'll throw out there is you should go with your gut...

I agree Des that quality is in the eye of the beholder (always has been), we just have a relativity problem today for the reasons mentioned above. For this reason I think every man needs to have defined, written criteria for quality. I did towards the end of my dating days. There are objective...

The lawyers here can correct me if I'm wrong, but pre-nups cant protect you from accumulated wealth within a marriage. Regardless, I dont think anyone here needs any convincing of the potential negatives. The decision will be different for every man. I've preached this for years, but the BEST...

It wasn't anyone's "idea"; we both wanted the same thing in life. I asked her but it was more of a conversation, not a contrived down-on-one-knee thing. You know in some ways I agree with you. Originally I wanted to just do a "less-then-legal" ceremony; meaning a wedding with our families but...

This is essentially why I married. I didn't HAVE to marry. I wasn't under any sort of religious obligation. I wasn't afraid of losing her. I don't have a sh!tty job and neither does she. Neither of us actively want children. We had a small wedding with about 65 people, mostly family. I'm not...

^^Couldnt have said it better. Completely beyond me why any man would let other men fvck his wife. Reminds me of a story: Before I met my wife I was in an LTR with this chick for a year and a half. I broke up with her...it was a long time coming. Fast forward about 3 months. I was in a really...

They are, and there are exceptions to every rule. BUT---exceptions themselves do not make a rule. There is no single selection factor that will prevent a woman from being a wh0re under the right circumstances----just like no man is on such a lofty perch that he is morally "above" cheating...

I think he handled it well. What else was he going to do? Sock her in public and get massacred? As for calling the cops, probably wouldn't amount to much. But it would be hilarious if she got charged. Also I cant believe that video of the white/musilm girls getting slapped. Those dudes...

I think many modern women in the dating pool are borderline sociopathic in that they have little to no empathy for someone else's feelings. They have been diluted by years of wh0ring and dating and most of them live self-serving, vain lives. That and there are simply no consequences for flaking...

I was absent from the boards when you posted this theory, but it is very well-reasoned and I agree 100%, Des. I will also corroborate that the less experienced a girl is (sexually, emotionally, and age-wise, in that order), the higher the propensity is for you being her High Score. Men, with...

The more you date the finer your filter becomes. If you make it into you 30's as a DJ or at least an enlightened man your tolerance will be so thin you'll eject at the drop of a hat. Some of mine upfront were: -She cant be a partyer -No kids -No previous marriages -Under 30 -Commitment to...

Never explain yourself to a woman you are interested in. They don't deserve it, they wont do it for you, and it's a waste of your time.