Being Stood Up...Do Women Get Some Sort Of Power Rush From This?

[Robert_F]

I was speaking with a co-worker yesterday. He told me that this gal he was interested in stood him up last weekend. He told me that it was her that suggested going out and when he set a date time and date she immediately jumped on it. She called him on the day of the date to re-confirm but when he went to pick her up, her roommate told him she left about an hour previously with some guy on a date.

When he asked her what happened and why she stood him she replied that she had "a better offer."

Do some women get some sort of rush by doing this to guys? (I am not talking about standing someone up because of some type of unforeseen, unavoidable emergency.) I too have been stood up more than once in the past, (not by the same woman) and have wondered if they get off by doing this to guys.

 

[dustmuffin]

I was speaking with a co-worker yesterday. He told me that this gal he was interested in stood him up last weekend. He told me that it was her that suggested going out and when he set a date time and date she immediately jumped on it. She called him on the day of the date to re-confirm but when he went to pick her up, her roommate told him she left about an hour previously with some guy on a date.

When he asked her what happened and why she stood him she replied that she had "a better offer."

Do some women get some sort of rush by doing this to guys? (I am not talking about standing someone up because of some type of unforeseen, unavoidable emergency.) I too have been stood up more than once in the past, (not by the same woman) and have wondered if they get off by doing this to guys.

She has no respect for your friend. He should have gone nc the minute he found out about the other date. Why ask a stupid b itch why she did it. Just remove her from your life and move on.

 

[Robert_F]

She has no respect for your friend. He should have gone nc the minute he found out about the other date. Why ask a stupid b itch why she did it. Just remove her from your life and move on.

Good point, respect I mean. It seems that women demand that men have respect for them, however the rules suddenly change when men expect the same of them.

 

[Reykhel]

Reminds me of F.J Shark....."I know, not you.........someone you know."

Never happened to me.....that I can remember.

Anyway, just proves the point about this whole "setting up a date" lark.....

Invite the b¡tch along to something that you're going to be doing in any case....

.....so if she decides to come along or not, it's no loss to you.....

You invite her into your reality......

This whole showing up at her door? Fvck that. Too much going into her reality. Make her come to
you. Compliance.

 

[RangerMIke]

It's not some kind of power trip... it's just that she does not care. If a woman stands me up, and it does happen, I just flush the number and don't think about her anymore. NEVER, EVER ask why she did it, just walk away and never look back.

If this is your first date, then really you shouldn't give a flip if this happens. Just be glad you don't have to waste any time with her. She's doing you a favor by letting you know up front that her interest level is SO LOW, nothing is going to happen anyway. No wasted time; no money spent. It's all good.

Women are driven by their emotions... if another guy she likes better asks her out, she has to say 'yes', her previous plans be damned. It's the same reason women cheat on their BFs and husbands. An attractive man comes along, shows her interest, she gets sexual attraction, and if the man knows how to seduce her, they will have sex.

 

[Trump]

I was speaking with a co-worker yesterday. He told me that this gal he was interested in stood him up last weekend. He told me that it was her that suggested going out and when he set a date time and date she immediately jumped on it. She called him on the day of the date to re-confirm but when he went to pick her up, her roommate told him she left about an hour previously with some guy on a date.

When he asked her what happened and why she stood him she replied that she had "a better offer."

Do some women get some sort of rush by doing this to guys? (I am not talking about standing someone up because of some type of unforeseen, unavoidable emergency.) I too have been stood up more than once in the past, (not by the same woman) and have wondered if they get off by doing this to guys.

Bro this doesn't sound real to me. Sounds like you or your friend are really angry at women and are trying to paint them in a really bad light.

Why would a girl go out of HER way to make a date, call the guy the day of the date, only to receive a better offer from a better looking and more fun guy 30 min later? It doesn't make sense and sounds way too coincidental. Girls don't waste their time like that. If they put effort in, they will follow through. Plus, in this day and age, no girl would confirm a date, or call a guy to confirm a date. They would text if anything.

Doesn't sound right.

 

[Stugots26]

Hypergamy is real...

 

[RangerMIke]

Some do but for most it's just pure selfishness and cowardice. You have to understand as a man they don't owe you anything, you owe them. Just imagine if you were a gigantic misogynist that really didn't care if most women lived or died to understans how they feel about the issue.

Not to depress people, but men really need to understand the nature of women. Blue Pill is VERY seductive... everyone wishes the world was such that women really did love their men and cared.... but it is MUCH better to know the truth.

To women... men are nothing more than interchangeable disposable utilities to be used and discarded when they no longer serve a purpose. Women to not love the way we do. They feel what they call love, when they meet a man that fits perfectly with their needs. When you no longer meet her needs, well... she no longer loves you. There really is no sense of loyalty... you are either useful or you are not.

When a woman is 'loyal' all that means is either she has been socially conditioned to stay with someone or she believes that he is the best she can do. The MINUTE she believes she can do better, and another guy comes along... well you are history.

Knowing the truth, and using this to your advantage is the only way you can be truly happy.

 

[amazingswayze]

Not to depress people, but men really need to understand the nature of women. Blue Pill is VERY seductive... everyone wishes the world was such that women really did love their men and cared.... but it is MUCH better to know the truth.

To women... men are nothing more than interchangeable disposable utilities to be used and discarded when they no longer serve a purpose. Women to not love the way we do. They feel what they call love, when they meet a man that fits perfectly with their needs. When you no longer meet her needs, well... she no longer loves you. There really is no sense of loyalty... you are either useful or you are not.

When a woman is 'loyal' all that means is either she has been socially conditioned to stay with someone or she believes that he is the best she can do. The MINUTE she believes she can do better, and another guy comes along... well you are history.

Knowing the truth, and using this to your advantage is the only way you can be truly happy.

The new Poon King!

 

[Almax]

Not to depress people, but men really need to understand the nature of women. Blue Pill is VERY seductive... everyone wishes the world was such that women really did love their men and cared.... but it is MUCH better to know the truth.

To women... men are nothing more than interchangeable disposable utilities to be used and discarded when they no longer serve a purpose. Women to not love the way we do. They feel what they call love, when they meet a man that fits perfectly with their needs. When you no longer meet her needs, well... she no longer loves you. There really is no sense of loyalty... you are either useful or you are not.

When a woman is 'loyal' all that means is either she has been socially conditioned to stay with someone or she believes that he is the best she can do. The MINUTE she believes she can do better, and another guy comes along... well you are history.

Knowing the truth, and using this to your advantage is the only way you can be truly happy.

We, men are the same lol

It sounds too unreal OP. Maybe there is something you are not telling us... Maybe she is on vendetta mode.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Saying women get a rush from flaking on you implies there's some sort if emotional investment on their part. They don't get a rush because they're not emotionally invested, and they're not emotionally invested because they simply don't care.

 

[Colossus]

I think many modern women in the dating pool are borderline sociopathic in that they have little to no empathy for someone else's feelings. They have been diluted by years of wh0ring and dating and most of them live self-serving, vain lives. That and there are simply no consequences for flaking.

Resist the temptation to label all women as some sort of sub-human, parasitic vampires. This is a young man's mistake and you will grow out of it. As you get older, you will begin to appreciate the emotional life-cycle of the female and how she changes with increasing exposure to men, sex, and life.

 

[fastlife]

Fake story. Total fantasy. Not that being stood up doesn't happen, but like a girl would ever openly admit she "went on another date" cause she got a "bigger, better deal."

Much more believable if he showed up and omg she was soooo sorry but she had to take her dog to the hospital.

You obviously have never dated a cluster B type women. I've had this story happened a couple times, even male friends have done something damn close to this to me a few times

AW's pull stuff like this all the time, agreed; but they'd never make themselves the bad guy in the situation.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Fake story. Total fantasy. Not that being stood up doesn't happen, but like a girl would ever openly admit she "went on another date" cause she got a "bigger, better deal."

Much more believable if he showed up and omg she was soooo sorry but she had to take her dog to the hospital.



AW's pull stuff like this all the time, agreed; but they'd never make themselves the bad guy in the situation.

Right. They would never completely destroy an orbiter or narcisstic supply, because it can be "used" later. And yes, they will NEVER admit fault or flakiness. They'd rather lie.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think many modern women in the dating pool are borderline sociopathic in that they have little to no empathy for someone else's feelings. They have been diluted by years of wh0ring and dating and most of them live self-serving, vain lives. That and there are simply no consequences for flaking.

Resist the temptation to label all women as some sort of sub-human, parasitic vampires. This is a young man's mistake and you will grow out of it. As you get older, you will begin to appreciate the emotional life-cycle of the female and how she changes with increasing exposure to men, sex, and life.

Flaking should yield a punishment equivalent to a male friend you can't count on.

 

[RangerMIke]

We, men are the same lol

Well true to a certain degree. Men certainly use women. But the difference is that men really don't 'use' women they love... We just love. Men only really use women they DO NOT LOVE. Love for a man is a chemically induced form of insanity which has a useful purpose in evolution. The human race would have died off before it even started if men did not have this chemically derived insanity that compelled us to sacrifice for women and their children.

Women love a man that is useful. Women use all men, then fall for the one which is more useful to them,k and who is available. For women 'love' is like the automatic timer that keeps the compressor running on the refrigeration unit for efficiency, without this auto run the compressor would burn out from switching on and off so frequently. Without "female love" women's emotions would be too erratic with monkey branch jumping so fast and so frequent that men would be literally beating each other to death. But this love... is ONLY contingent on a man meeting the needs of a woman. She will not fall for a man EVER that does not meet her needs.... Now that need could be anything... but if he meets it, she will love him.

Women fall out of love with men when their needs change. If the man fails to change to meet her needs... well, she monkey branches. She calls it "out growing" him.

 

[SeymourCake]

That's absolutely despicable for her to do that. Dating in the west is a complete joke.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well true to a certain degree. Men certainly use women. But the difference is that men really don't 'use' women they love... We just love. Men only really use women they DO NOT LOVE. Love for a man is a chemically induced form of insanity which has a useful purpose in evolution. The human race would have died off before it even started if men did not have this chemically derived insanity that compelled us to sacrifice for women and their children.

Women love a man that is useful. Women use all men, then fall for the one which is more useful to them,k and who is available. For women 'love' is like the automatic timer that keeps the compressor running on the refrigeration unit for efficiency, without this auto run the compressor would burn out from switching on and off so frequently. Without "female love" women's emotions would be too erratic with monkey branch jumping so fast and so frequent that men would be literally beating each other to death. But this love... is ONLY contingent on a man meeting the needs of a woman. She will not fall for a man EVER that does not meet her needs.... Now that need could be anything... but if he meets it, she will love him.

Women fall out of love with men when their needs change. If the man fails to change to meet her needs... well, she monkey branches. She calls it "out growing" him.

In the cave man days he wouldn't take it lightly to a female whose been giving it up to him for a few years to go to another. His anger would be set on kill.

Also women do love men that aren't valueable to them. The love some men based 100% off a physical phisod and fantasy. A lot of these guys aren't really useful except to look at.

 

[RangerMIke]

In the cave man days he wouldn't take it lightly to a female whose been giving it up to him for a few years to go to another. His anger would be set on kill.

Anthropologists explain that the reason why for humans sex is 'private', while all other biologically driven necessities (eating, sleeping) isn't a problem, is because sex in the open might get you killed by the Alpha Male... Women needed Betas to provide for them, so they doled out sex in private.

Going to the bathroom is only 'private' because the smell was unwelcome.

 

[Robert_F]

Bro this doesn't sound real to me. Sounds like you or your friend are really angry at women and are trying to paint them in a really bad light.

Why would a girl go out of HER way to make a date, call the guy the day of the date, only to receive a better offer from a better looking and more fun guy 30 min later? It doesn't make sense and sounds way too coincidental. Girls don't waste their time like that. If they put effort in, they will follow through. Plus, in this day and age, no girl would confirm a date, or call a guy to confirm a date. They would text if anything.

Doesn't sound right.

This is just what was relayed to me from this guy.

I don't know where you are from, but this happens quite a bit around these parts. Personally, I think she had a date with this other guy to begin with and then made a second date with the second guy just in case the first date fell through; a backup plan so to speak.