Being Stood Up...Do Women Get Some Sort Of Power Rush From This?

[Robert_F]

Not to depress people, but men really need to understand the nature of women. Blue Pill is VERY seductive... everyone wishes the world was such that women really did love their men and cared.... but it is MUCH better to know the truth.

To women... men are nothing more than interchangeable disposable utilities to be used and discarded when they no longer serve a purpose. Women to not love the way we do. They feel what they call love, when they meet a man that fits perfectly with their needs. When you no longer meet her needs, well... she no longer loves you. There really is no sense of loyalty... you are either useful or you are not.

When a woman is 'loyal' all that means is either she has been socially conditioned to stay with someone or she believes that he is the best she can do. The MINUTE she believes she can do better, and another guy comes along... well you are history.

Knowing the truth, and using this to your advantage is the only way you can be truly happy.

How true. This is why I have quit "dating" years ago.

Now I'll just tell them I plan to be someplace and if they want to show up and join me, fine. If not, no big deal; their loss not mine. This arrangement seems to work out fine. Sometimes they show up, sometimes they don't, but as said, no big deal as I was going to be there anyway.

 

[raider87]

This thread depressed me. I wanna go back to my blue pill fantasy land lol

 

[Robert_F]

This thread depressed me. I wanna go back to my blue pill fantasy land lol

OK, I am new to this site / forum, so please explain what you mean by "blue pill fantasy land". This is a phrase I have never heard of before.

 

[zekko]

Women are driven by their emotions... if another guy she likes better asks her out, she has to say 'yes', her previous plans be damned.

Obviously if the attraction and interest level was high enough, she wouldn't be flaking.

That said, another possible explanation is that if a guy she's more comfortable with asks her out, she might flake on the new guy. She might want to try going out with some dude, but then get anxious and stressed about it. Then if she has a chance to go out with someone more familiar, she may jump on that and back out on the new guy, especially if she's a nervous type.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This thread depressed me. I wanna go back to my blue pill fantasy land lol

Guys do this style too. It's a player thing looking out for your needs and not worry about them.

The player will line up 3 or 4 dates. Several will cancel but 2 or 3 will be steady, then the first one makes it and he blows the others off. It's a player move and not nice, but it works.

 

[RangerMIke]

OK, I am new to this site / forum, so please explain what you mean by "blue pill fantasy land". This is a phrase I have never heard of before.

A reference to the "Matrix" movie trilogy. Goggle Youtube Matrix blue pill red pill. and watch the scene.

Blue Pill means you chose to live in ignorance of reality. In this case the reality of male/female human relationships. Movies, media, and advertising promote a fantasy. Most men know intuitively that how the world appears isn't real (i.e. why do all the bad boy thugs get the women and 'nice' guys get dumped) but chose 'Blue Pill' anyway (white knights, wage slaves, pvssy worshiping fools) because they have been socially conditioned to sacrifice themselves for people who deep down don't give a fvck about them.

 

[Maximus Rex]

OK, I am new to this site / forum, so please explain what you mean by "blue pill fantasy land". This is a phrase I have never heard of before.

Yet another example of why there should be a minimum number of posts made before making a thread.

 

[Tictac]

OK, I am new to this site / forum, so please explain what you mean by "blue pill fantasy land". This is a phrase I have never heard of before.

This is like showing up in a new country and asking why they do not speak your language or have your values.

 

[marmel75]

I was speaking with a co-worker yesterday. He told me that this gal he was interested in stood him up last weekend. He told me that it was her that suggested going out and when he set a date time and date she immediately jumped on it. She called him on the day of the date to re-confirm but when he went to pick her up, her roommate told him she left about an hour previously with some guy on a date.

When he asked her what happened and why she stood him she replied that she had "a better offer."

Do some women get some sort of rush by doing this to guys? (I am not talking about standing someone up because of some type of unforeseen, unavoidable emergency.) I too have been stood up more than once in the past, (not by the same woman) and have wondered if they get off by doing this to guys.

This women is a low class, low character piece of trash. Your roommate was done a favor trust me.

 

[Robert_F]

Yet another example of why there should be a minimum number of posts made before making a thread.

Remind me to ask you everything since apparently you know everything, or so you have led yourself to believe.

 

[Robert_F]

A reference to the "Matrix" movie trilogy. Goggle Youtube Matrix blue pill red pill. and watch the scene.

Blue Pill means you chose to live in ignorance of reality. In this case the reality of male/female human relationships. Movies, media, and advertising promote a fantasy. Most men know intuitively that how the world appears isn't real (i.e. why do all the bad boy thugs get the women and 'nice' guys get dumped) but chose 'Blue Pill' anyway (white knights, wage slaves, pvssy worshiping fools) because they have been socially conditioned to sacrifice themselves for people who deep down don't give a fvck about them.

Thanks. I have never seen the movies.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Yet another example of why there should be a minimum number of posts made before making a thread.

Nonsense. There's nothing wrong with a new member asking what our terminology means.

 

[Atom Smasher]

This is like showing up in a new country and asking why they do not speak your language or have your values.

No, this is like someone showing up in a new country and asking what a particular phrase means. He's not asking "Why?"; He's asking "What does that mean?"

 

[Atom Smasher]

Saying women get a rush from flaking on you implies there's some sort if emotional investment on their part. They don't get a rush because they're not emotionally invested, and they're not emotionally invested because they simply don't care.

Disagree. A person can get a rush from abusing other people they have absolutely no emotional investment in. This is often a motivating factor for the abuse, or at least the facilitating factor.

 

[fastlife]

It was the girls friend that first said it, not the AW herself. At that point there's no point it being coy.

You're right, missed that nuance.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Nonsense. There's nothing wrong with a new member asking what our terminology means.

Asked and answered. As it's commonly said on message boards across the Net, "Do a search."

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Not sure why some men are denying this or having a hard time believing the story. Women in the west are capable of just about anything. I've had girls suggest "my place", with the obvious intention of flaking, no show, to then text me an hour after the set date & time - probably upset that I didn't try to confirm. I've had girls try to bring their brothers at the last minute. I think the only precaution for something like this is to set the date & time very loosely & do not confirm. Let her confirm, and even then tell her you're running a little behind and to text you when she's 5 minutes away from the spot. Don't leave your place until she's halfway there. From this point forward, I am doing something like this on the first and likely 2nd date.

 

[dutchmaster]

This thread depressed me. I wanna go back to my blue pill fantasy land lol

nah just get rich or powerful or plastic surgery and you'll be the one that they stand up shmucks for to go on dates.

matter fact, scratch the date. pick her up in a nice car ask for a sucky on the way over to the restaurant, show, etc. Instead of driving there, circle her neighborhood and pull up to her house when she's done sucking you and tell her, "ok we're here" and kick her out your car lol.

you could easily get 5 chicks a day to do this with the right car

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Why are yall mad when yall would have probably did the same thing lolz?

 

[dutchmaster]

Why are yall mad when yall would have probably did the same thing lolz?

because a lot of guys on this forum act like women need to be their obedient sex slaves and comply to everything they do while giving nothing back