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You bring up a good point about being in the state of "being." The problem with all the information here is NOT that it does not work, because it works, the issue becomes you are thinking TOO much and end up living in the future and not in the now. It doesn't allow you to actually listen to what...

She texts you once a month, flirty, to make sure she still has you on her hook for ego validation. I'd ignore her 100% for at least a year until your feelings for her settle. If you keep going to her once a month, she's just recreating the oneitis in you, to keep you hooked. She does not want...

I'm guilty of not looking at girl who I hang on the first date as "dateable". That's why if I really like a girl from our interaction, and believe I'd enjoy dating her, I hold off on sex for 2-3 dates.

That's a given, who cares about the little ****. I'm talking about the big picture stuff, as always.

I agree. These men let women push them around, and let them get away with everything. It is their fault. They do not stay congruent to themselves once a women enters the picture, they change to please her, which shows the woman that the man has a weak will. Weak will'd men do not make it in this...

Agreed, I have built rapport over text many times before laying a girl, afterwards, the texting lessens naturally. By this time, she is usually into you, and she will text you anyway, which if she does, you keep the conversation going as long as YOU want to. Playing text games is bullsh1t, do...

I still call my plates, I like it and they enjoy it as well. It makes things easier. I Also am not sure about the under 25 thing, don't girls who are older still participate in spinning plates? Also, tattoos and piercings are the norm, but most girls still don't have them . And wtf are you...

I'm heading off to school about 2.5 hours away from my hometown. First time I'll be on my own, and I'm excited to get to experience something new, as you can't stay in your hometown for ever. Now, I want some input here. I am currently spinning about 4 plates, 1 girl I regularly hang out with...

Agreed, men need to realize that going up to a girl and saying "Hey cutie" is the most retarded way to start a pick up, but a great way to become her orbiter.

This. I don't remember the last time I actually fought with a girl. Bring her into your reality, which should not consist of conflict.

it's hard to tell which girls are genuine and which ones have an ulterior motive, I feel like on this site, we swing to the side of "all girls have an ulterior motive."

She could be trying to find orbiters to validate herself while in a relationship, being 2 years out of the market makes her wonder if she's still got it. Or, she could be looking for another option, if her relationship is failing. Then the third option is she wanted to cheat. You'll really never...

speak for yourselves.

I was recently watching a documentary, Generation Iron 2, and 8x Mr. Olympia Lee Haney was interviewed on the subject of girls and chasing dreams, specifically chasing the dream of becoming a pro bodybuilder. He says that when guys are up and coming that they should not have any thing serious...

Aren't there a lot of girls out there? I have only been a few times. It is hard to have the abundance mentality, when you have no abundance! However, if you have ever had an abundance mentality (in a previous time) you can recall how you felt, and apply it to your current dating situation...

be careful zek, that line may work on all the twisted 20 something year olds these days.