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I think this is very important in a thread like this. You are representative of average looking struggling guys and yet you don't have a problem dealing with women from work and see it as a net positive. The #Me-Too thing and sexual harassment thing is way to overblown and I don't know what is...

He did say "exceptionally", and he did qualify by saying "it's not easy" (ie didn't say it is impossible). Just look at your incel friends to put it into context. I'm sure you don't think none of them are ugly....if anything, they are probably average to just above average looking.

You are honestly giving advice against this? This worked for you. This is one of the first type of posts I see that someone has something that works for them and gives advice against what is working. Are you afraid to share your success? Were the co-workers throwing themselves at you?

The lady you wrote about having gone out to lunch with, in a previous post, was that the female friend from work you were referring to?

How do you figure that? Before dating apps/internet dating, quite a number of people met their SO's through the workplace.

The problem is that the "spark" does not go away when you find out she is not single. You have a logical component (ie she's in a relationship), but the emotional component (ie if she weren't in a relationship, would she want to go out with me, is she really into me, how is she like with other...

Yeah, I think the OP is talking about social proof.

Objectively, he is viewing himself as a 4 because he did not get laid since 2021. Objectively, I'm viewing him as a 7 based on the quality of interactions with the opposite sex at work and his FAILURE to captalize on that opportunity. He would probably amog me. If he can't capitalize on...

You mentioned breakroom. Is this a large room or small meeting room? You have no opportunity to sit beside another female co-worker and have lunch on the same table? I always eat solo and have a special table where I'll bring out a Tablet, some days bring popcorn, and watch something on the...

Probably would get smiles/connections if I sprayed pheromones.

There are too many couples out there for the math to make sense. The guys are not chad tier but look like young healthy guys paired up with nice ladies. Its rare to see anyone by themselves on the trails.

Most of your positive interactions are from work. You are cautious to deal with anyone from work because you will have to continue to face them if you get rejected, amogged (she rejects you but throws herself to another coworker), or it does not work out. It would make things awkward. I did...

It.got me out of lurking after a ban.

I disagree. Based on your feedback of how women are treating you, you are not being treated as a sub-5, but as a normie. You have very healthy interactions with the opposite sex. I actually envy you. You don't have the right to complain here. If you do, then trade places with me and then...

If you compare the a$$ of your ex-gfs then you can end up fapping on memory. In fact, while working today I was writing on a paper, studying how much exposure I had to my exes a$$ and trying to compare them to which had the best a$$, and bingo almost started fapping. There were allot of calls...

That would have made a difference to you?

Apart from physical / biological aspects, what other responsibilities would you also add to that list that would be different to what men could do?

Watched the whole movie. Fortunately, despite the spoiler of learning the president died before watching the movie, there was still enough suspense throughout the movie, and not knowing how each of the main characters would die off or where the president was when he had died, that it was quite...

You don't just have to deal with your crush. Try someone you are not infatuated with.

I edited the previous post to suggest weekends. In my situation, my shift hours are actually 2-10p, and one can say that nobody can have a life with those type of hours as I don't even have evenings free. In fact, last week I remember coming home and hitting the sack after just changing my...