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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    Excuse me if I'm a bit cynical on here. When you go through a 9 yard effort, see that $ 20K was spent on a wedding, and see someone turn viciously on you then it sort of gives the idea that nobody is really safe to deal with. At least you dated someone for 8 months that you felt confident...
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    The Importance of Money in Men's SMV

    You need to make $1K to be with this lady.
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    9 months is the "run-time" from the time I started dating my ex-wife (ie taking her out with me), to the time we stopped talking to each other. The marriage, wedding, was within that 9 month frame. The marriage itself lasted only about 2-3 months. Similarly, I had an ex-gf in 2012 where the...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    Mines have been 9 months, so it's longer than your by one month. What was the quality of the 8 month relationship? Did you both exchange I love yous and planned a future but something go wrong and it abruptly came apart or was it more casual than that?
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    What do you guys thinking about meditation and accepting yourself?

    I'm might entertain ASMR videos, especially the ones that deal with positive affirmations, which tend towards a quasi-meditation/self-acceptance approach. If you are self-accepting then you are not as much invested in validation seeking behaviour because you are dealing with the core issues of...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    They have to want to talk to you in the first place.
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    Dealing with dry spell

    10 years here.
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    We are prize but We have to go approach a girl paradox

    I don't know, sometimes I rather no interactions than low-quality ones that has you guessing as to if it meets threshold or not. You want a woman to have that spark and energy invested in an interaction where you feel the interaction is amazing and hits to the core rather than something that...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    But it is a warm prospect. If you have no options then you can bend the rules once in a while. Follow your gut.
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    Would you guys watch this movie?

    Yes,.a while back, one of those watch before its removed from streamer because of licensing type of deal. Was a decent 50s setting movie but it had a nice story to it...I'd be willing to re-watch it again because it was a nice-watch movie. I remember it was Ryan Gosling and Amy Adams that...
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    We are prize but We have to go approach a girl paradox

    Don't horray me, it looks like my luck has run out and I'm heading back to those videos / type of videos again.
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    We are prize but We have to go approach a girl paradox

    Yes, youtube is a game changer because there is allot of personalized video options and they even make recommendations to you based on your viewing habits. If you just want a woman talking to you on a screen then you have like a zillion options, news, ASMR vids, plus you can watch them...
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    Would you guys watch this movie?

    I like the vibe of the movie trailer and think it has an overall vibe that I think I might have a nice-watch experience watching this, assuming there is an actual story that checks out rather than being just "eye-candy". May not like the "lesbian scenes on it" (ie if it's implied women are...
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    Cringe Lunch or personal Social Experiment?

    I was having a coaching session with my boss (who is a guy) yesterday. While we were talking to each other, I think this lady came in the room to get some water (I sensed her, but did not see her). However, she did not come back out and was talking to another guy there (not...
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    Cringe Lunch or personal Social Experiment?

    The thread began in March. I thought relations had got worsened with her since there is no longer any polite social interactions with her. It's like I avoided her once or refused eye-contact with her or whatever and she's not the same like before. She didn't even say thank-you when I held...
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    Cringe Lunch or personal Social Experiment?

    The subject lady is the same company, but say different division, within the same office building. Could you explain what the nature of your falling out was and how you ended up hating her? I do not hate the subject lady and she's not behaving in a way that she's going out of her way to avoid...
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    my female next door neighbor

    If you want attention you, may I suggest going on youtube. You can get plenty of vlogs of people, especially women, talking to you on the screen. It's better than nothing. To write something like that, means you need to see some good videos.
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