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When a oneitis vibe resonates with certain youtube music videos, and you put a playlist together, then it probably helps to delete that type of playlist. I accidentally let my onetis know about that (was supposed to be saved draft rather than send but was accodentally sent) and deleted the...

Even with women over 40 years old who can't have kids because of age?

I don't know if that's realistic advice with me since women are too vastly different compared to guys. There is just a gulf of difference to say "talk to her like a guy". It should be, talk to her like an elderly lady, or a woman you are not attracted to, or female cousin/sister, rather than a...

Good article. It undermines the idea that if there is a drastic reduction of male competition in dating apps that it's better off for guys to meet women. A funny aspect of the article, is when a lady thought she was meeting a hot guy, then she looked at his leg and saw it was amputated, then...

The issue is simple. You are losing desire for her because she is not presenting any challenge to you at all. She says she loves you, is happy and giggles, and frankly, it just looks like the novelty has worn out and you are already tired of her. You wrote on another thread, when a woman...

You may have technically mis-read it, but there is good meaning on how you replied to it. I had replied back as well.

Your facial genetics might be in the top 5%. If you average out other aspects of your body it would put you outside of that. But you've said there is some genetic lottery in terms of how your face is which is causing women to be attracted to you. You also put in some work, to your credit, to...

Isn't that what MGTOW is about? Yet, when people talk about MTGOW on here then they derided by some posters as a cope and that women would not want them anyway. Allot of guys are opting out of the dating market or dealing with women altogether and living out that "hypothetical" side of the...

I see why I'm feeling a bit sore lately. Yeah, I had a co-worker like that but that fizzled out. It was somewhat like that between April-mid June, then things took a turn. It was the beginning of the end when a new guy joined the team that she was just more into than me and things were on a...

That only works with chad/chad-lite tier guys. Women don't tend to intite if you don't have the looks. In a sense, pursuing a woman anywhere always entails risks, even if it is not at work. After all, all she has to do is call the police, if you get the wrong cop and something shows up...

Is this the same manager? How do you categorize having a "work spouce" --- what are you both doing?

In all fairness, I'm giving a current portrayal. It's goes up and down in terms of social dynamics. It's like waves and phases. Sometimes you have a nice connection with someone one day, then something happens, and you are like strangers the next day and vice versa...maybe some new face comes...

Oh, I didn't know this was all past experience. 2021 is a far ways back. What "less than obvious" clues have you been getting currently?

I'm posting here and don't have an account on incels.com so that might not be true. I got banned from incel boards in the past. Guess I don't get along with anyone, lol!

yeah, that would explain it.

You don't have lunch at similar times as other female co-workers? You don't communicate over zoom with other female co-workers? I don't think that is the reason. I'm just amogged to death. I'm a bald 48 year old guy. How am I going to compete with guys in thier 20s? The fix is in. I'm...

What about the other co-workers/female bosses?

All childsplay. OP has nothing to worry about. He should warm approach and pursue his leads at work.

She's not attracted to any other guy at work? I mean, if she threw herself on another co-worker, how would that make you feel? Why would you say the risk is higher for dating and hooking-up? That means the lady is attracted to you. Why would a lady who is attracted to you cause any trouble?

The OP admits to having GREAT interactions (just not to the point of them throwing themselves at him) with his co-workers on his job. Do you want me to find the post where he said that? I think we must be reading two different things. He is saying, most people OUTSIDE of work, OUTSIDE of...