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    Don’t know what to do in friendzone

    Go nuclear in person. If she rejects you then you dont have a what if lingering in the back of your mind, and can pursue your studies with a clear head. She wont "reject" you harshly, if she does, so there is nothing to worry about and it would feel like a greenlight to move on. If you...
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    How do you guys avoid getting attached?

    Probably the most helpful post of this thread. It's good to hear incel to slayer stories on here. Perhaps you have the best of both worlds. The way you were, when you are invisible, helps you to appreciate what you have right now, as you have that attraction or pull with the ladies. Maybe...
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    Movies/Music videos in the 80s that would never be created today

    Found another video you probably won't find be made in today's climate, lol: Made in 1984.
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    Don’t know what to do in friendzone

    Oh...and let me guess, if she gets wierded out then it would "make things awkward" between them?
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    Don’t know what to do in friendzone

    Why not? What doe she do when you try to push the envelope? Did you try to french kiss her and she offered her cheek instead?
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    How do you guys avoid getting attached?

    Thanks for clarifying this. It's important that we don't have too much of a cartoonish character in our heads about some of these people otherwise it becomes easy to get blackpilled and just dismiss everything. It does sound like the best investment one can make to get into the zone is to...
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    Do you guys feel nothing from media (movies, shows, songs) that romanticize relationships?

    I would put those types of music videos on a playlist, but only play it if I'm having no decent interactions at all with the opposite sex for over two days, or somethin like that, among other videos on that playlist. They are just a cousin of fake girlfriend ASMR videos.
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    How do you guys avoid getting attached?

    That is very helpful.
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    How do you guys avoid getting attached?

    Absolutely, as is the case with sub-8 guys such as yourself that doesn't have that many options as the chad/chadlites and therefore also have actual scarcity. He had zero fear because he had almost no rejection or anything that would spark a negative feedback loop. He sounds like a...
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    Not necessarily. This may not be for everyone, and while I have been censored for the mods for these views, I still strongly believe that ASMR videos do the trick at mimicing emotional intimacy with a woman with me. There is a reason that videos like that get tens of thousands, hundreds of...
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    They might feel completely lost for a moment but then they adjust to a new normal. Everyone does. However, maybe they can't attract other women and they just got lucky with that one. It's not for everyone to be popular with women.
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    In the context of this thread, it means the first woman who is giving you the time of day that you have some chemistry wtih (or believe you have), but she is not attracted to you the same way. If you have abundance, then you are less likely to get obsessed with such a woman because you have...
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    Does Nofap mean no masturbation urge or just enduring it?

    I'll take the bait for a morality arguement. That being the case, then the OP is on the right course to pursue nofap so he can last longer and thus marry someone and spread his seed. He could spread his seed with a real woman therefore he morally should not fap.
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    Well said. It's like the confident sub-5 guy being called aggressive by a lady who does not find him attractive enough to make an approach to her.
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    That reply was not intended for you as I was agreeing with a common sense assertion from the other member. Any reply made directly to you did not have an argumentative tone but actually agreed with what you said by providing a example that you could have a point. That being said, I dont...
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    Agreed, it does sound like that. At least he's not just picking on incels having onetises. He just made a wider net for his "theories' which makes it even more bizzare.
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    Scarcity mindset is not a negative thinking pattern when it is based in reality most of the time

    You feel inadequate if your onetis throws herself on another guy. I ended up hugging the caretaker who was looking after my mother a number of times after I saw that other guy hug oneitis. I also ended up going to a place where I had planned to take her, with the group I was working with to...
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