Does Nofap mean no masturbation urge or just enduring it?

[nelysses]

I started nofap, primarily for physical reasons such as ejaculation even with small contact.

The urge comes but I can resist it. When will the urge to masturbate end? Or will it end? Or will I have to resist it all the time?

 

[BPH]

Dude...why are you doing this?

 

[Agamemnon43]

As long as you are a man, it will last

Unless you got regular sex, then you might not have the need to masturbate. But it's not a given.

Just don't let neither nofap nor masturbation become an addiction

 

[nelysses]

Dude...why are you doing this?

I masturbated too much for a long time.
I realized that this could cause me problems such as premature ejaculation and getting an erection too quickly.
I met a new girl and this ejaculation problem is happening even without having anything sexual going on.
When I did some research online, I saw that this would work. Some people confirmed it in this forum as well.

In short, I became addicted to masturbation and they said the best way to quit was to quit suddenly and then return to normal over time.

 

[nelysses]

Dude...why are you doing this?

As long as you are a man, it will last

Unless you got regular sex, then you might not have the need to masturbate. But it's not a given.

Just don't let neither nofap nor masturbation become an addiction

I'll be honest, I noticed that I had an erection and even ejaculated even while chatting on normal topics on Instagram and I made this decision..

 

[BaronOfHair]

When will the urge to masturbate end?

When the gangbanger who's carjacking you in the parking lot at CVS pulls the trigger on his Saturday Night Special, fills your chest with lead, and ends your life. Presumably, anyway... Opinions vary as to whether or not we all remain randy in The Hereafter

 

[BPH]

You know, a better solution to nofap is learning how to talk to girls so they can solve that problem for you...

I hate how many people jump on nofap like it's gonna make them super focused and improve how they are with women...really it's more likely to end in a wet dream and ruined sheets for you since you're not getting any release.

 

[nelysses]

You know, a better solution to nofap is learning how to talk to girls so they can solve that problem for you...

I hate how many people jump on nofap like it's gonna make them super focused and improve how they are with women...really it's more likely to end in a wet dream and ruined sheets for you since you're not getting any release.

Actually, no, I'm not doing this to improve myself with women.
As I said, I met a woman and I am doing it for the premature ejaculation I mentioned.
that "I'll be honest, I noticed that I had an erection and even ejaculated even while chatting on normal topics on Instagram and I made this decision.." message on top.


Actually, if you look at it, yes, I was wrong.

The small city problems I mentioned still continue. My weight problems too. But I realized that the solution to none of this is to sit here and browse the forum.
Then I met a girl in the library I went to while studying for the exam. I don't know if it's positive or negative, but even though I'm myself (I don't think I'm too masculine, maybe more childish), we get along well with the girl.

Even though I thought I was very bad socially and couldn't speak, it wasn't actually like that. I could talk, I just wasn't in the right social environment.

As I said at the beginning, small town problems.. Actually, I love it too. I cannot be myself in crowded environments, which I find insincere.

But that's not what nofap is about. I used to make 25 faps a week. It's no different than drug addiction for me anymore.
I decided to do this because there are more priorities in my life than women.
Also you know. When I masturbate, I don't even want to go out. It gives me artificial satisfaction...

 

[nelysses]

I don't know man. I'm so confused about my life. I hope ıt's about my age.. Sometimes I feel like "I want every girl" and one day later I feel like "Idgaf about women" then the same cycle again.

You're probably bored of me and I may be a hopeless case but I just wanna say thank you..

 

[BaronOfHair]

I don't know man. I'm so confused about my life. I hope ıt's about my age.. Sometimes I feel like "I want every girl" and one day later I feel like "Idgaf about women" then the same cycle again

Welcome to humanity, hoss. It doesn't get any easier

 

[BPH]

I used to make 25 faps a week.

You don't have an addiction problem, you have a time problem - as in you have too much free time.

Go to the gym, have sex with women, start building a business...you have options...no fap will happen by default at that point. It feels like you're looking for every solution EXCEPT the ones that will actually improve your life, so why don't we try this:

Picture in your head the man you want to become, and do the things he would do. I guarantee he's not masturbating 25 times a week.

 

[nelysses]

Welcome to humanity, hoss. It doesn't get any easier

You don't have an addiction problem, you have a time problem - as in you have too much free time.

Go to the gym, have sex with women, start building a business...you have options...no fap will happen by default at that point. It feels like you're looking for every solution EXCEPT the ones that will actually improve your life, so why don't we try this:

Picture in your head the man you want to become, and do the things he would do. I guarantee he's not masturbating 25 times a week.

Thank you guys I will do my best.
Normally I would write "you said sex with women but im in a small town bla bla" here.
But I realized that wouldn't change anything. I would just be making excuses. So I realized I needed to get into the "find a way" mindset.
I live in a small town and can't meet girls? Okay then find a way.
am I injured my leg and gained weight (I gained 15 kilos in 1 month..) Okay than find a way...

And one last question (I don't think it's the last one but I hope so )

I saw a girl on Instagram. I wrote, we talked, I weigh 2.5 times more than her, I'm fat right now etc. But I feel like she really cares about me.
We'll meet when she gets back from vacation. We've been on the phone for 2 weeks now.
But whatever she says really makes me feel like she's the one for me.

I know I've told people this before but none of them were interested in me. This girl listens to me, she doesn't forget what I say, I have fun while talking, I'm myself and she's the one who keeps the conversation going.

When I think about all this, do you think it's right to give up something for a girl like this?
I spent 6-7 hours talking to her today..
The girl is really beautiful, Her account is private, she only has 140 followers and they are all people she knows. She lives with her family now, she is only 20 years old, inexperienced and shy... She is one of those who does not want sex without a serious relationship.
Sometimes I want my whole life to be like that, but I don't know.

 

[HaleyBaron]

I started nofap, primarily for physical reasons such as ejaculation even with small contact.

The urge comes but I can resist it. When will the urge to masturbate end? Or will it end? Or will I have to resist it all the time?

I always link my past thread to these topics. Which I will put below. But to give a quick in: you're a man. You have high T. You like to have s*x. Because you do not have a woman, thanks to the female led society damning men from purchasing or pursuing the female, you have one other choice. But do not fret, porn exists. There is likely a moral argument there for not spreading your seed, but as long as you keep moderation, go to the gym, and build your social skills to seduce women, fap away.

Trust me, nofap doesn't fix anything and sometimes it makes things worse for men. Also, it takes three days before your tank is replenished semen wise, so us men were made to be ready to **** within a week of the last session.

Porn is not unrealistic and NoFap is not a cure.

I repeatedly hear that porn provides unrealistic expectations to a man, so they aren't able to get hard or horny unless to the most model looking woman that is showcased around sites like pornhub and such. Both men and women feel that porn puts high expectations on them to perform and look their...

www.sosuave.net

 

[corrector]

There is likely a moral argument there for not spreading your seed

I'll take the bait for a morality arguement. That being the case, then the OP is on the right course to pursue nofap so he can last longer and thus marry someone and spread his seed. He could spread his seed with a real woman therefore he morally should not fap.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It means enduring it OP. If you're not embracing the suck that this board promotes you simply ARE NOT WORTHY!!!!

Lolz

 

[BPH]

Thank you guys I will do my best.
Normally I would write "you said sex with women but im in a small town bla bla" here.
But I realized that wouldn't change anything. I would just be making excuses. So I realized I needed to get into the "find a way" mindset.
I live in a small town and can't meet girls? Okay then find a way.
am I injured my leg and gained weight (I gained 15 kilos in 1 month..) Okay than find a way...

And one last question (I don't think it's the last one but I hope so )

I saw a girl on Instagram. I wrote, we talked, I weigh 2.5 times more than her, I'm fat right now etc. But I feel like she really cares about me.
We'll meet when she gets back from vacation. We've been on the phone for 2 weeks now.
But whatever she says really makes me feel like she's the one for me.

I know I've told people this before but none of them were interested in me. This girl listens to me, she doesn't forget what I say, I have fun while talking, I'm myself and she's the one who keeps the conversation going.

When I think about all this, do you think it's right to give up something for a girl like this?
I spent 6-7 hours talking to her today..
The girl is really beautiful, Her account is private, she only has 140 followers and they are all people she knows. She lives with her family now, she is only 20 years old, inexperienced and shy... She is one of those who does not want sex without a serious relationship.
Sometimes I want my whole life to be like that, but I don't know.

I'm really starting to think you need to delete your Instagram at this point.

The stuff you write is so disappointing that sometimes it sounds like you're trolling.

 

[HaleyBaron]

I'll take the bait for a morality arguement. That being the case, then the OP is on the right course to pursue nofap so he can last longer and thus marry someone and spread his seed. He could spread his seed with a real woman therefore he morally should not fap.

My sentiment was more about ****ing multiple women instead of wasting his seed in socks.

 

[SW15]

I hate how many people jump on nofap like it's gonna make them super focused and improve how they are with women...really it's more likely to end in a wet dream and ruined sheets for you since you're not getting any release.

Nofap is a good practice for seduction but I agree with this general idea. Improvements in seduction will be more incremental than substantial with nofap in the medium to long term. Wet dreams will likely increase with nofap.

 

[New Don Juan]

Semen retention/ no fap really helped me keep my life on track.

 

[SW15]

Nofap will mean not masturbating or watching pornography. Men who practice nofap still get horny.