You asked her what her schedule was like and she gave you an answer. I don't see what the problem is.
Why not ask her out with a specific day and time in mind and see what her answer is instead of dancing around the issue with questions like what her schedule is.
If she accepts or gives a...
The question is why do you need a woman to validate your talents?
You should get fulfillment and internal validation from enjoying your hobbies and activities without needing an 18 year old who can't tell her right foot from her left to feed your ego.
If you spend enough time on this forum, you would think BPD only occurs in women.
What about men? What does BPD in men look like? What are the symptoms?
It mostly stems from jealousy. When women get old, attention decreases. They become invisible to younger men and men their age are mostly interested in younger women.
The funny thing is these same older women mostly or only dated older men when they were younger so they have no right to...
Why force the OP to be something his not? He seems very self aware which is much better than many of us who grew up frustrated with women and couldn't quite figure out what was wrong.
At least he knows that a girl he finds attractive has a different man in mind.
What I would suggest to OP is...
There are positives and negatives.
Positives:
- It gives you social proof.
- It's your home turf so you're more likely to be comfortable.
Negatives:
- They could ****block you.
I don't see what's so bad. She has interest so that's a positive. She's only texted twice. One to see if you made up your mind and the other to confirm. Sounds reasonable to me.
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