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  1. Serenity

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    My trauma was different (abusive BPD mother), but I can absolutely relate to how that affects confidence and all that. I can't unsee or undo anything either, it's not like I will ever actually forget what happened, but remembering it doesn't affect my feelings today. Right now I'm thinking...
  2. B

    Tech Bros - I Could Use Your Guidance

    Well, firstly, most companies don't really care about where you graduated from, they simply want to know if you are able to help them solve their problems via proper software design and bug fixing. How do you know your resume is making it past the screening process? This is usually done by AI...
  3. E

    Tech Bros - I Could Use Your Guidance

    I'm a recent graduate with a computer information degree trying to land a position in Software Engineering or Development. The college I graduated from is not known for academic rigor, but the degree is accredited. I've applied to at least 60 positions. My resume is making it past the computer...
  4. jamesfromhouston

    Mixed Signals But Consistent Lays. High IL or Low IL?

    She was out with her friends and there were a bunch of guys orbiting them. Their group was in close proximity to mine and I could overhear one guy in particular who was just trying to DHV his life to her. And he was buying and plying her with drinks. I could see she was amused but not attracted...
  5. Jesse Pinkman

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    Now for the potential resolution. OP, I was never in the most popular fraternity in college or dating the hottest sorority girls. Even after college, I had my struggles in corporate life. I spent part of my 20s compensating for it. Here is some of my advice. Run towards that very thing that...
  6. Jesse Pinkman

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    ...got a lot of time to read. I will break it up into two parts. First the why you are likely feeling this way. You are being impacted by the college hype in mainstream society and that is so hard to separate from. It really is. No matter how Red Pilled we all become, at the end of the day we...
  7. SW15

    Mixed Signals But Consistent Lays. High IL or Low IL?

    ..."sports bars". I have often considered televised sports to be a cocckblocker. I tend to avoid sports bars and alumni events centered around college football or college basketball. How was she being pulled by another guy at the sports bar that first night? I think many men will always try...
  8. B

    Letting go of past trauma that is negatively impacting my confidence

    ...that word("trauma")more abominably than Bobby Brown maligned Whitney Houston, during the duration of their marriage You say this happened in college... Are we talking -Witnessing The Skull And Bones Society sacrifice a newborn to Baphomet in Gamma House's basement or -Your towel falling...
  9. E

    what percentage of you are military ex or current?

    was that due to typical politics?Or did you seduce his girl?
  10. GoodMan32

    Abundance is the most important factor

    Speaking of music festivals, I got a date from a music festival back in 2018. Even better: The woman approached me As beautiful as the broads you posted are, I'd prefer their moms (hell, even some of their moms might be too young for me)
  11. Solomon

    Abundance is the most important factor

    Yup use to go to nightclubs/Bars a whole lot, learned tons from approaching women. Indirect VS direct, How to approach women in the street, etc. Got rejected a lot but also gained tons of experience,however the old saying "Built it and they will come" is truer than ever Now I'm older the game...
  12. B

    what percentage of you are military ex or current?

    Well, you did slather the g-string he wore under his dress uniform in Dave's Insanity Sauce, Belt. More than once. Ain't surprising that the dude didn't have much love for you afterwards
  13. Bible_Belt

    what percentage of you are military ex or current?

    I tried to be an army officer in college, but for some reason I always made senior officers furious. One day my colonel slammed me against a wall until I agreed to quit rotc. As he told me that he would make the rest of my life "a living hell," he punctuated each of those three words with...
  14. GoodMan32

    Abundance is the most important factor

    ...clubs would be miserable for me (they'd be miserable for the vast majority of autists for that matter). Here's a story about an autist who attempted to live a party lifestyle at UCLA. It didn't end well: https://www.businessinsider.com/college-freshman-ucla-autism-social-burn-out-2023-3
  15. Hoodie

    Abundance is the most important factor

    I often see beautiful women in shopping malls, buying clothes etc. Probably more likely to be higher quality, than the ones you find in nightclubs.
  16. FlexpertHamilton

    Abundance is the most important factor

    ...it's kind of a clown show. Grocery stores, parks, social events (like trivia night, or karoake - not a fan of the latter personally), college campuses, sports clubs (rock climbing gyms, yoga/fitness classes, tennis meetup groups, disc golf groups), beaches...and any "3rd place" with lots of...
  17. H

    I don't know what to say to my bro

    As someone who use to hang out with nerds in high school and college, was a semi nerd myself, but basically grew out of that phase but can still talk nerd stuff with nerds, my answer after years of dealing with friends who did not have the ability to pull women is that I tell them to simply be...
  18. B

    American women suck

    That's been on the increase ever since WWII, when the daughters of Nippon began seeing penises OTHER than the ones attached to their own men. Not surprisingly, these gals ceased being satisfied with finger food, when they realized that sirloin existed
  19. Divorced w 3

    What is the expected success rate at college bars?

    Play the jock angle up more - hat (backwards), jeans, sweatshirt - don’t waste good clothes at college bars.
  20. GoodMan32

    American women suck

    I remember way back when I was in college (2011-ish), I heard about a trend in Japan where an alarming amount of young men basically dropped out of the dating/sex marketplace.
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