Abundance is the most important factor

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External events are as miserable, ho-hum, or joyous as our thoughts and beliefs about them dictate, GM
Way to totally disregard the article I shared about how damaging the party lifestyle is for autists.
 

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Way to totally disregard the article I shared about how damaging the party lifestyle is for autists.
Quote that article: "My first few weeks at UCLA FELT like I'd been shot out of a cannon. I was talking to what FELT like a thousand people a day. I exchanged sleep and self-care for going out and partying — mostly because I FELT like I should..."

Being so deeply in his feels,and failing to distinguish his thoughts from his emotions(Textbook Emotional Reasoning)is doing him in, more so than any diagnosis of autism
 

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Quote that article: "My first few weeks at UCLA FELT like I'd been shot out of a cannon. I was talking to what FELT like a thousand people a day. I exchanged sleep and self-care for going out and partying — mostly because I FELT like I should..."

Being so deeply in his feels,and failing to distinguish his thoughts from his emotions(Textbook Emotional Reasoning)is doing him in, more so than any diagnosis of autism
You have no idea what it's like to be an autist.

Even if his claim that he talked to a thousand classmates per day is an exaggeration, normal daily life drains us to a degree normies have a hard time fathoming.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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I use a green pillow case. While I may have done that in the past, I'm under heavy conviction at the moment against those types of copes (aka sin), as I'm listening to various Christians on youtube that are making it very difficult to go there.

For example there is Bella Dodd: Jesus showed her a vision of our soul being battled with whenever, as Christians, we are tempted to look at porn or fap. I've looked at a number of her other videos too. Again, she strikes a balance of having a sobering message if you are taking this type of sin lightly, but is delivering it such a way you can't help but admire her sincerity and can see she has a real connection with Jesus that comes through her videos.


Then there is this lady here, who claims she was single for three years and abstained from fapping, and does not believe in fornication/pre-maritial sex and is waiting for a kingdom spouce;


When entertaining the presence of these "angelic" Christian ladies, and the way they are expressing themselves against "cope-sins" (ie the ones where you "give up' and go there), is honestly taking the mood away from any fapping or watching porn at the moment.

There is going to be allot of cognitive dissonance. Especially with so many Rapture dreams circulating around youtube. It's enough to get anyone on the edge and not want to go there....and potentially miss the Rapture if it happens at the same time.
 

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I use a green pillow case. While I may have done that in the past, I'm under heavy conviction at the moment against those types of copes (aka sin), as I'm listening to various Christians on youtube that are making it very difficult to go there.

For example there is Bella Dodd: Jesus showed her a vision of our soul being battled with whenever, as Christians, we are tempted to look at porn or fap. I've looked at a number of her other videos too. Again, she strikes a balance of having a sobering message if you are taking this type of sin lightly, but is delivering it such a way you can't help but admire her sincerity and can see she has a real connection with Jesus that comes through her videos.


Then there is this lady here, who claims she was single for three years and abstained from fapping, and does not believe in fornication/pre-maritial sex and is waiting for a kingdom spouce;


When entertaining the presence of these "angelic" Christian ladies, and the way they are expressing themselves against "cope-sins" (ie the ones where you "give up' and go there), is honestly taking the mood away from any fapping or watching porn at the moment.

There is going to be allot of cognitive dissonance. Especially with so many Rapture dreams circulating around youtube. It's enough to get anyone on the edge and not want to go there....and potentially miss the Rapture if it happens at the same time.
Bro what is this I don't even. Where is this topic going
 

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Bro what is this I don't even. Where is this topic going
Humping and pumping a pillow is a sign of massive abundance. Prove me wrong.

On a serious note I tell everyone this guy is a troll.
 
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Humping and pumping a pillow is a sign of massive abundance. Prove me wrong.

On a serious note I tell everyone this guy is a troll.
It sounds like you cant make up your mind of whether to attack me or start gaslighting me and acting apologetic when I defend myself. If I am such a troll then put me on ignore and stop making attack posts and then making up bs excuses you meant something else. What is wrong with you?
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Bro what is this I don't even. Where is this topic going
Agreed. People should stay with the topic of the thread and stop attacking me. Having to defend my record of fapping to a crazy heckler poster is insane. It should not even be a sub-subject of this thread.
 

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It sounds like you cant make up your mind of whether to attack me or start gaslighting me and acting apologetic when I defend myself. If I am such a troll then put me on ignore and stop making attack posts and then making up bs excuses you meant something else. What is wrong with you?
Again, some poster first commented awhile back that you are a troll, when you were banned with Mr. Amsterdam you were accused of reporting people, and now we have Flex here insinuating about the thread going off-topic when you just wrote 5 paragraphs about hunping a pillow and trying not to do it again even though it is one of your urges.

Actually, I am not sure what’s wrong with you. I am not sure if you need to self-reflect why drama always follows you around or if you are not self-aware of all the garbage and crap you post, especially in a “seduction”, “talking to women”, and “dating strategies” forum.
 

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Again, some poster first commented awhile back that you are a troll, when you were banned with Mr. Amsterdam you were accused of reporting people, and now we have Flex here insinuating about the thread going off-topic when you just wrote 5 paragraphs about hunping a pillow and trying not to do it again even though it is one of your urges.

Actually, I am not sure what’s wrong with you. I am not sure if you need to self-reflect why drama always follows you around or if you are not self-aware of all the garbage and crap you post, especially in a “seduction”, “talking to women”, and “dating strategies” forum.
You are on ignore. Have a nice life.
 

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You are on ignore. Have a nice life.
I didn’t expect you to get so butthurt, but I guess I shouldn’t expect much from someone whose trolling game has been exposed. The truth hurts, and it’s typical for those narcissistics to run away when caught.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If I were you I’d stop. He reports people and you can’t criticize the trash he posts.
Wasn't criticizing anyone specifically, so much as I was speaking to the social atmosphere The Anglosphere has been immersed in, from '16-the present. It doesn't take much to upset anyone these days
 

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All I know is that dating more than one girl makes you less needy and more critical of the ones you are dating as you compare them against each other.

As to how to create abundance, I think you need to have your own angle. What works for one person beyond the basics (work out, dress well, be confident, be able to hold a conversation, know how to flirt and create humour etc) will not necessarily work for another.

Unfortunately once you head down the road of plate spinning it’s very hard to commit to one girl. There’s always new women, new personalities to explore and new experiences to have. It’s a curse.
 

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How do you put yourself out there? Where are the chicks? Should we go knocking door to door to find them? Drag them out of the house?
I am intrigued to hear his answer to your question.

His comment that he used to get rejected 10-50 times per night suggests he's talking about night clubs (If so, I'd like to hear an alternative for those of us for whom night clubs aren't our cup of tea)
Yup use to go to nightclubs/Bars a whole lot, learned tons from approaching women. Indirect VS direct, How to approach women in the street, etc. Got rejected a lot but also gained tons of experience,however the old saying "Built it and they will come" is truer than ever



Now I'm older the game has changed and my focus is more based on my lifestyle

IMO best places to put yourself out there

  • Fashion events
  • Boat parties
  • Food Festivals
  • Art festivals
  • House Parties
  • Fashion Parties
  • Restaurants with special events (or specials)
  • Music Festivals
  • Social circle get-together
  • Sporting events (some of the hottest women I've ever seen go to baseball/Football games)

Do something that resonates with your lifestyle and personality IMO building a social circle (even if it's only 2 guys) is far more fulfilling than hitting up the club every weekend doing set after set after set after set




Think of your social life as a business when you first start you gotta work hard and put the work in, however the more you improve and keep at it, eventually, it starts to scale and it makes it easier and better profit. The same kind of applies to meeting women. When you build a life that is fun and cool it becomes easier to meet them.
 

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Yup use to go to nightclubs/Bars a whole lot, learned tons from approaching women. Indirect VS direct, How to approach women in the street, etc. Got rejected a lot but also gained tons of experience,however the old saying "Built it and they will come" is truer than ever



Now I'm older the game has changed and my focus is more based on my lifestyle

IMO best places to put yourself out there

  • Fashion events
  • Boat parties
  • Food Festivals
  • Art festivals
  • House Parties
  • Fashion Parties
  • Restaurants with special events (or specials)
  • Music Festivals
  • Social circle get-together
  • Sporting events (some of the hottest women I've ever seen go to baseball/Football games)

Do something that resonates with your lifestyle and personality IMO building a social circle (even if it's only 2 guys) is far more fulfilling than hitting up the club every weekend doing set after set after set after set




Think of your social life as a business when you first start you gotta work hard and put the work in, however the more you improve and keep at it, eventually, it starts to scale and it makes it easier and better profit. The same kind of applies to meeting women. When you build a life that is fun and cool it becomes easier to meet them.
Speaking of music festivals, I got a date from a music festival back in 2018. Even better: The woman approached me

As beautiful as the broads you posted are, I'd prefer their moms (hell, even some of their moms might be too young for me)
 
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