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At this point in my life, success would be making out with a woman. I cannot remember how many years ago it was that I did that last.

My main insecurity is my height. At 5'6, It sucks always being the shortest one in the group. It really sucks when I see a girl taller than me because I know that she will never give me the time of day. So I weight train to try and get bigger so I won't feel like any random guy can kick my...

Interesting videos. I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind. Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding :(

I present exhibit A. Actually it's more like exhibit JJ :p

Wow only 13 votes. So nobody else goes on dates?

I liked many of Nate Dogg's songs. It is sad to see him go so soon. Wherever he goes, he'll have hoes.

I think I have the answer to that. Most likely, women have never been interested in me. Since I have never received any interest signals, I lowered my gaze and started to consider friendliness as interest. Which of course there never was any interest. So which mindset is best? "Girls don't...

It was enough to leave me very confused. Most girls aren't that nice to me and I rarely ever get hugged. It was enough odd behavior for me to take a risk on it. I never thought she had high interest. And it's ridiculous to think that a girl would like me enough to make sure to come to class to...

LOL! You've been a member since 2003 and you don't know who I am? I'm the board's resident clueless chump. How is that? I'm not the kind of guy who seduces woman so I wouldn't know. I've also never had a GF to cheat on me. It seems to happen pretty frequently to me. Unless the girl never was...

Thanks for your input. I'm personally in the camp that the time of day doesn't matter but I keep hearing that night is best. When I first spend some time out with a girl I prefer to do it during the day doing something relaxed where we can get to know each other.

Explain why if you can. Also, what do you typically do?

That is so messed up but it makes sense. The last time it happened was with a girl in my salsa class. She was super friendly, flirty, and a blast to dance with. On the day I was going to ask her out, I had a conversation with her asking how her weekend was; and she said she went to a party with...

And here I am again. That's the same thing as telling a white belt that in order to beat a black belt, he must be a karate master. Somebody really needs to write a guide on how to be a sexual threat. Guys with no sexual experience don't have a clue how to do it. I'd have a better chance using...

Problem is, artsy nerdy girls aren't much easier to get than "normal" girls. I've been rejected by two of them so far.

The problem is that I'm actually able to make dates and sometimes actually go on a couple. What happens with that is that I get my hopes up and become excited. Then I get devastated when they cancel or friendzone me. Roughly this time last year I had scheduled a date with a girl that I...

Crap! So how am I supposed to tell if I actually have a chance with a girl? I read bubbly and fun to interact with as potentially interested. So on Monday I suggested that we go get lunch after class but because of the circumstances she couldn't go and rescheduled to today. And once...

I posted a thread on my latest misadventures with a girl over on a different relationship forum. It basically chronicled my thoughts how I was starting to think that she might be interested but I had been in this situation before and didn’t know if she was just being friendly. Last time it...

Dude, you answered your own question! What the hell are you waiting for?! I'm known for waiting too long to make moves on women. But damn dude, if a girl ever told me that she wanted to kiss me, I would kiss her!

If the shopping center has many entrances then you need to coordinate where to meet up, what time to arrive and all that stuff. I think it's best to just arrange to meet inside the coffee shop. Simpler that way.

I always do a real hug. A kiss on the cheek seems to brazen for me, yes I am a wuss :whistle: What's most confusing for me is what to do at the end of the date. I guess it depends on the logistics of the date itself.