Search results

What's the next step after small talk? I've been way socially underdeveloped most of my life. I'm more outgoing than I used to be but my social life still is a joke. I'm starting to get a lot of acquaintances but still no friends.

Heh, I've already said hi to her and spent some time with her in a group situation. She knows who I am. We were even partners in a relay race. I just haven't had a real conversation with her that lasted more than a minute. I do think you have a point that PUA stuff making things more...

Uh, if hookers were legal, clean and inexpensive; I'd be getting one every month instead of going years between them. Heck maybe I'd actually do better with real women since I'd be in a better mode from getting some on a regular bases. Also I'd probably be more willing to take risks since if I...

WTF is wrong with me? Honestly I don't know. Or it could be that I think I know and those beliefs just limit me. I could give 10 solid reasons, then somebody will come in and give a rebuttal as to why those reasons are invalid. Giving advice on how to write a term paper is easy. The key...

Wow, great ideas Leper. Thanks :up:

Would you mind mentioning some things you like to do at night Social Leper? Also what if the girl doesn't like to drink?

Is improving your body the best (only) way to get women back interested in you? Then when women are more attracted to you, you get more dates and your confidence starts to rebuild?

I'm not surprised there is so much confusion on this issue. I'm not going to deny that night dates are a great way, probably the best way to lead to sex. But when you aren't looking to get laid that day, what's the point to going out at night? There are more interesting things to do for a...

LOL then that answers that question. Approaching women isn't the same thing as sleeping with 10 women. I do approach and occasionally get numbers, I never get laid. At this point in my life I would be super happy if I could sleep with one girl. I don't care who she is. Just as long as she...

Huh? What are you talking about?

Meh, I didn't read his entire post before I posted. Now I read it, and there still isn't anything Gee, that's helpful. A homeless man walks up to another man. Hobo: "You have any change to spare, I haven't eaten in days." Other guy: "Go buy a steak. It will fill you up." Hobo: "I can't...

That reminds me of this article. One key part that stood out was. "...suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her.."...

It depends on what you are willing to put up with. If you can keep your feelings in-check and keep being friends, then that's good. Another thing you can do is keep trying to get closer to her and try to make moves on her. Most likely it won't lead anywhere. But at least you will know that you...

OK, so basically if you want anything from her, it's not going to work. In the past, when I made a female friend, I did so because I wanted her. Her friends were never the goal. But of course I wouldn't mind being introduced to them. Even though I've since abandoned the friends first route...

GFTOW has always been a stupid idea worthless idea. Of course it sounds good. But come on, if a guy is having oneitis for a chick and having problems with her, do you really think he even has one other girl he can **** let alone 10? Of course not. Unless you're somehow going to hook a dude up...

Oh, that's pretty interesting. So you LJBF them, and they come to you when they have stuff they want to invite you to. Or if they want to introduce you to somebody. That's the problem I kept going though. Man, there is so much I need to learn about social circle game. But I can't find a...

I know. That's why I'm trying my hardest to hide it when I'm out and about. Also when I'm actually around girls I have fun and my depression seems to fade away. But when I get home, ugh.

Dude, that's not depression. Depression is there 24/7, always eating you. It makes you feel like **** but if you're lucky, you might have a day where you feel normal. For me, along with my depression there is an ever present rage just waiting to be unleashed. When I'm alone, it's very easy to...

Hasn't happened yet. Although there is constant war going on in my head. The AFC side also has depression as the cavalry.

I have no idea. I'm going to college and I simply can't figure out how to get anywhere with the girls here.